Like many of us, I spend a lot of time at my computer, not just on our great site but other places too. I have some really good friends, particularly on this site, from all over the world. My husband is always complaining about the time I spend on the computer. He wants me to sit and watch TV (which I hate) We have a lot of arguments about this.

What are your experiences?

Ben bilgisayarda çok zaman harcıyorum. And I'm not very happy about this. I need to buy a second desk because my desk with the computer on it feels less atractive to me for other things, for instance for reading and writing.

Hi again Lyndie

Actually Lyndie I had this problem with my husband because it was him that spend too much time on the Computer and not enough time with Life! he also has many chat friends from all-over the world, but I had to help him "Wake up and Smell the Roses" or Life would just pass you by if you didn't go out into the real world sometimes.

It's sad to see too many people spending way too much time on the Computer and not enough time with real-life friends and family, but if you happened to meet any nice chat friends in person then that is fine too. I mean sure there are times when it's boring outside or no one around to hang out with, so the Computer becomes a companion for us because it connects us to others out there in the world, but it's not always good.

I can understand you not wanting to watch TV, it's also boring for me too,but you had a great idea about doing something romantic with a loved one maybe you can try that with your husband and also think of other things to do together. since my husband now spends less time on it it has bought us even much closer then before

Hmm....i can see what you are saying. But it is not actually me he wants to spend time with, because he doesn't mind if I spend all night cleaning the kitchen!

i dont know
i havent got married

im married 2 lyndie and it just seems so 1 sided what ur doing i can relate with ur hubby u should try doing something as a couple its not healtthy being on a computer all hours u gonna pickle ur brain i can see its starting to take affect.hahahha just joking heheheh