Sevmeyi deyil sevilmeyi ogren

My try as learner: first a few corrections to spelling:

Sevmeyi değil, sevilmeyi öğren.

And my attempt:

Learn not to love but (how) to be loved.

 yes thats rıght

My try.

You´d better know to be loved rather than to love.

Know (learn) not to be loved but to love.