You will never win with a turk man. İt's not do as i do but do as i say. İt is a double standard rule here. But keep fighting. İ have found if i give way he walks right over me. İf i stand and argue back. İ come out with my self respect. Dont lose it please

Yes, I had an argument with one, and I feel I got the better of him, this was over business. I had him very concerned what I said to him.

That evening he came into computer room in restaurant I used, and sat like Big Chief Sitting Bull, staring at me, not saying a word but I think trying to intimidate me.

Well, I argue with my boyfriend sometimes, but I star it and I finish it because he doesn't want to fight with me...
But I know he's an exeption...maalesef

ahmmm...maybe it is typical for turkish men to be dominating but so far i haven't experience that with my bf now. )

I also think that it depends on the area that these Turkish men are from. Some regions are more modern where as others are still very traditional and concervative, where women are stay at home providors. I have found that men are men, no matter what nationality they are. I think what seperates them is their socio-economic environment.

Just my two cents....

i really dont think it has anything to do with being turkish. i myself am a man and i find it degrading to give in, regardless of what the argument is about especially with my girl. but my girl is smart she knows me and knows how to manipulate me forexample she will agree with me and then twist my word into hers thus making my statement what she wants it to be. haha you are a woman make use of your god given power of manipulation. it is your right! take care selam

couldnt help but notice the girls who said about not having arguments say they are their boyfriends, just wait until the ring is on your finger. nearly everyone in my life is turkish now, and i have seen them ALL change after marriage.

Hey kirsty...

what would you say changed after marriage.? Just curious to hear your perspective?

Thanks
T

im sure turkish men can be dominating etc but i dont think we should just classify the men as turks, because there are alot of men in the world from other countries doing the same thing, but perhaps to a greater extreme. i think if my man didnt try and be at least a little dominating Id be worried its there man hood and as someone said us women can be quite manipulating if we want and if the cards are played right why can we have our own way whilst making our men happy also hehe both parties are happy and therefore no arguments Just trust each other, respect each other, and love each other
hehe anyways!!!!!!!!!!