but its a big difference. u and ur wife are from the same
country, same language, culture, religion.
and isnt it true that she is a relative to u?
sofia said this to me. so why dont u tell me this?
i know u are trying to convince me for ömers sake,
but u cant. u cant compare u and ur wife, with me
and ömer. it is not the same thing.
let me ask u something, imagine u had a daughter,
and she fell in love with a christian guy in another
country, with different culture, and he had been in prison,
and working with illegal job. would u give him a chance
to marry your daughter? i dont think so.

most girls in my country would not care what their parents
tell them about their boyfriends, but i do.
if i want to live in a dream world, i would stay with ömer.
but at some point in your life u have to face the reality.
if my parents would say to me, "yes lets go and meet ömer
and talk with him." and they would like him. then i swear
to god i would never ever in my life leave him.

but its a big difference. = ama bu büyük bir fark

u and ur wife are from the same country, same language, culture, religion. and isnt it true that she is a relative to u? = sen ve karın aynı ülkedensiniz, aynı dil, kültür, din. ve o senin akraban, doğru değil mi?

sofia said this to me. so why dont u tell me this? = sofia söyledi bunu bana. öyleyse sen neden anlatmadın bana bunu

i know u are trying to convince me for ömers sake, but u cant. = biliyorum ki Ömer´in hatırına beni inandırmaya çalışıyorsun, ama yapamazsın

u cant compare u and ur wife, with me and ömer. = sen karın ve kendini Ömer ve bana göre kıyaslayamazsın

it is not the same thing.  = bu aynı şey değil

let me ask u something, imagine u had a daughter, and she fell in love with a christian guy in another country, with different culture, and he had been in prison, and working with illegal job.= izin ver sana bazı şeyler sorayım, bir kızın olduğunu düşün ve o başka ülkede hristiyan bir adama aşık oldu, farklı kültürle, ve adam hapse girdi ve yasadışı bir işte çalışıyor

 would u give him a chance to marry your daughter? = kızınla evlenme şansını ona verir miydin?

i dont think so. = ben pek sanmıyorum

most girls in my country would not care what their parents tell them about their boyfriends, but i do. = ülkemdeki çoğu kız, ebeveynlerinin onlar ve erkek arkadaşları hakkında ne söylediklerini umursamazlardı ama ben önemserim

 
if i want to live in a dream world, i would stay with ömer. = eğer bir hayal dünyasında yaşamak isteseydim, Ömer ile kalabilirdim

but at some point in your life u have to face the reality. = ama hayatındaki bazı noktalarda gerçekle yüzleşmek zorundasın

if my parents would say to me, "yes lets go and meet ömer and talk with him." and they would like him. =  eğer ebeveynlerim deselerdi ki bana " evet hadi gidelim, Ömerle tanışalım ve konuşalım" ve seveceklerdi onu

then i swear to god i would never ever in my life leave him. = o zaman Allah´a yemin ederim ki ben asla bırakmazdım onu

thank you!!