Dear Maddam ( name),

I apologise for the inconvenience but I need share smth important about your elder son. I believe you might not be aware of any of the things I am going to say. He did say he has mentioned me to you but I am not really sure if this is truth or not.

What has happened is that in the past 5 months, since he found me, he does comes and leaves my life as much as he pleases, he makes promises that he cant keep since he always changes his mind, but he isnt dealing with an object without feelings... Things are good only when they are according to what is better for himself, if someone says otherwhise, he immediately changes and dissapears, besides getting aggresive.

The first time we met, he seemed sweet and good, he started talking about serious things like taking me to meet you in the weekend,eternal love and even marriage... Then in the morning of the day he was supposed to take me there ( I even know if you are aware of that) he just claimed that he didnt trust me and left me without any news until the end of March.During this week he said he was supposed to go to Antalya to help his aunt move to Istambul but I found out it was a lie. He was just ashamed to say that he was in a difficut finantial situation and have no money to see me.

When he recontacted me a month later, he apologised and begged my forgiveness and I did forgive him in order to give him a chance. We had agreed to meet on the weekend but again in the morning of the day we were going to do it, he changed his behaviour to a very strange mood, said that his best friend was leaving to the army and that he needed to go to a dinner to say goodbye to him and just stopped contacting me.I cant tell if it was truth or not

Then, 2 months passed and I thought I wouldnt hear from him again, but he did contact me and again begged my forgiveness and promised never dissapear again. But most of the times we agreed to meet, in the last minute he just sent a message saying he wasnt coming anymore and that I should understand that he is a busy person. The last time we have decided to meet  it was in the past weekend, but he sent a very tough message saying that he has never promised to come and that he was busy and that he wouldnt discuss it. I beg your pardon, but in my house such behaviour is totally out of question, it is unacceptable and abusive. He never did anything for me of good, he never supported me with money, this is something I wouldnt stand even from my father. Then, during the week, wethever he pleased, he jsut messaged me to say he was coming, meaning, I always had to be available to see him when he pleased, it wasnt about me, but abt himself all the time.

So, because I was tired of being made fun of, I spent 2 days without saying anything to him. Yesterday I said we had to talk and not just by messages as he used to do, but he didnt let me say what I wanted, he just wrote that he wasnt going to speak to me again because I am not an understanding person, even after all he did, he still believes he has the right to say such thing. 

I was just going to say that I was fed up with all this lies and selfishness and that relationships have 2 sides,  not only his, and that love is far away to be what he was giving me all the times he came to my life and messed with it, and then would call things off. Sorry but I am not used to falsehood, selfishness  and lies. This wasnt the way I grew up. 

In order to avoid that to happens again I might just take a report from the police to keep him away from my life in case he ever decides to bother me again.

Thank you for your understanding...

Really!!! If you are finished with him why waste your time  to have a message like this translated and contacting his mother. Do you think she is going to spank him or something? If you knew how sick this letter makes you out to be... basically you are telling his mother you are a door mat and not of value to let someone to walk all over you and  just tattletelling about it.

I hope you decide you are better than all this aggravation and just quietly move on. Most likely this man has shown that you are just a playtoy to him and he takes you out when he wants to. 

move on and good luck in finding someone who will treat you with respect.

Before anybody elses judges it, this isnt for myself. Just trying to hlp someone since my translations skills sucks

Lady_Helpful

Thanks for clarifying that it is not you.

 I would suggest to you to give her same message she does not have to continue. If he calls - don´t answer - if she see´s him - cross the street and find a safe place - if he threatens her - scream for police and have him arrested - you can not have police tell him to not call unless he has broken the law with threats of violence.

but to whine to his mother is of no use this is a man not a boy - he can do as he wants without his mothers permission. Would be better for her to just walk away.......

This is a very long text. Why do you women always have to write long?

because you men dont listen us...

Maybe that is because you dont tell us what we want to hear

we love to tell 100 words instead of 2

Yes and no are more than enough