My father is American, as am I...My husband is turkish though, hence, why Im here in Turkey. My dad wants to migrate and live over here in Turkey and hes always saying hes not worried about the language (as if it comes really easy) he just says hes only worried about finding a means to make money.. However, I feel that...not knowing how to speak the language is a BIG handicap. I tell my dad to start studying turkish now before he ever tries to move here, and to at least advance to a level to where he can speak Turkish enough to be able to do basic things like grocery shopping, or getting around on his own with a taxi or bus service. But, he doesnt study at all. I almost think he feels that he can do what I did, and just come here and learn as he lives here. However, Im still not even speaking at a level thats good enough yet...and definitely not good enough to land a job nor support myself cause I wouldnt be able to communicate. But, Its different for me because I dont have to work..My dad is in his 40´s and would be bringing my mom over here and they both dont know anything about how Turkish society works, the language, jobs, etc. How likely from what I described do you think it would be for him to move here? I feel its highly unlikely as hes getting older and the language does not come easy like he makes it seem. He thinks it will because he sees that im advancing and when I show him I know a few sentences or vocabulary in turkish he acts like im fluent already (im far from it) so he thinks it will come easy for him. But he has absolutely NO knowledge of the language what so ever.
Have any of you guys known or experienced moving to turkey without speaking the language and adapting and learning? Is it possible?
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