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Nayda, i promise you i did not know this religious marriage meant nothing,in my mind it was a promise for us to get officially married . i was 4 years with this guy, i knew he was the man i would have children and spend all my life with..I would never had children or sleep with him, if i knew this marriage meant nothing and he was not honest about this religious marriage..well this how one learns the hard way, men who decieve one and lie..but i never get married, i keep my promise to Allah in this religious marriage i made and move on and take care my children..my little boy is my heart and soul, so he brings so much love in my life, Allah gave him for a reason to me and the baby i am pregnat with, Allah gives baby´s with reasons, so i see what this reason is...at least this guy will have to answer to Allah not me..thank you all your comments.. Have a great day...
You can try to force him to pay for his kids thru legal courts, if you can prove that (a) he is their father, (b) that you have been lead into pregnacy trusting a false promise of marriage.
(a) is easy enough to prove thru genetic (medical) examinations, provided that the court rules so,
(b) may be hard to prove, unless you have witnesses., photographs, letters etc
I do not know further legal details to help you. I suggest you seek assistance from a competent lawyer, experienced in similar cases.
Good luck !
Edited (9/25/2013) by AlphaF
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