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Lots of unnecessary messages
1.       russianlady
5 posts
 19 Jul 2006 Wed 08:17 pm

Hello
My name is Svetlana and I join only today, I have been getting alot of messages some asking my age and things about me, I do want make friends but messages are getting too much. Maybe I will have to look somewhere else
have good day Svetlana

2.       erdinc
2151 posts
 19 Jul 2006 Wed 08:44 pm

With such a nice picture in your profile it is not a surprise I think. Please report them as spam by pressing the "spam" button on the message.

You can also consider removing or changing your picture but this is your choice. Bye.

3.       Aenigma
0 posts
 19 Jul 2006 Wed 10:05 pm

I agree! You are very beautiful and you will probably get many PMs because of your photo. You do not have to reply to them, but mostly there are great people on this site and you may make some good friends. Not ALL men are BAD haha (I know it is hard to believe )!!!

4.       MrX67
2540 posts
 20 Jul 2006 Thu 12:01 am

never lock friendship doors,a simple friendly knock my full with surprices

5.       bliss
900 posts
 20 Jul 2006 Thu 12:31 am

Здравствуй, Светлана!

I am russian too and do not have any pictures of myself in the picture gallery but get many PMs as well.
I do not think your picture has to do something with this.
I just want to tell that our lovely classmates are interested to make many friends here and that's why they ask you about your age and ask personal questions. Of course it is fare enough to know whom they will "talk" to.
It is up to you to answer them or not but my rule is to answer them all even you do not want to continue the friendship they offer you.
Have a great time and feel at home as we all do.
Welcome!
Best regards Bliss.

6.       Daydreamer
3743 posts
 20 Jul 2006 Thu 01:36 am

PMs here are sometimes annoying, especially those which don't say more than "I like sex." I don't think it's a matter of personal pictures - most of us upload them because we feel so comfortable and "at home" here that we don't mind letting others see what we look like. Uploading a personal picture doesn't mean we're looking for online dates. However some people don't respect that - I even put a piece of info saying that I'm not interested in that kind of PMs but, still, i keep getting them. If you're not interested just do what I do - ignore them!

7.       Aenigma
0 posts
 20 Jul 2006 Thu 01:38 am

I agree. And...really...I think it is easy for men to tell which girls are just being friendly and which are looking for men!! Some of the bikini photos in particular must give a clue lol!

8.       qdemir
813 posts
 20 Jul 2006 Thu 12:39 pm

You might not be looking for a boyfriend, but
don't you,ladies, like to be flattered with such messages?
If not any man having seen your pic doesn't make an offer
what you will say to yourselves is "Aren't I beautiful? Yes, I am. Why does nobody send me a message making an offer then? I guess the men here can not see the beauty"

9.       sophie
2712 posts
 20 Jul 2006 Thu 12:58 pm

Quoting qdemir:

You might not be looking for a boyfriend, but
don't you,ladies, like to be flattered with such messages?



You're right qdemir. We LOVE to be flattered. It's in the female nature and it's useless to try to deny it.

Uploading pics, doesn't mean that we are looking for a boyfriend. Like Daydreamer said, we feel comfortable here and letting our online friends know how we look like is something reasonable.

It is a fact that if you look nice, you receive many pms, most of them giving an msn ID and asking to chat, some with silly questions and a few rude ones. Like Bliss, my policy is the same. I kindly reply all the pms, thanking them for writing to me. I think it's something that politeness orders. But if they insist, I make clear that I don't care for further contact. If they don't understand, only then I ignore them.

Most of the members of this class, are really nice people and I guess that you should spend some time meeting them. They are really worth your time.

10.       mltm
3690 posts
 20 Jul 2006 Thu 01:03 pm

I think, and am sure, it's because of your nickname.

Since all russien friendship sites are full of sticky turkish men...

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