Dear all,

Hey. I am a muslim man (of course not bigoted) and started to study in Ankara for about 5 months ago. During these days I really feel good about Turkish girls, specially in our university. I have 25 years old.

Actually, I have not had any girl-friend before but here the story is different. I don´t know why everyone here has at least one friend! Of course, I do not really generalize and I was kidding but I don´t know why you cannot find anyone without any semimi friend.

As a boy who do not like to be friend with a person (girl) who has a lot of boy friends I mean normal friends, the choices are limited for me. Furthermore, I don´t know why many girls here say that we can just be normal friends! OK I get that! but it is hard for a person with many heavy courses and researches to be played by many girls

By chance, I am going to see someone tomorrow evening who studies English literature. Let me say that my Turkish is medium and my English is perfect but I am not native. As my plans signal, again my choices would be limited. I mean since I am going to live in a European country or U.S.A, I don´t know even I can find anyone as a soulmate.

OK return to my issue. What should I do or how should i behave behave such that, that girl who likes philosophy, which is similar to me, does not cut her connection with me? We have had connection for about 3 weeks or 1 month approximately from an internet because she was in another city before starting new semester. She is in another university. I am a poet and I have a poem for her but I don´t know whether it would be OK to give that to her or even flower even though in first meeting i don´t know that would be OK? What should I say?

Please help I have no time and as I said there are a few number of girls around me and most of them have friends. Please someone who really know Turkish girls answer these. Any comments would be appreciated.

P.S.: I want to have relationship in future and marry. I am serious about it.

Best,

Dashshakh

It´s a shame no one gave this poor boy any advice here. Back in the day someone would have responded to his needs. Your probably back in Europe by now and realized that friendships and courting women in Turkey are much different. Who knows your probably married by now with a baby on the way. 

The forum does seem quite of late. So how are friendships and courting different? It appears he is a one poster, too bad, I was willing to offer advice but he wanted a woman´s perspective as to what a man should do.