I've been chatting to Bob* over MSN for a few weeks now. In that that time, I have been drawn in by his sweet words and smile and now I'm in love with him. He asked me to marry him; but I told him I needed time. We now refer to each other as husband and wife We're always very sweet to each other. I had no doubt that he loved me to until he asked me to show him my naked body via webcam the other night... Now I don't know if he really loves or just wants to see my body. I've heard that Turkish boys are players... Thanks for your input!

*not his real name

Hello Jenni,
Well, I think woman always have some sort of power of ‘sixth-sense’. I dont know about the other ladies but I can make out if the man has good intentions, by looking into his eyes. I think if you think deeply about how he was behaving with you (like trying to be very much physical), you might have a rough idea about what he ‘really’ wants. If my man had asked me about it, I would have said no! But let me tell you one thing, we know each other for over a year but we haven’t slept with each other. He respects my opinion of sex before marriage. We also do touch each other but his touch always has a sense of security for me.
Think and react. Maybe he is just teasing you. Talk to him about it. All you need to do is be aware of how he reacts. You will get your answer on your own.
*Its completely my personal opinion.
Stay focused
Geeta

PLEASE ,slow down!!! i know you can fall in love quickly but thats pushing it a bit, especially talking about marriage and especially when it comes to a turkish man, be careful. words are empty half the time.

hi Jenni,

well i think, since u refer to each other as husband and wife, Bob gets this idea that you guys are very very intimate already... i mean, to the point that he's asking u to do..etc etc in webcam. i guess, yeah u should talk to him about it. tell him how u feel, and that there are limits of course to your relationship (since it's only been a few weeks). then, im betting he'll respect how you feel about it.