People consider the military service as an integral part of life. They do not consider somebody is a proper and successful person if he has not performed his military service and instituted a family upon marriage.
Young man who reaches his age of military service has been let free two months before the date on which he will enter military service. In the course of this two month period he is permitted to stroll and enjoy himself.
Young man visits all his relatives, neighbours and friends in the last week, says "good-bye, I am going to perform my military service, forgive me if I may have done anything wrong " to them. Elders whose hands are kissed give presents to him and bid him to go and come back happily. His friends however try to entertain him by organising entertainments day and night with drum and pipe.
On the day of departure of military service all candidates are seen off by his relatives, neighbours and friends under the Turkish flags, with drum and pipe, throwing him high by hands of his friends. Sometimes "Mevlud" is chanted, collective prayers are read, and they wish them have a good journey. Candidates of soldier are advised to perform their military service well, to obey their commanders' orders.
Letters received from son in the course of military service cannot be destroyed, burned, hung at non-visible places. Any action made to the contrary believed to bring bad-luck to the son.
After completion of military service the family cooks "un helvasý" (sweet prepared with flour, butter and sugar) and offers same to all relatives, neighbours and friends. Thus it has been announced to everybody that their son has completed his military service. Then however all relatives, neighbours, friends pay a visit of congratulation to the family. Thus the young man has started a new life, has overthrown an important obstacle in his way towards being a good man.
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