Well actually I disagree with you on this one LL.  I could forgive an affair if it was just sexual attraction, but the thought of my partner getting very close to someone on MSN, thinking about them all the time, sending SMS etc., is actually worse

The attempt to break the "the largest gathering of people wearing underpants/knickers in one place" Guinnes record attracted more than 150 people at St. Pancras station, London..

 

yeah yeah..they have never been in the army..quite a pathetic attempt!!

here are some pics anyway:

     

Well actually I disagree with you on this one LL.  I could forgive an affair if it was just sexual attraction, but the thought of my partner getting very close to someone on MSN, thinking about them all the time, sending SMS etc., is actually worse

 

BTW for a mod, you made a right mess-up of your "quotes"

 Maybe I am a tad on the liberal side (I think Catwoman elluded to that in one thread ) but I really don´t see it as such a problem.  A bigger problem for me would be jealous and possessiveness........... than a straying from the path of monogomy

Should we call you librallady from now on?

 Maybe I am a tad on the liberal side (I think Catwoman alluded to that in one thread ) but I really don´t see it as such a problem.  A bigger problem for me would be jealous and possessiveness........... than a straying from the path of monogomy

How many people (men) do you chat to on your MSN??? 

 

 

Hundreds!!!!  

Lots of conservative people here. I think, this case would have best been handled by an inquisition court hundreds of years ago.

 

I wonder where would  those siding up with the woman in this case place thought-crime?

 

Every man would like to have sex with lots of women they see in the street without ever remembering who they are, what they look like. This is in their nature. It is all because of the hormones and maybe partly because of the way they were raised in their families.I am not sure whether this is the case with women too but I wouldn´t be surprized at all if most of them did not observe men the way a nun would (the true thoughts of whom only God knows).

 

Every nation´s literature is full of stories of perversion and sexuality. One classic short story pops up in my mind is "Girls in Their Summer Dresses" by Irwin Shaw. As far as I remember, it depicts a man in his forties who enjoys watching women as they are passing by in the street a habit which at first irritates his wife with whom he comes to terms later on after convincing her that his is just a pleasing activity for him and nothing more.

 I agree with you Vineyards, and that is why I can forgive physical adultery more than emotional.  If your partner falls in love with someone else, what is the point in continuing?