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LESSON LEARNED!!!
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09 Sep 2006 Sat 04:48 pm |
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İ mean qdemir didn't hesitate to questioning that he may cheat on her,even he is mature
then is it a common action of Turkish men ?
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09 Sep 2006 Sat 04:49 pm |
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09 Sep 2006 Sat 04:58 pm |
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Turkish men run,drink,sleep,eat,love,cheat...)they r not from another planet
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09 Sep 2006 Sat 05:04 pm |
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so true,it is not a matter of a few words can be said,it is easy to say words and not to mean it
And i must say,i too with qdemir,how can you love someone,or he loves you and there is no minimum communication between both of you ?
As i see it,when i say i love
İ love him for the way he see things
İ love him for his manners and ethics
İ love him for the way he respects his family
İ love him for the way he respects me
İ love him for the way he takes over things
İ love him for the way he takes care of me
İ love him for being honest and never lie
İ love him for the understanding between us
İ love him ..................
İ love him ...................
İ love him for being him 
So how would you know him,if you cann't communicate with him ?
What is the base of that love ?
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09 Sep 2006 Sat 05:13 pm |
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Quoting MrX67: Turkish men run,drink,sleep,eat,love,cheat...)they r not from another planet |
Yes,but from what said,i came to belive most Turkish men are cheaters, sry,but that what i understood from all the posts i read,even the mature ones
So that is normal thing ?
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09 Sep 2006 Sat 05:20 pm |
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yes that is true. to love someone is to love them whole, to love them for what is on the inside and what is on the outside. it is to know them. the basis of love and knowledge of a person is communication.
they say that love can conquer all. but can it really if there is no possible means of communication??
i think there are many times where we can confuse what is actually lust for love. i know i have in the past. but these are the lessons we need to learn.
i hope u r ok iluvhim.
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09 Sep 2006 Sat 07:52 pm |
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Quoting MrX67: Turkish men run,drink,sleep,eat,love,cheat...)they r not from another planet |
I think Mr X is trying to say they are no different from any other man on this planet! And I must say I know plenty of English men that cheat (and women for that matter) with plenty being downright bastards . With divorce rate at about 1 in 4 marriages in the UK something is not right.
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09 Sep 2006 Sat 10:35 pm |
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Quoting libralady: Quoting MrX67: Turkish men run,drink,sleep,eat,love,cheat...)they r not from another planet |
I think Mr X is trying to say they are no different from any other man on this planet! And I must say I know plenty of English men that cheat (and women for that matter) with plenty being downright bastards . With divorce rate at about 1 in 4 marriages in the UK something is not right. |
My point exactly libralady,
İ didn't mean to say or to ask if all Turkish men are cheaters or not,they are men like other men,there can be cheaters,and there can be honest people too
İ asked to have replies like yours,its not a matter of if they are Turkish or not,it is the matter of the kind of people they are,and the kind of relation they are seaking and been offered too
And what makes me really wonder that,this judges about Turkish men came from a Türkler themselves,not just foreigners who doesn't understand Türk personality,not only in this thread,but in other threads too!
They say,'watch out they are cheaters'
İ don't know,maybe they talk about certain category,and they didn't mean to generalize it
But it was strange to hear the attack from the Türk,and the defence from the foreigners !
İ am with them to have suspicious,reading the translation forums,
But,i was shoked to read
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Quoting qdemir:
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Anyway my boyfriend is over 40 so I hope I am his only girfriend
Do you really hope so? ''
Even he is 40 yrs,and he doesn't know anything about their relation,but he just assumed he is cheating on her ....
Why ?
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10 Sep 2006 Sun 03:42 am |
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Men CHEAT all over the world! not just turks...latin men cheat as much as them so one can't generalize ....there are some loyal ones but very few! (I haven't met many of them )....as someone said , if you want a serious relationship with a turk DO look outside the tourism area and please, before getting involved with someone deeply DO know him well...some girls say they fell in love and they don't even know his background!!!! or what is worse, they can't communicate well , they can't even understand each other and they say they're in love....this is attraction only...let's be frank but my advice is : although love can make us blind, do not drop your brain and be CAREFUL!
Yes, turkish men are charming...extremely charming but it doesn't mean that ALL OF THEM are trustworthy .
Selamlar,
Dilara.
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