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getting married in turkey
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13 Jul 2007 Fri 12:45 am |
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Quoting femme_fatal: how do you check the virginity of men? |
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13 Jul 2007 Fri 12:46 am |
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Quoting mltm: Quoting femme_fatal: how do you check the virginity of men? |
No way  |
then its not fair.
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13 Jul 2007 Fri 12:48 am |
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Quoting MrX67: may be it seems as a sick at the first when you look at with selfish eyes,but it has very deep ethical value when you think a bit deep and sure that not just for female sure for mmales to.. |
After all we are mammals and its part of being one, it was the human mind that came up with the concept of marriage and sex being something other then natural unless its with someone you love, as sex was here long before religion and morals.
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13 Jul 2007 Fri 12:56 am |
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Quoting karekin04: Quoting MrX67: may be it seems as a sick at the first when you look at with selfish eyes,but it has very deep ethical value when you think a bit deep and sure that not just for female sure for mmales to.. |
After all we are mammals and its part of being one, it was the human mind that came up with the concept of marriage and sex being something other then natural unless its with someone you love, as sex was here long before religion and morals. |
 and never taint any choise,but thats really very important you talking what which culture,so i think respect to choises of cultures better then to judge anything
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13 Jul 2007 Fri 12:59 am |
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Quoting yilgun-7: Virginity is precondition among youngs for marriage in Türkiye |
Shall we just clarify that statement I have heard from my Turkish friends about the realities of those who follow this "rule" ... it seems you can do pretty much EVERYTHING with your boyfriend/girlfriend (and I mean EVERYTHING ) except actual penetrative sex. Some of them are sleeping together, living together... and still calling them virgins because "technically" they are!
Does this "rule" or the hypocritical way it is adhered to make any sense to ANYONE?
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13 Jul 2007 Fri 01:02 am |
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Quoting aenigma x: Quoting yilgun-7: Virginity is precondition among youngs for marriage in Türkiye |
Shall we just clarify that statement I have heard from my Turkish friends about the realities of those who follow this "rule" ... it seems you can do pretty much EVERYTHING with your boyfriend/girlfriend (and I mean EVERYTHING ) except actual penetrative sex. Some of them are sleeping together, living together... and still calling them virgins because "technically" they are!
Does this "rule" or the hypocritical way it is adhered to make any sense to ANYONE? |
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13 Jul 2007 Fri 01:02 am |
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MrX67 , is realy 10% only of turkey not pay attention virginity, whom live in ankra , istanbul, izmer, as my friend ayse told me
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13 Jul 2007 Fri 01:04 am |
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Duplicate post :S
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13 Jul 2007 Fri 01:04 am |
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Quoting MrX67: Quoting aenigma x: Quoting yilgun-7: Virginity is precondition among youngs for marriage in Türkiye |
Shall we just clarify that statement I have heard from my Turkish friends about the realities of those who follow this "rule" ... it seems you can do pretty much EVERYTHING with your boyfriend/girlfriend (and I mean EVERYTHING ) except actual penetrative sex. Some of them are sleeping together, living together... and still calling them virgins because "technically" they are!
Does this "rule" or the hypocritical way it is adhered to make any sense to ANYONE? |
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Exactly! So does the above make sense to you then Mr. X67???
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13 Jul 2007 Fri 01:04 am |
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Quote: good words to defence sexual freedom,and sure everybody free on their own choises,but i think to be human meaning more then to be a mammal |
Again though don't get me wrong I think the best thing is to wait, but I don't think you could ever base the value of a person based on wether or not they have had sex.
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13 Jul 2007 Fri 01:06 am |
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[quote aenigme]
Yeah, right. There're a lot of relatively modern people who do these. I think it's more because the girl wants to keep herself virgin because if the girl lets, the man wouldn't mind it.
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