hey, girls do not you get this. Those guys just naurally care about there women and they just simply speak their mind out, if someone do not care that person never will be jealuse(my personal opinion). ok

Are not you girls jealouse of your man as well, hmm if not there is something wrong with me

Good luck!!!

 lol balik yes i did ,and its natural

I have never been jealous in my life. To me if someone is jealous about someone it mean they do not trust that person and you have to have trust each other.  Also in my experience jealousy ends up  killing a relationship.

 Jealousy is a sign of emotional immaturity and insecurity.....it is not a sign of devotion. 

So imagine you and your husband (partner, boyfriend, etc) are in a bar (pub, restaurant, at a concert, insert a public place of choice here) and having a good time and all of a sudden a young, georgous, funny woman comes up to you and starts a conversation. And your partner starts to really get into it, I mean, he´s laughing at her jokes, asking her questions, his eyes light up, he´s sort of ignoring you in the process, as he´s having a super great time with this goddess of a woman.

Are you telling me you wouldn´t feel even the slightest pang of jealousy?

Come on guys, jealousy is in the very genes of every human being by birth.  If you have kids, you will know... the moment you show attention to another child, or hold another baby on your lap, they will get irritated. 

I also think it is a part of character, as some people can be more jealous, while some are not jealous at all (at least they pretend to).  It might also be related how much attention you get as a child, and how well you are able to control your feelings.

And I think it is not related about trusting the other person, but about trusting yourself. 

 Why would I feel jealous? 

Firstly, I would feel anger that my husband was being disrespectful and I would have good reason to be.  Jealousy is not a reasonable emotion. 

Secondly, I would never allow a man to treat me in this way.  If my husband did this to me, I would simply leave.  I wouldn´t bother myself with staying upset about a man who treated me in this way....but, thats just me.  I am a goddess in my own right, and deserve to be treated as such.

 So you would like a man who behaves like a child?  Or do you want one that acts like a secure and happy adult? 

I think if you have a partner who is jealous, it will eventually destroy the relationship.  You can´t have a healthy relationship if you are constantly worried about who they are talking to, if they are flirting, ect....I just don´t think its healthy.

lis, you have to accept the fact that merih and melek are children. you give them time to grow up.

Well, good for you. Obviously your self-esteem is better than that of us, mere mortals lol.

I disagree slightly on the jealousy issue, I don´t think it´s all or nothing, to me it´s more of a continuum - you can be very jealous and unreasonably so and that would be unhealthy and damaging to the relationship, or you can be totally indifferent and never get jealous, and I don´t think that´s very healthy either. I think it´s good to be a little bit jealous and I think that can motivate people to care about the relationship. And besides, it´s usually not the emotion that´s the problem, it´s what you do with it (in my humble opinion).

I like your attitude though, something to aspire to  

 Agreed -  but I think it´s possessiveness more than jealousy most of the týme