guys,everyone entitled to his or her opinion,no need to argue together.
There are goods and bads every where,you all must accept this.
We are not here to fight,we are here to learn and get to know each other better,culture i mean
And that won't happen with high voice !

Cool it down and accept each other differences,beauty of cultures are there.

İ'm sorry cat for your experience,but you really cann't generalize all turkish men are same to your ex husband,
wives get beaten in West too,unfortunately the term wives abused are very common too,

So we should judge now and say all Brith men,or American men beat their wives,and abuse them ?!

Generalizing is not really a logical thing to do.

Wht happen to mylanguage.. i show you some example why you getting crzy? ya this is wht i try to explain to you.. words all are same nhtng diffrnt.. whn i say dont use bad word you said to me its so normal.. not bad.. thn i give you some exmple its so normal take it easy... tnx of myfamily show me and teach me excillent to deptade with people but nt the way like yours.. i drinking cappicino rght now no worries and im not angry with any1.. jst wht i want to say thn i said..

No matter what your experience is you CANNOT judge all because of one bad apple! I am sorry to say that spousal abuse is universal. There are even documented cases of women abusing their husbands. Women and men should be warned about losing themselves to any relationship and not demanding respect from their significant others. I understand that you are hurt. But you can't paint everyone with the same brush! The best revenge is living a better life. God bless you and I will put you on my prayer list.

Rain I am finding your posts continually offensive and agressive and, frankly, your attitude to non-muslims and non-turks completely intolerant. What I love about this website is the wonderful friendships we have built with all nationalities, religions and cultures and the discussions we had here in the past proved that when people TALK and understand eachother, there can be no prejudice.

If you want to blame all people who live in the usa and europe for the actions of a few people (i.e.politicians) you are no better than the ignorant people who blame ALL muslims for terrorism.

I think you should spend less time pumping iron at the gym because its making you agressive.

And never thnk tht i try to protect turkish people no.. fo me all pple are same.. even turkish talk nonsen i ll say to them too.. im im wrong you ll teach me too no 1 solve the problem with fight with gun time to talk with mouth to explain feelings to solve the prblem.. thn only the world ll be in peace.. No 1 perct..love not enough... god give us brain jst use it fo good thngs..

I am re-posting this Rain, in case you missed it.

heheheh you good in type... but your eyes not tht good to read.. i never talk about all.. and i alrdy said about govermnt., and they doing smtng wrong.. gym not make me agrasive pple like you make me agresive.. coz you said i read some of yourpost but youreyes blur i thnk not read well...

Guysssss, time out !

Does anyone know a good joke ? lol