I don´t know about you, but I find it quite easy to disagree with someone without having to turn it into a major feud

We disagree....so? 

Do we have to argue all night now?

 And I have given my credit on a previous post.  But Libralady (and you) choose to ignore any positive posts I make about any of you

You actually make me laugh - all that "hot air and waffle" was so bothersome for you?  Nevermind that it was about REALITY.  Much nicer to read that you can give a couple of pounds to some nice agency and go away with a clear conscience eh?

 I don´t think I have had any positive replies of late, snarky and cranky have been used.

 Well not from ME Bydand.  But, as usual, you choose not to notice and would prefer to put me in some kind of "group"

I believe my last comment to you was that you were a "gentleman" ....

   What a "group" in TC....thats outrageous 

Well believe it or not, there is no "group".  I think you have some real anger issues that you need to sort out Bydand (mainly with me!).   Your main contribution to threads seems to consist of sarcastic comments towards me, or jibes to anyone who DARES to disagree with any of Libralady´s opinions.  If you don´t like discussions and differing opinions in threads, don´t read them.  To dismiss anyone elses opinion (other than Libralady´s) as "waffle" and "hot air" is very rude.

You agreed with Libralady that anger and negativity were unproductive, but you cannot seem to let go of yours....

With pleasure .....

 I think it is in humankind to have that tendency, and personally I don´t find too much wrong with it. If enough people would want to clear their conscience that way, at least the people who take real action have something to do that with. Right now I am also giving money to charity (and ofcourse when something like that happens around me, I will not think twice to take action), but on the larger scale I don´t think I do anything to really help. I hope to do so in the future though, when I am able and in the position to do so. Ofcourse there are tons of people who just send money all the time and never really think of it, and as long as they don´t boast that they are doing such great things for humankind (whilst other people do all the hard work!) I don´t think it´s such a big deal.

As for the ´hot air and waffle´, apart from a few personal arguments and disagreements, I found this topic to have evolved very peacefully and constructive! You can´t expect everyone to agree on anything (what a dull world it would be!) and in the ´heat of the ´fight´´, everyone is likely to be a little harsh, but in the end, I thought this was a really good thread and a really good discussion!!

 Well I was trying to be very peaceful and polite and also agreed in part, but I have taken your comment very seriously and will certainly "leave it there".....

 I was referring to the ongoing comments from LL, Bydand (and some others) over and over about how everybody thinks of each other. But my post wasn´t aimed at you specifically actually.

Btw I said that as a member, not as an admin. So go on if that´s what you feel like, I just think it is useless and rather see it not happening.

Precisely, that is why I went to bed............ I could hardly keep my eyes open let alone my mind fresh  and of course, I had to try out my smilies.