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				| 40. | 20 Aug 2008 Wed 09:05 pm |  
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	   What it doesn´t say is, "I don´t mock or use cynicism or sarcasm at all"  -  I´ve admitted that I can do this with just as much enthusiasm as others here.   That´s all  . . . for now    It appears your friend Armageddon through you under the bus this time.  I thought you made this comment in this thread.     |  |  
	
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				| 41. | 20 Aug 2008 Wed 09:06 pm |  
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  If you read the original post and topic, you would think this girl was engaged to a Turk.  But reading more she is planning her future to someone she hasn´t even met and is determined it will be with a Turkish guy.  Heck, I understand we all have dreams to each it´s own, but it was quite confusing to me.  I wasn´t being sarcastic by all means.   I don´t understand why PC or Alameda try to add fuel to the fire.  If they were really concerned with this girls feelings...how about writing a message...Turkish men are wonderful, I hope your dreams are met.  Instead their motives are even worse than me questioning someone who is destined to be with a Turk.   I´m sorry, my comment was referring to PT, not to you. |  |  
	
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				| 42. | 20 Aug 2008 Wed 09:07 pm |  
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  If you read the original post and topic, you would think this girl was engaged to a Turk.  But reading more she is planning her future to someone she hasn´t even met and is determined it will be with a Turkish guy.  Heck, I understand we all have dreams to each it´s own, but it was quite confusing to me.  I wasn´t being sarcastic by all means.   I don´t understand why PC or Alameda try to add fuel to the fire.  If they were really concerned with this girls feelings...how about writing a message...Turkish men are wonderful, I hope your dreams are met.  Instead their motives are even worse than me questioning someone who is destined to be with a Turk. Teas you don´t need to defend your comment.  There are plenty here with functioning brain cells that know exactly what you were saying.     |  |  
	
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				| 43. | 20 Aug 2008 Wed 09:08 pm |  
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 Well Duh....she´s in Saudi, how many men do you think she could have met? She would be find a lot more freedome in Turkey than Saudi. For instance, she could drive...and a few other things. She would not have to wear the all covering niqab and hijab.    Well Duh, I´m glad you have learned some new voc..it makes you a little more human now.  I didn´t know she was from Saudi, my point exactely.  She doesn´t understand that there are good men all around the world, just not next door.  What is so wrong with this? |  |  
	
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				| 44. | 20 Aug 2008 Wed 09:15 pm |  
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I´m sorry, my comment was referring to PT, not to you.    I realize this.  My response was directed to PC and Alameda as well. |  |  
	
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				| 45. | 20 Aug 2008 Wed 09:17 pm |  
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Teas you don´t need to defend your comment.  There are plenty here with functioning brain cells that know exactly what you were saying.      I´m glad someone does. hahaha |  |  
	
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				| 46. | 20 Aug 2008 Wed 09:18 pm |  
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	      This is the quote Armegon took from another thread:   
I´m not in the habit of mocking new members or making sarcastic or cynical remarks about relationships some members have with Turkish men as I happen to think it´s unkind.  I was saying it is unkind to treat new members or those having relationships with Turkish men, in a mocking, sarcastic or cynical way.  I wasn´t saying the relationships were unkind.   Thanks Armegon but  I´ll call you next time I need help getting under that bus  |  |  
	
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				| 47. | 20 Aug 2008 Wed 09:20 pm |  
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 I realize this.  My response was directed to PC and Alameda as well.    I haven´t commented on this issue at all . |  |  
	
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				| 48. | 20 Aug 2008 Wed 09:23 pm |  
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 I haven´t commented on this issue at all .     I haven´t commented on this issue at all .   That would be much better. |  |  
	
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				| 49. | 20 Aug 2008 Wed 09:26 pm |  
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	 Take my advice, Turkish men are not the most manly men in the world.  Read the posts from the link below, and you will see the heartbreak I am now dealing with  because I had the dream to be married to the Turkish man I love.   God has a plan for you, and he will reveal to you the man you are to marry. I am being tested now with God´s plan, and I do not want anyone to have to go through with what I am dealing with now.  My Turkish man/ or shall I say boy since he is 28 and is to weak to stand up to his father and tell him he and I want to marry and will do so without his blessings since he will not give consent.    Best wishes slow down, and let fate work for you, do not do what I did and fall in love with the words the Turkish man is very good at saying to Foriengers Muslim or not.    http://www.turkishclass.com/forumTitle_17412_3 
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				| 50. | 20 Aug 2008 Wed 09:34 pm |  
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I haven´t commented on this issue at all .   That would be much better.    Thank you    btw  . . how do you do that clever crossing out stuff? |  |  |