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totally true

i dont want to make the types of comment most people are making but i want to leave with you things that can help you in your realationship hope you like em:

first and fore most never try to falling in love or invest emotionally at the initial stage of the realationship and if you find your turkish guy dont get all "happy go luck" to marry the guy, take as long as possible to feel him out and seeing that you will may spend the rest of your life with him, before you get married put him to the test, to find outthe distance he would go for you, find out if he make you really happy find out even if you are with him along time (not married yet) if he still make you feel like the fist time you guys met(some guys tend to change after they first met you) make sure most of everything thing about him attracts you, you will love him more because of this, observe him very carefully and see how he treats other people. fatima i sure that this wont be easy but if you really want to meet your turkish dream i suggest you put your all into it cus at the end of the day you will know that the guy next to was worth the effort. good luck to you and all your endevors

Why is this generalization for? It all depends on the person and character, but not the nation, religion, color, etc. etc... Don´t we all know this? Catswoman explained well at the beginning i think. And agree with tassia.

I will just advice Fatima to visit the guy´s family first and maybe stay for a while before "signing that book of marriage" haha...

We hear a lot of happy marriages made with foreigners and that much disappointed ones..

It only depends on the persons and the situation..

I just know that there is a risk as it is there in any side of the life

But i wish your dream to come true

[DIARY OF A FUTURE BRIDE] The slow march uphill

http://www.todayszaman.com/tz-web/detaylar.do?load=detay&link=160731&bolum=132

vow

What a story..

Thanks for sharing..

what a nightmare

thanks for posting it  

the mother-in-law reminds me of my grandmother I guess every culture has the mothers that care just a bit too much (and always know better)

 I also read the story about the curtains mentioned.A fascinating insight to marriage in Turkey.

http://www.todayszaman.com/tz-web/detaylar.do?load=detay&link=160069

i feel sorry for the poor girl!

she should eb the one in charge and he mothr in law just there to be company!

(but i dont mean for them to ignore hr but also a sk her opinion but its their choice in the end!)

Amd CAn!

what??? No personality?!!He hsould really stand up for his wife to be!

If it bothers her that much she should probably walk away....but then again, that would be a little too logical.  It is much better to bitterly complain to a newspaper about people who will probably never change!

Sinem teyze reminds me of Cem´s mother from Avrupa Yakasi But the author whines too much