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What did everyone get/do for valentine's day
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16 Feb 2007 Fri 02:22 pm |
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Quoting aenigma x: Quoting Lapinkulta: ...I think that had to chose me the unluckiest man of the Turkish class. |
Or maybe the luckiest! Think of all the money and effort you have saved by never having a girlfriend on Valentines Day  !
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maybe but it could be nice to have a good time in any days with them
I dont care about money.I care about personality and friendship
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16 Feb 2007 Fri 11:17 pm |
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How about friendship, Lapinkulta?
Love without friendship is nothing. This is my opinion, of course.
Friendsip marks a life even more deeper than love!
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17 Feb 2007 Sat 12:36 am |
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Quoting bliss: How about friendship, Lapinkulta?
Love without friendship is nothing. This is my opinion, of course.
Friendsip marks a life even more deeper than love! |
..and even better if you have both love and friendship in one person 
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17 Feb 2007 Sat 12:45 am |
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17 Feb 2007 Sat 01:12 am |
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Quoting karekin04: Ohhh how this makes me want to open another thread. Brings to mind this guy I was best friends with for awhile, then tried to have a romantic relationship  Turned out to be the worst thing I've ever done and also ruined our friendship forever. So I figure... It's great to have your love become your best friend, but don't try and make your best friend your love. It's my words of wisdom for the day  |
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17 Feb 2007 Sat 09:40 am |
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Quoting karekin04: Ohhh how this makes me want to open another thread. Brings to mind this guy I was best friends with for awhile, then tried to have a romantic relationship Turned out to be the worst thing I've ever done and also ruined our friendship forever. So I figure... It's great to have your love become your best friend, but don't try and make your best friend your love. It's my words of wisdom for the day |
in my opinion u can be in good relationship after long friendship but u cant stay friend after relationship...All couple say eactother to be good friends after love,but this is ver very big lie and it is impossible..Coz if one of them have even abit love to other,the person will try to have other ,will think in same way when he/she hear some compliment and promise will continue forever.hah...So I dont think that they cant stay friend:now Im looking back and think about girl that I was in relationship,we couldnt stay friend ,anyway it is really good to came accross after such a long time.
if u start a relationship with your friend then it is finish,the result of this relationship is more worse.coz u probably will lose everthing such as friend, love etc...
I havent this king of problems,coz Im single and happy
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17 Feb 2007 Sat 09:45 am |
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Quoting Lapinkulta: in my opinion u can be in good relationship after long friendship but u cant stay friend after relationship... |
I know a lot a people that are still friends after the relationship ended. They care and maybe even love eachother (like brother and sister) but there are no more romantic or sexual feelings, for both. My best friend is after 5 years divorce still very close to her ex-husband.
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17 Feb 2007 Sat 09:47 am |
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Quoting bliss: How about friendship, Lapinkulta?
Love without friendship is nothing. This is my opinion, of course.
Friendsip marks a life even more deeper than love! |
so describe me love and friendship???
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17 Feb 2007 Sat 09:52 am |
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Quoting Trudy: Quoting Lapinkulta: in my opinion u can be in good relationship after long friendship but u cant stay friend after relationship... |
I know a lot a people that are still friends after the relationship ended. They care and maybe even love eachother (like brother and sister) but there are no more romantic or sexual feelings, for both. My best friend is after 5 years divorce still very close to her ex-husband. |
it depends on why their relationship finished and this conditions are effected by culture.the effect of the leaving coz of having affair of one couple and feelng ignored are dfferent
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17 Feb 2007 Sat 09:56 am |
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Quoting Lapinkulta: it depends on why their relationship finished and this conditions are effected by culture.the effect of the leaving coz of having affair of one couple and feelng ignored are dfferent |
Of course there are a lot of 'ifs' and 'buts' in cases like this. I agree that it will not work for everyone or for every relationship. But it is possible, I really believe that. With my ex (I have been living together 12 years) I am absolutely no friends (more the opposite), but if it ever happens again that a relationship ends, I hope I can be friends because ending with hate and other nasty feelings doesn't make you happy....
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17 Feb 2007 Sat 10:01 am |
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Quoting Trudy: Quoting Lapinkulta: it depends on why their relationship finished and this conditions are effected by culture.the effect of the leaving coz of having affair of one couple and feelng ignored are dfferent |
Of course there are a lot of 'ifs' and 'buts' in cases like this. I agree that it will not work for everyone or for every relationship. But it is possible, I really believe that. With my ex (I have been living together 12 years) I am absolutely no friends (more the opposite), but if it ever happens again that a relationship ends, I hope I can be friends because ending with hate and other nasty feelings doesn't make you happy.... |
I was taught that I shouldnt stay friend..if she wanna go ,just say: DBYE BYE....
SOMEONE GOES,OTHER ONE COMES---THE THING THAT CHANGES IS THEIR NAMES...
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