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foreign women wake up!!!
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05 Oct 2007 Fri 12:37 am |
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Quoting Serdar07: Time for sleeping now in poor Iraq... later wish I can continue friends , forgive if I can't reply you now...
You all be blessed by the power of love and peace everywhere on this planet... I love all the people! |
Serdar , you have addiction to politics , so please go to doctor policy 
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05 Oct 2007 Fri 12:44 am |
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Excuse me,but i dont really get it !
Who are we talking about here ?
Aren't we talking about girls who knew how to deal with men ,and done it well back there in their own countries ?!
Aren't they same girls who wont fall for 'İ Love YOU' from a man in her own country whom she's just met ?!
İ knew some foreigners ladies and girls ,met some,and i cant describe them of being naive at ALL !
So, what is happening to them in Türkiye ,what is happening to them?!
Aren't they same persons ?
And if you add,that person who say 'İ love YOU' 'You are my moon'...ect he doesnt talk their language,and they dont talk his language too.
Wont that tell them something ?!
İm sorry,but i dont think foreigners are naives and Turkish men,or any men can fool them.'İf they are fooling'
İ guess those women are fooling themselves,and allow those men to fool them too.
God !
They dont even understand each others,they cant talk properly,how in God's name they can love each other ?!
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05 Oct 2007 Fri 12:48 am |
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Quoting CANLI: Excuse me,but i dont really get it!
Who are we talking about here? |
We are talking about MEN who cheat. Is there an excuse for that???
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05 Oct 2007 Fri 12:48 am |
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Quoting thehandsom:
Luckyly, I am not an Iraqi. |
Luckyly, Iraq have not handsom like you
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05 Oct 2007 Fri 12:57 am |
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Quoting catwoman: Quoting CANLI: Excuse me,but i dont really get it!
Who are we talking about here? |
We are talking about MEN who cheat. Is there an excuse for that??? |
Actually we are not talking about that.
The thread title is 'foreign women wake up'
So we are talking about woman who are naive,and vulnerable.
And i dont think all women neither naive nor vulnerable.
Except of course for some personal stiuations.
So are all women who got to Türkiye are naive,and vulnerable ?
Men are men all over the world,if they are cheaters,they will try to cheat you no matter where are they,or where are you.
So,why not allowing them back home,and allowing them in Türkiye ?!
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05 Oct 2007 Fri 12:57 am |
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Quoting CANLI:
İ guess those women are fooling themselves,and allow those men to fool them too.
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I think that was the point of this topic.
It takes two for a tango...
And that's why waking up is necessary.
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05 Oct 2007 Fri 01:06 am |
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Quoting portokal:
It takes two for a tango...
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My point exactly..
İts not a fairy tale,and Turish men are not prince charming.
They are men like all men,so judge them same way you judge any man,use your mind and judge.
İs he playing you ? İs he fooling you ?
He promised you the moon and the stars , so if you need him,will he be really there for you ?
Just judge him as any man you knew...they are MEN
Same as any men !
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05 Oct 2007 Fri 01:14 am |
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Quoting CANLI: Quoting portokal:
It takes two for a tango...
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My point exactly..
İts not a fairy tale,and Turish men are not prince charming.
They are men like all men,so judge them same way you judge any man,use your mind and judge.
İs he playing you ? İs he fooling you ?
He promised you the moon and the stars , so if you need him,will he be really there for you ?
Just judge him as any man you knew...they are MEN
Same as any men ! |
Some people put a failure when it fails and blame others and say this is cheating..........
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05 Oct 2007 Fri 01:22 am |
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Quoting CANLI: Actually we are not talking about that.
The thread title is 'foreign women wake up'
So we are talking about woman who are naive,and vulnerable.
And i dont think all women neither naive nor vulnerable.
Except of course for some personal stiuations.
So are all women who got to Türkiye are naive,and vulnerable ?
Men are men all over the world,if they are cheaters,they will try to cheat you no matter where are they,or where are you.
So,why not allowing them back home,and allowing them in Türkiye ?! |
Canli - you are making it more complicated then it really is, it's like looking for excuses. The main problem is that most men you meet on a vacation in TR will lie to you just to have sex or get money from you - plain and simple. And the topic is - foreign women wake up and realize that!
We are not necessarily talking about naive and vulnerable women, but even if we were, the main complaint is that those men lie and they are often very good at it. There's no excuse for doing that! Or are you saying that if a woman can be cheated because she's naive, then it's ok to do that???? So if you are 'stronger', then it's ok to exploit the 'weaker'??? What does it mean "it takes two to tango" in this context? That the woman has to be suspicious on every step of the way, spy on him.... to make sure he's not a lier? It takes two to make a relationship but it may take only one to ruin it.
What does it mean 'men are men all over the world'? Men cheat in other countries, so don't single out turkish men? No dear, we will single out all those nationalities and in this particular web site we are concerned with turkish men. Men are also humans and they are perfectly capable of making the right choices.
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05 Oct 2007 Fri 01:23 am |
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Quoting elham: Quoting CANLI: Quoting portokal:
It takes two for a tango...
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My point exactly..
İts not a fairy tale,and Turish men are not prince charming.
They are men like all men,so judge them same way you judge any man,use your mind and judge.
İs he playing you ? İs he fooling you ?
He promised you the moon and the stars , so if you need him,will he be really there for you ?
Just judge him as any man you knew...they are MEN
Same as any men ! |
Some people put a failure when it fails and blame others and say this is cheating.......... |
I think this is more than just throwing the blame. Because if someone sweetalks you, without actually doing what he says, that is indeed cheating. And cheating can be blamed, and should be. This is a staring point in taking an attitude. But against cheating, cheaters and not all men. The issue is to avoid cheating.
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05 Oct 2007 Fri 01:24 am |
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I am pretty skeptical about love, having been fooled by American men. The first part of love happens when you meet someone and doesn't involve words as much as nonverbal communication (and scientists say phermones). Where it goes from there involves the brain for sure. Meeting my then Turkish boyfriend's parents almost a year ago showed me this isn't a joke for him. His concerted effort at communication (and mine)and the sadness at my leaving, yet support and strength. There are many things that let me know it is genuine, if it isn't, he is the best actor I have ever met. (God forbid!) If someone really has no regard for another persons emotions and intends to take advantage of them, I'm not sure there is much the other person can do. Everyone can be fooled. How you choose to live your life from then on is important, and what you choose to learn from it. I choose to try to keep my heart open but my mind very keen. Helping those who have been fooled learn something would be helpful. Being harsh and judgemental is hurtful.
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