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				| 11. | 15 May 2008 Thu 10:50 am |  
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	 | Quoting tamikidakika: 
 but they both get what they want. Do you think those women who marry smn 40 yrs younger don`t know what these men marry them for? The women get sex, and the men get passport. Fair deal!!!
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 If it was so then why the high divorce rate? Fair deals are good because you know what to expect- if both parties agree to the deal, I have no problem with it. Why do I get the feeling that the deal is not really that fair?
   
 Besides, I believe that a younger guy marrying a 40-year-old does not have to do that for the passport only. I used to think so but changed my mind.
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				| 12. | 15 May 2008 Thu 04:37 pm |  
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	I happen to agree with these wise students.  Counseling should be required for anyone who is getting married. Especially, people who come from different cultures and different religions.  		 |  |  
	
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				| 13. | 15 May 2008 Thu 04:43 pm |  
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	 | Quoting teaschip: I happen to agree with these wise students.  Counseling should be required for anyone who is getting married. Especially, people who come from different cultures and different religions.   | 
 You just want to suck the adventure out of everything!!
   
 And anyway, you would need a bi-lingual councelor, since the main problem in many of these relationships is that they can't even communicate basic messages to eachother in a common language.  If you can't even communicate basic needs, I think you are beyond counceling.
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				| 14. | 15 May 2008 Thu 04:47 pm |  
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	 | Quoting Elisabeth: | Quoting teaschip: I happen to agree with these wise students.  Counseling should be required for anyone who is getting married. Especially, people who come from different cultures and different religions.   | 
 You just want to suck the adventure out of everything!!
   
 And anyway, you would need a bi-lingual councelor, since the main problem in many of these relationships is that they can't even communicate basic messages to eachother in a common language.  If you can't even communicate basic needs, I think you are beyond counceling.
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 But there is always physical attraction as the motivator.  Who cares what the hell you are talking about, as long as you look good.
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				| 15. | 15 May 2008 Thu 05:00 pm |  
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	 | Quoting teaschip: | Quoting Elisabeth: | Quoting teaschip: I happen to agree with these wise students.  Counseling should be required for anyone who is getting married. Especially, people who come from different cultures and different religions.   | 
 You just want to suck the adventure out of everything!!
   
 And anyway, you would need a bi-lingual councelor, since the main problem in many of these relationships is that they can't even communicate basic messages to eachother in a common language.  If you can't even communicate basic needs, I think you are beyond counceling.
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 But there is always physical attraction as the motivator.  Who cares what the hell you are talking about, as long as you look good.
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 Even a cute guy can get annoying when you can't talk to him.
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				| 16. | 15 May 2008 Thu 05:08 pm |  
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	 Sometimes even when you both share the same language, there appears to be a communication problem. I think for some of these older women, they don't mind if they can understand them.| Quoting Elisabeth: | Quoting teaschip: | Quoting Elisabeth: | Quoting teaschip: I happen to agree with these wise students.  Counseling should be required for anyone who is getting married. Especially, people who come from different cultures and different religions.   | 
 You just want to suck the adventure out of everything!!
   
 And anyway, you would need a bi-lingual councelor, since the main problem in many of these relationships is that they can't even communicate basic messages to eachother in a common language.  If you can't even communicate basic needs, I think you are beyond counceling.
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 But there is always physical attraction as the motivator.  Who cares what the hell you are talking about, as long as you look good.
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 Even a cute guy can get annoying when you can't talk to him.
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 But when that newness goes away and it's the same old, that's where the struggle begins. |  |  |