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How do you cope with the distance?
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18 Nov 2006 Sat 07:09 pm |
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Many of us here have lovers thousands of miles away from us physically. And I would like to know how you cope with this distance? Because sometimes when the going gets tough, the thought of giving up does surface. I personally think the lack of physical contact is really hard. No kisses, no hugs...
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18 Nov 2006 Sat 09:26 pm |
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i speak to him everyday and we text several times a day
Jackie
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18 Nov 2006 Sat 11:33 pm |
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We also text 2 or 3 times daily and speak on the phone twice a week. I do find it very hard though not having the physical contact.
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19 Nov 2006 Sun 12:27 am |
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E-mails, phone calls and every penny and vacation time spent on travel to Turkey. I am leaving in 2 weeks to see him and can't wait. We have been doing this for 1 1/2 now and if it is meant to be, it will be.
Good Luck and best wishes to you!!
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19 Nov 2006 Sun 01:13 pm |
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Emails, chatting on MSN Messenger, text messages, her photo as the background on the desktop of my computer (  ) .. put it obviously isn't the same as being side by side with the person 
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19 Nov 2006 Sun 06:34 pm |
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Quoting lovebug: E-mails, phone calls and every penny and vacation time spent on travel to Turkey. I am leaving in 2 weeks to see him and can't wait. We have been doing this for 1 1/2 now and if it is meant to be, it will be.
Good Luck and best wishes to you!! |
thanks for your well wishes!! enjoy your time with your man!! i'm keeping my fingers crossed that I'll see him in December, but nothing is confirmed yet...
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19 Nov 2006 Sun 09:19 pm |
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I am in the same position.He is in Ankara and i am in England.The distance is really difficult and we text all the time and i seem to be on the phone constantly.Having said all that we really want to be together so we are going to make it work.Talking on the phone isnt the same as being side by side but we havent got alot of choice,well not for the moment anyway.I am going over at the end of december.Can't wait,i only got back last week.Crazy i know! good luck to everyone in a similar position.
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19 Nov 2006 Sun 10:40 pm |
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umm coping with texts sms and loong phone calls... and ummm when i think the weeks and days ..relaxin some
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20 Nov 2006 Mon 05:03 pm |
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sera, I envy you so much, hehe, do you get to see him of such a frequent basis always?
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20 Nov 2006 Mon 05:39 pm |
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Hi Stella,
I hope you get to see him in December!! Will you be visiting him?
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20 Nov 2006 Mon 05:41 pm |
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Hi Wendy,
If all goes well, he'll be coming over. I'm keeping my fingers crossed.
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20 Nov 2006 Mon 10:27 pm |
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Quoting parisisbeautifu: how you cope with this distance? |
We dont, we die a million times everyday. An immense burning which kills every part of our insides. Off Allahım, yalvarıyorum sana... Apomu geri versene!! Onsuz olmuyo ya :'(
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21 Nov 2006 Tue 07:13 pm |
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Quote:
Off Allahım, yalvarıyorum sana... Apomu geri versene!! Onsuz olmuyo ya :'( |
I need help with this sentence!!
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21 Nov 2006 Tue 07:17 pm |
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Quote: Quote:
Off Allahım, yalvarıyorum sana... Apomu geri versene!! Onsuz olmuyo ya :'( |
I need help with this sentence!! |
Ahh My God, Im begging you... Give me back my Apo!!
Its not being without him (I mean my life)
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21 Nov 2006 Tue 08:24 pm |
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Hi,
I really miss her so much but try and travel every two months to see her, we use Skype and webcam and phone calls and sometimes texts it is very hard I know for everyone here. I decided that after my next trip to Istanbul 1st December (cannot wait), that when Nes comes to England next year that the summer of 2007 I will move to Istanbul to be with her, we have to be near each other. I then however think we are lucky enough to have communication every day thanks to the computer, the computer really is my treasured possession without it would be unbereable. Good luck to everyone
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21 Nov 2006 Tue 08:27 pm |
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Quoting parisisbeautifu: sera, I envy you so much, hehe, do you get to see him of such a frequent basis always? |
I am going over again so soon after coming back to the UK because he is going to do his national service in February so i want to see as much of him as possible before he goes because we will be apart for 15 months which will be complete hell.Anyway i guess i don't have a choice.You are probably wondering why i didnt just stay and the answer to that is i am at university so i had to come back to do that.I can only afford all these trips by using my student loan and a big part of my overdraft (thank god for that) anyway its worth it.
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21 Nov 2006 Tue 09:08 pm |
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Quoting Loveprague: Hi,
I really miss her so much but try and travel every two months to see her, we use Skype and webcam and phone calls and sometimes texts it is very hard I know for everyone here. I decided that after my next trip to Istanbul 1st December (cannot wait), that when Nes comes to England next year that the summer of 2007 I will move to Istanbul to be with her, we have to be near each other. I then however think we are lucky enough to have communication every day thanks to the computer, the computer really is my treasured possession without it would be unbereable. Good luck to everyone |
Congrats to you, you'll be near her very soon! It gets really hard when I miss him so much. Yes, I'll die without my laptop!! All the best to you!!
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21 Nov 2006 Tue 09:12 pm |
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Quoting SERA_2005: Quoting parisisbeautifu: sera, I envy you so much, hehe, do you get to see him of such a frequent basis always? |
I am going over again so soon after coming back to the UK because he is going to do his national service in February so i want to see as much of him as possible before he goes because we will be apart for 15 months which will be complete hell.Anyway i guess i don't have a choice.You are probably wondering why i didnt just stay and the answer to that is i am at university so i had to come back to do that.I can only afford all these trips by using my student loan and a big part of my overdraft (thank god for that) anyway its worth it. |
I see I see, time flies, 15 months will be unbearable, but it will be over before you know it, don't worry! Me too, I am in University. It makes it harder to visit, both financially and having to answer to my parents...
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26 Nov 2006 Sun 08:18 pm |
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sooooo hard
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27 Nov 2006 Mon 09:32 am |
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Quoting ramayan: sooooo hard |
i can't agree more, sometimes it gets really hard. but then think of the happy times and you'll get over it =D
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28 Nov 2006 Tue 01:06 am |
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31 Dec 2006 Sun 02:48 pm |
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Quoting irishdon: Emails, chatting on MSN Messenger, text messages, his photo as the background on the desktop of my computer ( ) ..
that was me long time ago, but not now anymore |
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31 Dec 2006 Sun 03:01 pm |
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Quoting Pizza: Quoting irishdon: Emails, chatting on MSN Messenger, text messages, her photo as the background on the desktop of my computer ( ) ..
that was me long time ago, but not now anymore |
 you are much better off now sis  |
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31 Dec 2006 Sun 03:19 pm |
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31 Dec 2006 Sun 08:24 pm |
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Oh Kai, I can relate to what you are saying. I just returned from Turkey 2 weeks ago and wish I was there celebrating the New Year with him and his family.
Hopefully, everything will work out and he will be coming over here towards the end of 2007 (another long separation)
Have a great New Year and sweet dreams of your love (tatli ruylar)
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31 Dec 2006 Sun 08:38 pm |
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Quoting lovebug: Oh Kai, I can relate to what you are saying. I just returned from Turkey 2 weeks ago and wish I was there celebrating the New Year with him and his family.
Hopefully, everything will work out and he will be coming over here towards the end of 2007 (another long separation)
Have a great New Year and sweet dreams of your love (tatli ruylar) |
Aww thanks lovebug Our future will be great so I have that to look forward too but for now, we are both getting on with our education part of life and working hard for our future, I just wish we could be together for New years. Oh what a start to the year that would be!
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02 Jan 2007 Tue 02:07 am |
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my heart waits...
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