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Dear Ladies,
Does it really matter to know whether he will or will not cheat on you? I mean, sure, if you're used to spoiling him with pricey gifts, it would be better if you knew he is up to something.
However, spying on every guy you come across will drive you crazy, and where's trust it it? Can you really build a relationship without taking the risk of trusting someone?
I suppose it's better to make an effort and keep your eyes open rather than google him or check up on him every single minute. Besides, that his name is on the list doesn't necessarily mean he is a con man - maybe it's his vicious ex who put his name there, or a joke played on him by his friends.
I'd rather trust my senses and, as reBooped put it, instincts. Even if they fail you and you end up cheated on, provided that you had kept to your senses and hadn't lost a fortune on him, you'll get over it and have nice memories. Isn't that what life is all about? Time passes, people change but memories remain 
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