I decided to remove the link I originally posted here.

Four men from Turkey on the list and 18 (!!) from my own country. That makes it clear: I need a Turkish guy.....

there's also...

http://dontdatehimgirl.com

Hi please visit and post a cheater or abuser for free and let the world now before the next person gets hurt.. Thank You

www.cheaternews.com

www.cheaternews.com please visit help other people from getting hurt

I guess for people who try to break dating records it would be useful but if I was avaliable and looking I would just rely on my own common sense

yea i tend to agree but if u went on the site and found your man on the list ı should ımagın one would be greatful.

Just trust your instincts girls - no need for someone elses opinion of your chosen man

Dear Ladies,

Does it really matter to know whether he will or will not cheat on you? I mean, sure, if you're used to spoiling him with pricey gifts, it would be better if you knew he is up to something.

However, spying on every guy you come across will drive you crazy, and where's trust it it? Can you really build a relationship without taking the risk of trusting someone?

I suppose it's better to make an effort and keep your eyes open rather than google him or check up on him every single minute. Besides, that his name is on the list doesn't necessarily mean he is a con man - maybe it's his vicious ex who put his name there, or a joke played on him by his friends.

I'd rather trust my senses and, as reBooped put it, instincts. Even if they fail you and you end up cheated on, provided that you had kept to your senses and hadn't lost a fortune on him, you'll get over it and have nice memories. Isn't that what life is all about? Time passes, people change but memories remain

Couldn't agree more ladies...if you can't trust your man..or woman..why are you together? I can't imagine what a miserable relationship it must be if you are always worrying, spying and checking these sites to see if your guy is here! Yikes!!!