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If you could change one thing about yourself....
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30 Dec 2006 Sat 07:05 pm |
...what would it be?
(No answers regarding location - I assume all non-Turkish members would rather be there!)
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30 Dec 2006 Sat 07:09 pm |
Simple, just one thing: looks.
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30 Dec 2006 Sat 07:13 pm |
Mine is....I feel too strongly about things, and it makes me too quick to judge! A good example is about the slaughter of animals during Bayram. Once I had actually thought about it, I realised I had no right to criticise and that it was not such a bad thing.
I notice it more when I am on this site!! I know its a big fault and I DO try to change it, but I always seem to end up apologising after arguments!! There are some things though - ouuuuh I just can't help but argue over !
Luckily there are very forgiving classmates here!
PS Trudy you are beautiful.
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30 Dec 2006 Sat 07:28 pm |
I would like to change this resistance to studying and concentrating that I seem to have.. .
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30 Dec 2006 Sat 07:32 pm |
Quoting catwoman: I would like to change this resistance to studying and concentrating that I seem to have.. . |
+1. I'm way too lazy sometimes. Plus I'm not so creative when it comes to conversing with strangers
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30 Dec 2006 Sat 07:49 pm |
Quoting catwoman: I would like to change this resistance to studying and concentrating that I seem to have.. . |
Need a strict and severe teacher?
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30 Dec 2006 Sat 08:01 pm |
Quoting azade: Quoting catwoman: I would like to change this resistance to studying and concentrating that I seem to have.. . |
+1. I'm way too lazy sometimes. Plus I'm not so creative when it comes to conversing with strangers |
it looks like i am not alone lol
i would like to change my bad luck about lottery
i have four tickets! please cross your fingers for me lol
and would like to change a "number"...
seems i have lots to change lol
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30 Dec 2006 Sat 08:43 pm |
Quoting SuiGeneris: and would like to change a "number"... |
Ahh me too - but mathematics was never my strongest subject, so I am choosing to ignore it
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30 Dec 2006 Sat 08:49 pm |
Quoting femme_fatal: nothin
im perfect
im in love with myself
and i will never betray me |
How wonderful for you! I am far from being perfect and have struggled for it all my life - but now? You changed my mind - I dont want to be!!!!
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30 Dec 2006 Sat 08:51 pm |
Quoting femme_fatal: nothin
im perfect
im in love with myself
and i will never betray me |
Nobody is perfect!
I am nobody lol
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30 Dec 2006 Sat 09:00 pm |
Quoting SuiGeneris: Quoting femme_fatal: nothin
im perfect
im in love with myself
and i will never betray me |
Nobody is perfect!
I am nobody lol |
how dare you! i strongly disagree with you
im so proud of myself: im from a perfect nation (my country is a dream country), im a beauty, im the smartest, im an athletic. im not only perfect but also a dreamwoman.
all adore me. im an idol.
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30 Dec 2006 Sat 09:09 pm |
To have 20/20 vision and not have to wear varifocals ever again!! The one part of me that I like and I have to cover them with glasses (and a new job )
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30 Dec 2006 Sat 09:44 pm |
Well this was a question easy to answer... I would change everything! Almost I should say.... given the chance I would change everything about myself except my wonderful, smart, loving, and incredibly handsome son. Who if not on this world would have certainly sealed my fate and I would not be around (long story). But if suddenly a genie appeared and gave me 3 wishes I would start with my appearance.
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30 Dec 2006 Sat 09:54 pm |
Quoting karekin04: But if suddenly a genie appeared and gave me 3 wishes I would start with my appearance. |
You see what the media is doing to us? Talking about the power of false beliefs, fantasies and brainwashing...
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30 Dec 2006 Sat 10:52 pm |
Quoting catwoman: You see what the media is doing to us? Talking about the power of false beliefs, fantasies and brainwashing... |
If it are false believes and brainwashing I don't know, but what is wrong with fantasies about your appearance? When I look in the mirror, hell the fantasies are rolling over each other.... (and no, I don't want to be a glamour girl or moviestar).
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30 Dec 2006 Sat 10:56 pm |
Quoting catwoman: Quoting karekin04: But if suddenly a genie appeared and gave me 3 wishes I would start with my appearance. |
You see what the media is doing to us? Talking about the power of false beliefs, fantasies and brainwashing... |
Ahh yes, spoken like a true beautiful woman hehe!
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30 Dec 2006 Sat 11:01 pm |
i would like to stop worrying about what ppl think of me
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30 Dec 2006 Sat 11:28 pm |
Quoting catwoman: I guess people always need something to strive for. The modern media culture and the race it created who will look better and more like the models (ideal of everything these days) on tv makes me think of the medieval brainwashing that made people pursue weird goals based on false premises. Of course everybody will deny that they want to look like tv models, but if only they could get just a little bit closer... |
Well I agree with you about the brainwashing and I certainly HATE the way so many girls have turned into plastic barbie dolls with their straightened highlighted hair, perfect size plastic breasts and size 0 figures.
However, do you notice that while models may look like this, the most popular actresses seem to have more "irregular" features and figures (with the exception of the annoyingly beautiful Angelina Joli Grrrrrrr) and I think (personally) they are more beautiful because of it.
However....despite all my principles, I would dearly love to turn the clock back a few years
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30 Dec 2006 Sat 11:34 pm |
Quoting catwoman: (oh, yes, it's an absolutely free choice, not dictated by the society - just like Muslim women love being covered head to toe and being governed by their husbands) |
did these women say that? not all women who cover their heads do it because of the society there are women who do it as a free choice, why did u generalise that all muslim women are covered and ruled by their husbands??
and that they say that they "do it as a free choice" just to cover up their weekness?
well maybe that will be true sometimes not always
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30 Dec 2006 Sat 11:44 pm |
Quoting Snow Drop: did these women say that? not all women who cover their heads do it because of the society there are women who do it as a free choice, why did u generalise that all muslim women are covered and ruled by their husbands??
and that they say that they "do it as a free choice" just to cover up their weekness?
well maybe that will be true sometimes not always
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OOoooppss, did I use the wrong set of words?
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30 Dec 2006 Sat 11:45 pm |
to be happy and to be able to laugh
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30 Dec 2006 Sat 11:46 pm |
Quoting catwoman: Quoting Snow Drop: did these women say that? not all women who cover their heads do it because of the society there are women who do it as a free choice, why did u generalise that all muslim women are covered and ruled by their husbands??
and that they say that they "do it as a free choice" just to cover up their weekness?
well maybe that will be true sometimes not always
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OOoooppss, did I use the wrong set of words? |
i don't know, it seemed so
anyway i just felt that people are harsh with muslims sometimes, especially women who cover their heads
maybe u didn't mean so
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30 Dec 2006 Sat 11:47 pm |
Quoting kai: to be happy and to be able to laugh  |
I'll cheer you up
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30 Dec 2006 Sat 11:49 pm |
Quoting kai: to be happy and to be able to laugh  |
i don't know why i have this impression that u are always cheerfull and laughing
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30 Dec 2006 Sat 11:50 pm |
Quoting Snow Drop: Quoting catwoman: (oh, yes, it's an absolutely free choice, not dictated by the society - just like Muslim women love being covered head to toe and being governed by their husbands) |
did these women say that? not all women who cover their heads do it because of the society there are women who do it as a free choice, why did u generalise that all muslim women are covered and ruled by their husbands??
and that they say that they "do it as a free choice" just to cover up their weekness?
well maybe that will be true sometimes not always
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did these women say? wow, do they say anything at all? can they speak? since when?
the word "generalise", hah, what a helpful word to use everywhere! u also just have generalised saying: they "do it as a free choice". is it really so?
what is a free choice? looks like u have a different definition.
what is their weekness? and when they cover it they become stronger?
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30 Dec 2006 Sat 11:52 pm |
Quoting aenigma x: with the exception of the annoyingly beautiful Angelina Joli Grrrrrrr) |
Some people tell me that I look like Jolie... maybe that's why I don't have these problems... .
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30 Dec 2006 Sat 11:53 pm |
Quoting catwoman: Quoting aenigma x: with the exception of the annoyingly beautiful Angelina Joli Grrrrrrr) |
Some people tell me that I look like Jolie... maybe that's why I don't have these problems... . |
Exactly what I meant earlier...."spoken like a true beautiful woman"
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30 Dec 2006 Sat 11:56 pm |
Quoting Snow Drop: i don't know, it seemed so
anyway i just felt that people are harsh with muslims sometimes, especially women who cover their heads
maybe u didn't mean so
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Yes, I'm talking about those that fit to my description. Also, I was trying to imply that miraculously people's behavior is not dictated by objective values/norms but by what the society they live in tell them to do and be important and the society always lies and manipulates people...
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30 Dec 2006 Sat 11:57 pm |
Quoting femme_fatal:
did these women say? wow, do they say anything at all? can they speak? since when?
the word "generalise", hah, what a helpful word to use everywhere! u also just have generalised saying: they "do it as a free choice". is it really so?
what is a free choice? looks like u have a different definition.
what is their weekness? and when they cover it they become stronger?
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why not? yes they can speack, and alot of women do speack
and it seems that u don't know any woman who covers her head or u know just a small portion that seems all alike
i do know lots of women who covered their heads by their own choice, and they do all activities of life normally
on the other hand i know some who were forced to wear it
by the way i have no idea why u r so agressive about it
do u hate muslim women or something?
and i didn't generalise anything as i said "some"
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30 Dec 2006 Sat 11:57 pm |
Quoting aenigma x: Exactly what I meant earlier...."spoken like a true beautiful woman"  |
You're just good Aenigma, what can I say .
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31 Dec 2006 Sun 12:01 am |
Quoting Snow Drop: why not? yes they can speack, and alot of women do speack
and it seems that u don't know any woman who covers her head or u know just a small portion that seems all alike
i do know lots of women who covered their heads by their own choice, and they do all activities of life normally
on the other hand i know some who were forced to wear it
by the way i have no idea why u r so agressive about it
do u hate muslim women or something?
and i didn't generalise anything as i said "some" |
Yes, in some cases it's completely by choice, but how much choice do those who don't want to follow the rules have? We're trying to devise rules that won't allow such discrimination, which currently happens often.
I was saying that this is comparable to our western ways of pursuing beauty, in which women are just as objectified as they are in medieval type of beliefs.
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31 Dec 2006 Sun 12:02 am |
Quoting catwoman: Quoting aenigma x: Exactly what I meant earlier...."spoken like a true beautiful woman"  |
You're just good Aenigma, what can I say . |
Yeah - its sickening! So...stop lecturing us about plastic surgery hehehe!
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31 Dec 2006 Sun 12:03 am |
Quoting aenigma x: Yeah - its sickening! So...stop lecturing us about plastic surgery hehehe! |
he?
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31 Dec 2006 Sun 12:05 am |
Quoting catwoman: Quoting aenigma x: Yeah - its sickening! So...stop lecturing us about plastic surgery hehehe! |
he? |
OK ok - not plastic surgery, but "desire to change"
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31 Dec 2006 Sun 12:15 am |
One thing I would change for sure: my obsession with shopping
5th day of shopping today and Im left with an empty pocket and a huge smile. Oh well...at least I ve made myself and the people I love happy (ok ok the shop owners too!:-S )
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31 Dec 2006 Sun 12:21 am |
sophie has fallen prey of shop owners and the xmas sale.
i think it is nice to be ur friend
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31 Dec 2006 Sun 12:28 am |
Quoting femme_fatal: sophie has fallen prey of shop owners and the xmas sale.
i think it is nice to be ur friend |
Let me buy a present for you too Femme, tomorrow
Ooooo Im addicted!
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31 Dec 2006 Sun 12:41 am |
Quoting sophie: Quoting femme_fatal: sophie has fallen prey of shop owners and the xmas sale.
i think it is nice to be ur friend |
Let me buy a present for you too Femme, tomorrow
Ooooo Im addicted!  |
no, not tomorrow! ur pocket is empty now. when will it be full again?
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31 Dec 2006 Sun 12:57 am |
Quoting aenigma x: Quoting kai: to be happy and to be able to laugh  |
I'll cheer you up |
I wish you could, i really do but i find that impossible now.
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31 Dec 2006 Sun 12:59 am |
Quoting Snow Drop: Quoting kai: to be happy and to be able to laugh  |
i don't know why i have this impression that u are always cheerfull and laughing |
Really? i wonder why that is  unfortunatly the computer screen cannot tell how the writer is thinking behind his/her writings. But thankfully that is a good thing, it depends on what your thinking  
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31 Dec 2006 Sun 01:00 am |
Quoting femme_fatal: no, not tomorrow! ur pocket is empty now. when will it be full again? |
You're right
Oh don't worry. Next Friday it will be full again. Till next Saturday morning
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31 Dec 2006 Sun 01:26 am |
Quoting sophie: Quoting femme_fatal: no, not tomorrow! ur pocket is empty now. when will it be full again? |
You're right
Oh don't worry. Next Friday it will be full again. Till next Saturday morning  |
promise?
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31 Dec 2006 Sun 01:36 am |
Quoting kai: Quoting Snow Drop: Quoting kai: to be happy and to be able to laugh  |
i don't know why i have this impression that u are always cheerfull and laughing |
Really? i wonder why that is  unfortunatly the computer screen cannot tell how the writer is thinking behind his/her writings. But thankfully that is a good thing, it depends on what your thinking    |
i don't know why either, maybe because u were always a nice girl
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31 Dec 2006 Sun 01:38 am |
What What???? Catwoman rushing to cook for your man??? What are you doing for the Women's Revolution? I assume he cooks also on other nights? Hmmmmmm
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31 Dec 2006 Sun 01:38 am |
Ops - too much wine - I posted that twice, so will take this opportunity to wish you (and everyone) a great New Years Eve - HAPPY NEW YEAR
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31 Dec 2006 Sun 01:41 am |
Quoting aenigma x: What What???? Catwoman rushing to cook for your man??? What are you doing for the Women's Revolution? I assume he cooks also on other nights? Hmmmmmm |
Not so quick Aenigma, I said Angelina, not Catwoman .
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31 Dec 2006 Sun 01:43 am |
Quoting catwoman: Quoting aenigma x: What What???? Catwoman rushing to cook for your man??? What are you doing for the Women's Revolution? I assume he cooks also on other nights? Hmmmmmm |
Not so quick Aenigma, I said Angelina, not Catwoman . |
Phew!
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31 Dec 2006 Sun 01:45 am |
Quoting aenigma x: Phew!  |
I have to go help her though... what a helpless woman Angelina is, she knows nothing about cooking, pathetic... .
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31 Dec 2006 Sun 01:49 am |
Quoting catwoman: Quoting aenigma x: Phew!  |
I have to go help her though... what a helpless woman Angelina is, she knows nothing about cooking, pathetic... . |
howcome u know so much about my friend jolie?
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31 Dec 2006 Sun 01:50 am |
Quoting sophie: One thing I would change for sure: my obsession with shopping |
I haven't had any time to shop lately because I took an extra job during my Christmas holidays.
But then there's always this mean illogical reasoning in my mind: "I have been saving money because I only spent money on basic things like bread and stuff, so I can allow myself to buy some extra's!" In the end those extra's add up to a respectable Visa-bill in January :-S
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31 Dec 2006 Sun 01:54 am |
Quoting aenigma x: ...what would it be? |
Be a more organized person. Then again, organizing is so very boring and there is tomorrow as well, so for now let's have another one
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31 Dec 2006 Sun 02:01 am |
Quoting Elisa: Quoting aenigma x: ...what would it be? |
Be a more organized person. Then again, organizing is so very boring and there is tomorrow as well, so for now let's have another one |
Remember the saying - "A tidy desk = a sick mind"
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31 Dec 2006 Sun 02:04 am |
Quoting aenigma x: Remember the saying - "A tidy desk = a sick mind"  |
I must have some multiple personality disorder then, my desk is not tidy but my mind is, well, boşver..
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31 Dec 2006 Sun 02:49 am |
I would like to change my memory..I want to forget past things but imposible..
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31 Dec 2006 Sun 03:16 pm |
i have a feeling you have something against muslim women..
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31 Dec 2006 Sun 03:25 pm |
Quoting freshman-28: I would like to change my memory..I want to forget past things but imposible.. |
oh same with me, including all the pains and hatred that is starting to grow within me but i hope not, coz i love all my friends and people who refused to love me
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31 Dec 2006 Sun 08:27 pm |
So you have changed your mind! You are back, only after one days absence............
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31 Dec 2006 Sun 09:05 pm |
Quoting libralady:
So you have changed your mind! You are back, only after one days absence............ |
Was it a whole day
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02 Jan 2007 Tue 10:21 am |
Quoting libralady:
So you have changed your mind! You are back, only after one days absence............ |
i'm so sorry to disappoint you
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