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What did everyone get/do for valentine's day
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17 Feb 2007 Sat 10:01 am |
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Quoting Trudy: Quoting Lapinkulta: it depends on why their relationship finished and this conditions are effected by culture.the effect of the leaving coz of having affair of one couple and feelng ignored are dfferent |
Of course there are a lot of 'ifs' and 'buts' in cases like this. I agree that it will not work for everyone or for every relationship. But it is possible, I really believe that. With my ex (I have been living together 12 years) I am absolutely no friends (more the opposite), but if it ever happens again that a relationship ends, I hope I can be friends because ending with hate and other nasty feelings doesn't make you happy.... |
I was taught that I shouldnt stay friend..if she wanna go ,just say: DBYE BYE....
SOMEONE GOES,OTHER ONE COMES---THE THING THAT CHANGES IS THEIR NAMES...
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17 Feb 2007 Sat 10:05 am |
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Quoting Lapinkulta: I was taught that I shouldnt stay friend..if she wanna go ,just say: DBYE BYE....
SOMEONE GOES,OTHER ONE COMES---THE THING THAT CHANGES IS THEIR NAMES... |
That sounds to me if the broken relationship was not important, if you can erase a periode in your life like you erase a black board. Whatever happened, whatever was the reason of the ending, there must have been good times as well and you can change that for just another name? :-S
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17 Feb 2007 Sat 10:19 am |
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Quoting Trudy: Quoting Lapinkulta: I was taught that I shouldnt stay friend..if she wanna go ,just say: DBYE BYE....
SOMEONE GOES,OTHER ONE COMES---THE THING THAT CHANGES IS THEIR NAMES... |
That sounds to me if the broken relationship was not important, if you can erase a periode in your life like you erase a black board. Whatever happened, whatever was the reason of the ending, there must have been good times as well and you can change that for just another name? :-S |
yes,it gained this experience
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17 Feb 2007 Sat 10:35 am |
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i'm not friends with any of my exes.mainly because it ended badly.so i agree with kanka from my experience. i think its very rare when two people are still friends after being lovers especially those who are not still attracted to each other/have feelings
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17 Feb 2007 Sat 10:38 am |
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Quoting robyn : i'm not friends with any of my exes.mainly because it ended badly.so i agree with kanka from my experience. i think its very rare when two people are still friends after being lovers especially those who are not still attracted to each other/have feelings |
I don't say it's common, I say it's possible. And I prefer being friends instead of fighting/hating.
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17 Feb 2007 Sat 10:42 am |
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Quoting Trudy: Quoting robyn : i'm not friends with any of my exes.mainly because it ended badly.so i agree with kanka from my experience. i think its very rare when two people are still friends after being lovers especially those who are not still attracted to each other/have feelings |
I don't say it's common, I say it's possible. And I prefer being friends instead of fighting/hating. |
oh dont get me wrong i would have liked to be friends with them.i just can't because things always ended badly with every single one
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17 Feb 2007 Sat 11:00 am |
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17 Feb 2007 Sat 11:37 am |
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Quoting Lapinkulta: SOMEONE GOES,OTHER ONE COMES---THE THING THAT CHANGES IS THEIR NAMES... |
That is such a sad statement - I think people are unique! I suppose it depends if you loved someone or not.
As for being friends afterwards...I don't think its possible to be friends afterwards if there was passion and love. Either person will find it too hard to remain neutral and not be jealous.
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17 Feb 2007 Sat 11:50 am |
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17 Feb 2007 Sat 01:20 pm |
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Quoting susie k: ...and a giant red rose |
Giant? 
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17 Feb 2007 Sat 02:17 pm |
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I think it is virtually impossible to stay friends after a break-up - as there is always one of you who loves more and still nutures hope that the relationship will be rekindled. It is kinder to say goodbye and let each other move on rather than waste their lives hoping one day to be reunited 
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