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What did everyone get/do for valentine's day
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14 Feb 2007 Wed 08:22 pm |
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Here's a post for sharing what you did with your loved ones and what you got from them for Valentine's Day/Lover's Day
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15 Feb 2007 Thu 03:57 am |
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well i worked!!......only just finished and its 01:45 and i have got college tomorow morning.......but good thing, my fiance sent me a card with a necklace inside and he woke me this morning with a phone call  it before i started work this evening which made me smile for the rest of the day hehe........even serving all the lovey dovey couples all night i still had a smile on my face hehe
happy valentines day to u all!
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15 Feb 2007 Thu 05:38 pm |
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Quoting Pizza: I found my table full of flowers , gifts, candies, angels, chocolates and love notes from my friends all over. |
Thats lovely Pizza but this is the bit I just dont "get". Surely birthdays are for such things from friends. I thought Valentine's Day was supposed to be for "romantic" love 
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15 Feb 2007 Thu 05:42 pm |
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I got a text message and a chat on MSN which was nice.
I've never really done anything for valentine's day before so didnt really miss it, if you know what i mean. I do think its a bit of a farce aswell but i liked my text message and msn chat.
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15 Feb 2007 Thu 06:05 pm |
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Quoting aenigma x: Quoting Pizza: I found my table full of flowers, gifts, candies, angels, chocolates and love notes from my friends all over. |
Thats lovely Pizza but this is the bit I just dont "get". Surely birthdays are for such things from friends. I thought Valentine's Day was supposed to be for "romantic" love |
Here in my country, it is already a tradition to greet or give something to your family, friends but of course, Valentine's Day is also a for "romantic love" where lovers also celebrate like having dinner, watch movies, and exchange of gifts
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15 Feb 2007 Thu 07:12 pm |
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only thing silly about it is I didnt get anything!!!
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15 Feb 2007 Thu 07:13 pm |
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Quoting KeithL:
Other than buying cards...Why is valentine's day silly?
Is it anymore silly tha Christmas presents?
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The principle of the day is not silly but what it has become is!! You just want to walk around the shops in the UK and then you will think 'this is silly' 
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15 Feb 2007 Thu 07:18 pm |
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Quoting KeithL: only thing silly about it is I didnt get anything!!!
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Awwwww for you (in friendship of course )
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15 Feb 2007 Thu 07:23 pm |
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what a shameless begger I look like now...
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15 Feb 2007 Thu 09:25 pm |
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I didn't really expect anything for Valentine's Day and nobody surprised me 
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15 Feb 2007 Thu 09:28 pm |
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Quoting Joey: I did,nt really expect anything for Valentine's Day and nobody surprised me |
You didn't think I'd forgotten you did you Joey?
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15 Feb 2007 Thu 09:29 pm |
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Quoting aenigma x: Quoting Joey: I did,nt really expect anything for Valentine's Day and nobody surprised me |
You didn't think I'd forgotten you did you Joey?
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Ok Aenigma beats me hands down! 
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15 Feb 2007 Thu 09:33 pm |
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Thanks kai and aenigma!I feel a lot better now.
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15 Feb 2007 Thu 10:28 pm |
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I think it is never late to make nice person happy.
This is for you Joe.
I remember you liked my pictures of Russia and wanted to share with you.
Hope you like it.
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15 Feb 2007 Thu 10:33 pm |
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Well I went to London with many of my friends and went out for a meal etc and had a laugh. Also my friend Duane bought me one of my favourite movies, "La vita è bella" (Life is beautiful)
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15 Feb 2007 Thu 10:37 pm |
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Quoting kai: Well I went to London with many of my friends and went out for a meal etc and had a laugh. Also my friend Duane bought me one of my favourite movies, "La vita è bella" (Life is beautiful) |
Did I not just read that somewhere else
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15 Feb 2007 Thu 10:38 pm |
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Quoting aenigma x: Quoting kai: Well I went to London with many of my friends and went out for a meal etc and had a laugh. Also my friend Duane bought me one of my favourite movies, "La vita è bella" (Life is beautiful) |
Did I not just read that somewhere else |
Yeah, in the "what made you smile today" thread I would have done it yesterday but I was in London 
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15 Feb 2007 Thu 10:38 pm |
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Quoting aenigma x: Quoting kai: Well I went to London with many of my friends and went out for a meal etc and had a laugh. Also my friend Duane bought me one of my favourite movies, "La vita è bella" (Life is beautiful) |
Did I not just read that somewhere else |
Yeah, in the "what made you smile today" thread I would have done it yesterday but I was in London
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15 Feb 2007 Thu 10:40 pm |
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Quoting kai: Quoting aenigma x: Quoting kai: Well I went to London with many of my friends and went out for a meal etc and had a laugh. Also my friend Duane bought me one of my favourite movies, "La vita è bella" (Life is beautiful) |
Did I not just read that somewhere else |
Yeah, in the "what made you smile today" thread I would have done it yesterday but I was in London |
I see
*stuffs another piece of chocolate into mouth*
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15 Feb 2007 Thu 10:48 pm |
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Quoting aenigma x: Quoting kai: Quoting aenigma x: Quoting kai: Well I went to London with many of my friends and went out for a meal etc and had a laugh. Also my friend Duane bought me one of my favourite movies, "La vita è bella" (Life is beautiful) |
Did I not just read that somewhere else |
Yeah, in the "what made you smile today" thread I would have done it yesterday but I was in London |
I see
*stuffs another piece of chocolate into mouth* |
hehe, got to love the chocolate
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16 Feb 2007 Fri 12:43 am |
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Quoting Capoeira: I was awakened very early from the one I love and wished a happy v-day |
Ouh! Lucky you Did he nudge you or call you
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16 Feb 2007 Fri 12:44 am |
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Quoting aenigma x: Quoting Capoeira: I was awakened very early from the one I love and wished a happy v-day |
Ouh! Lucky you Did he nudge you or call you |
Phone call...Darn distance!!!!!
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16 Feb 2007 Fri 12:49 am |
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Quoting Capoeira: Quoting aenigma x: Quoting Capoeira: I was awakened very early from the one I love and wished a happy v-day |
Ouh! Lucky you Did he nudge you or call you |
Phone call...Darn distance!!!!! |
Oh girls!! You should have waited to see all too humans response before you told it was a call!!! 
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16 Feb 2007 Fri 12:53 am |
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umm errrr ...although i never deserve i have taken a red rose ..it was for the first time a rose..hell it was so surprising when the sound of bell broke the whole monotonous atmosphere of the house and i was smiling so wide after sayıng the cargo staff bye...eheheh and thınkıng''what did i do to deserve such sweet things ''
hehe still smilin here
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16 Feb 2007 Fri 01:27 am |
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I got half prices chocolates - from MEEEEEEE !!!!
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16 Feb 2007 Fri 01:58 am |
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Quoting kai: Quoting aenigma x: Quoting kai: Well I went to London with many of my friends and went out for a meal etc and had a laugh. Also my friend Duane bought me one of my favourite movies, "La vita è bella" (Life is beautiful) |
Did I not just read that somewhere else |
Yeah, in the "what made you smile today" thread I would have done it yesterday but I was in London |
ah, got to love "copy and paste"!!!
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16 Feb 2007 Fri 02:13 am |
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Quoting gezbelle: Quoting kai: Quoting aenigma x: Quoting kai: Well I went to London with many of my friends and went out for a meal etc and had a laugh. Also my friend Duane bought me one of my favourite movies, "La vita è bella" (Life is beautiful) |
Did I not just read that somewhere else |
Yeah, in the "what made you smile today" thread I would have done it yesterday but I was in London |
ah, got to love "copy and paste"!!! |
Actually stupid thing is I didn't bother to copy and paste it 
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16 Feb 2007 Fri 02:17 am |
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Quoting kai: Quoting gezbelle: Quoting kai: Quoting aenigma x: Quoting kai: Well I went to London with many of my friends and went out for a meal etc and had a laugh. Also my friend Duane bought me one of my favourite movies, "La vita è bella" (Life is beautiful) |
Did I not just read that somewhere else |
Yeah, in the "what made you smile today" thread I would have done it yesterday but I was in London |
ah, got to love "copy and paste"!!! |
Actually stupid thing is I didn't bother to copy and paste it |
ah kai canım
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16 Feb 2007 Fri 06:03 am |
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It was a wonderful Valentine's Day. Even though I live on the East Coast of the US in Pennsylvania where we got our first storm of the winter season, my finace called me as soon as he got home from work. He didn't even eat or shower first after a long day of work, he called me first, which even made me love him more. Then he asked if I was at work and I told him that my office was closed due to the storm and he said that he was having something delivered to my office for Valentine's Day. He said not to worry, they would deliver it the next day.
For once, I couldn't wait to go to work and sure enough a beautiful bouquet of a dozen roses arranged in a lovely vase with a deep red ribbon wrapped around it was delivered around lunch time. I called him immediately to thank him and it was so good to hear his voice again. This distance thing really sucks. Hopefully this will be corrected soon.
Whew, I really rambled on. Sorry!! I am just happy!!!
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16 Feb 2007 Fri 10:53 am |
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awww kanka have some flowers
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16 Feb 2007 Fri 01:01 pm |
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Quoting Lapinkulta: ...I think that had to chose me the unluckiest man of the Turkish class. |
Or maybe the luckiest! Think of all the money and effort you have saved by never having a girlfriend on Valentines Day !
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16 Feb 2007 Fri 02:22 pm |
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Quoting aenigma x: Quoting Lapinkulta: ...I think that had to chose me the unluckiest man of the Turkish class. |
Or maybe the luckiest! Think of all the money and effort you have saved by never having a girlfriend on Valentines Day !
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maybe but it could be nice to have a good time in any days with them
I dont care about money.I care about personality and friendship
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16 Feb 2007 Fri 11:17 pm |
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How about friendship, Lapinkulta?
Love without friendship is nothing. This is my opinion, of course.
Friendsip marks a life even more deeper than love!
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17 Feb 2007 Sat 12:36 am |
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Quoting bliss: How about friendship, Lapinkulta?
Love without friendship is nothing. This is my opinion, of course.
Friendsip marks a life even more deeper than love! |
..and even better if you have both love and friendship in one person
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17 Feb 2007 Sat 12:45 am |
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17 Feb 2007 Sat 01:12 am |
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Quoting karekin04: Ohhh how this makes me want to open another thread. Brings to mind this guy I was best friends with for awhile, then tried to have a romantic relationship Turned out to be the worst thing I've ever done and also ruined our friendship forever. So I figure... It's great to have your love become your best friend, but don't try and make your best friend your love. It's my words of wisdom for the day  |
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17 Feb 2007 Sat 09:40 am |
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Quoting karekin04: Ohhh how this makes me want to open another thread. Brings to mind this guy I was best friends with for awhile, then tried to have a romantic relationship Turned out to be the worst thing I've ever done and also ruined our friendship forever. So I figure... It's great to have your love become your best friend, but don't try and make your best friend your love. It's my words of wisdom for the day |
in my opinion u can be in good relationship after long friendship but u cant stay friend after relationship...All couple say eactother to be good friends after love,but this is ver very big lie and it is impossible..Coz if one of them have even abit love to other,the person will try to have other ,will think in same way when he/she hear some compliment and promise will continue forever.hah...So I dont think that they cant stay friend:now Im looking back and think about girl that I was in relationship,we couldnt stay friend ,anyway it is really good to came accross after such a long time.
if u start a relationship with your friend then it is finish,the result of this relationship is more worse.coz u probably will lose everthing such as friend, love etc...
I havent this king of problems,coz Im single and happy
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17 Feb 2007 Sat 09:45 am |
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Quoting Lapinkulta: in my opinion u can be in good relationship after long friendship but u cant stay friend after relationship... |
I know a lot a people that are still friends after the relationship ended. They care and maybe even love eachother (like brother and sister) but there are no more romantic or sexual feelings, for both. My best friend is after 5 years divorce still very close to her ex-husband.
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17 Feb 2007 Sat 09:47 am |
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Quoting bliss: How about friendship, Lapinkulta?
Love without friendship is nothing. This is my opinion, of course.
Friendsip marks a life even more deeper than love! |
so describe me love and friendship???
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17 Feb 2007 Sat 09:52 am |
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Quoting Trudy: Quoting Lapinkulta: in my opinion u can be in good relationship after long friendship but u cant stay friend after relationship... |
I know a lot a people that are still friends after the relationship ended. They care and maybe even love eachother (like brother and sister) but there are no more romantic or sexual feelings, for both. My best friend is after 5 years divorce still very close to her ex-husband. |
it depends on why their relationship finished and this conditions are effected by culture.the effect of the leaving coz of having affair of one couple and feelng ignored are dfferent
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17 Feb 2007 Sat 09:56 am |
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Quoting Lapinkulta: it depends on why their relationship finished and this conditions are effected by culture.the effect of the leaving coz of having affair of one couple and feelng ignored are dfferent |
Of course there are a lot of 'ifs' and 'buts' in cases like this. I agree that it will not work for everyone or for every relationship. But it is possible, I really believe that. With my ex (I have been living together 12 years) I am absolutely no friends (more the opposite), but if it ever happens again that a relationship ends, I hope I can be friends because ending with hate and other nasty feelings doesn't make you happy....
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17 Feb 2007 Sat 10:01 am |
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Quoting Trudy: Quoting Lapinkulta: it depends on why their relationship finished and this conditions are effected by culture.the effect of the leaving coz of having affair of one couple and feelng ignored are dfferent |
Of course there are a lot of 'ifs' and 'buts' in cases like this. I agree that it will not work for everyone or for every relationship. But it is possible, I really believe that. With my ex (I have been living together 12 years) I am absolutely no friends (more the opposite), but if it ever happens again that a relationship ends, I hope I can be friends because ending with hate and other nasty feelings doesn't make you happy.... |
I was taught that I shouldnt stay friend..if she wanna go ,just say: DBYE BYE....
SOMEONE GOES,OTHER ONE COMES---THE THING THAT CHANGES IS THEIR NAMES...
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17 Feb 2007 Sat 10:05 am |
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Quoting Lapinkulta: I was taught that I shouldnt stay friend..if she wanna go ,just say: DBYE BYE....
SOMEONE GOES,OTHER ONE COMES---THE THING THAT CHANGES IS THEIR NAMES... |
That sounds to me if the broken relationship was not important, if you can erase a periode in your life like you erase a black board. Whatever happened, whatever was the reason of the ending, there must have been good times as well and you can change that for just another name? :-S
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17 Feb 2007 Sat 10:19 am |
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Quoting Trudy: Quoting Lapinkulta: I was taught that I shouldnt stay friend..if she wanna go ,just say: DBYE BYE....
SOMEONE GOES,OTHER ONE COMES---THE THING THAT CHANGES IS THEIR NAMES... |
That sounds to me if the broken relationship was not important, if you can erase a periode in your life like you erase a black board. Whatever happened, whatever was the reason of the ending, there must have been good times as well and you can change that for just another name? :-S |
yes,it gained this experience
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17 Feb 2007 Sat 10:35 am |
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i'm not friends with any of my exes.mainly because it ended badly.so i agree with kanka from my experience. i think its very rare when two people are still friends after being lovers especially those who are not still attracted to each other/have feelings
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17 Feb 2007 Sat 10:38 am |
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Quoting robyn : i'm not friends with any of my exes.mainly because it ended badly.so i agree with kanka from my experience. i think its very rare when two people are still friends after being lovers especially those who are not still attracted to each other/have feelings |
I don't say it's common, I say it's possible. And I prefer being friends instead of fighting/hating.
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17 Feb 2007 Sat 10:42 am |
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Quoting Trudy: Quoting robyn : i'm not friends with any of my exes.mainly because it ended badly.so i agree with kanka from my experience. i think its very rare when two people are still friends after being lovers especially those who are not still attracted to each other/have feelings |
I don't say it's common, I say it's possible. And I prefer being friends instead of fighting/hating. |
oh dont get me wrong i would have liked to be friends with them.i just can't because things always ended badly with every single one
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17 Feb 2007 Sat 11:00 am |
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17 Feb 2007 Sat 11:37 am |
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Quoting Lapinkulta: SOMEONE GOES,OTHER ONE COMES---THE THING THAT CHANGES IS THEIR NAMES... |
That is such a sad statement - I think people are unique! I suppose it depends if you loved someone or not.
As for being friends afterwards...I don't think its possible to be friends afterwards if there was passion and love. Either person will find it too hard to remain neutral and not be jealous.
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17 Feb 2007 Sat 11:50 am |
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17 Feb 2007 Sat 01:20 pm |
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Quoting susie k: ...and a giant red rose |
Giant? 
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17 Feb 2007 Sat 02:17 pm |
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I think it is virtually impossible to stay friends after a break-up - as there is always one of you who loves more and still nutures hope that the relationship will be rekindled. It is kinder to say goodbye and let each other move on rather than waste their lives hoping one day to be reunited 
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17 Feb 2007 Sat 02:18 pm |
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Quoting reBooped: I think it is virtually impossible to stay friends after a break-up - as there is always one of you who loves more and still nutures hope that the relationship will be rekindled. It is kinder to say goodbye and let each other move on rather than waste their lives hoping one day to be reunited |
+10000000000
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17 Feb 2007 Sat 05:40 pm |
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18 Feb 2007 Sun 01:28 pm |
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18 Feb 2007 Sun 07:29 pm |
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i got that present that every girl wants.... nothing
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18 Feb 2007 Sun 08:04 pm |
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Quoting Elisa: Quoting robyn : i got that present that every girl wants.... nothing |
Am I seeing things or did you make that clear a couple of times already?
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no i havent said anything on this thread..perhaps it was through telekinesis
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18 Feb 2007 Sun 08:51 pm |
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Quote: Quoting robyn : Am I seeing things or did you make that clear a couple of times already?
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no i havent said anything on this thread..perhaps it was through telekinesis |
Through the powers of telekinesis:-
Quoting robyn : i agree..and i haven't even been married that long..no cards, no presents, nothing special just another day.at least i;m not the only one  |
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18 Feb 2007 Sun 09:02 pm |
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Quote: Quoting aenigma x: Quoting robyn : Am I seeing things or did you make that clear a couple of times already?
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no i havent said anything on this thread..perhaps it was through telekinesis |
Through the powers of telekinesis:-
Quoting robyn : i agree..and i haven't even been married that long..no cards, no presents, nothing special just another day.at least i;m not the only one |
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was that on this thread or another please present your evidence as my point was i said nothing on this thread
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18 Feb 2007 Sun 09:20 pm |
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Quote: Quoting robyn : Quoting aenigma x: Quoting robyn : Am I seeing things or did you make that clear a couple of times already?
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no i havent said anything on this thread..perhaps it was through telekinesis |
Through the powers of telekinesis:-
Quoting robyn : i agree..and i haven't even been married that long..no cards, no presents, nothing special just another day.at least i;m not the only one |
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was that on this thread or another please present your evidence as my point was i said nothing on this thread |
Ahh I see - you gave a politician's answer to Elisa's question
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guess it was all that warning people to NOT buy me chocolates 
