I fell really in love before and was so sad that we ended up just friends. Although it doesn't hurt that bad anymore still there's a feeling of regret that I did not fight for it. Yeah, if I can only turn back the hands of time.
Now I believe that WHAT IS OVER IS DONE. I just like to learn from you guys the things you did just to go for it and never hesitated. I am afraid I will fall really in love anytime soon and for the second time lost it. I don't wanna miss the next train and I promised myself never to do the same mistake again. Honestly, if it is so be that I will fall really in love again I WILL MARRY HIM even other people think it's crazy (like my manager telling me that most good men are taken) and marriage is no longer a trend.

I wonder more about your story. You said if you had fighted more for your love, you wouldn't have ended being friends. How would it have been? What kind of fight is it? To care more, to beg him, to chase after him? Doesn't it also mean that he didn't fight also and it was too easy to lose him?

It was my fault and I got nothing to blame on him. It was because of my weakness.. I didn't fought for it that's why I felt terribly sorry for myself.
As I said, WHAT IS OVER IS DONE. I just like to hear about the craziest thing you did or you could ever do JUST FOR LOVE.
You know... just to have him/ her?? What d'ya think?

You don't wanna call it crazy, do you? Okay..let's make it a great thing. So far, what's the greatest thing you did or you can ever do for love?

well... i didnt do it... it was my bf... when i decided that we should cool things down for a while bcoz of sth. that had happened, he tried killing himself by overdosing...he said it was bcoz he couldnt carry on without me... :S

Gurl! That is just an expression.. I didn't mean to say that he is a freak. I mean to say that suicide is freakin' me out! Okay.. I need to shut this freak up... lol.. I gotta go. The company meeting is about to start. Sorry.. that word is not for your bf...I respect him, okay? Peace gurl!!

trust, be honest with, respect, and bless that person.

If one dies for that special someone - then in the future you cannot be there for another special someone. In one's lifetime there are sometimes many special someones...maybe the one you think is the only one is not so. Maybe a week later you would have met the person of your dreams - but now you are dead - what good is that?

we can only act based on what we know, and between the present and future, it is the present. Dying for someone you presently feel is a special someone is more sure and worth it than ´ifs´ regarding the future..th

let's remember that this thread is about 'crazy' things, not necessarily right or reasonable... .
I think Aidhan is talking about a situation where someone HAS TO die... let's pray we'll never be in such a situation .

To lay down your life for the sake of the one you truly, madly in love with is a lot sweeter if that person is really worth dying for ( ..and that's when the act becomes great). However if the case is to take your own life after some serious heartaches is (man... that's when it becomes) crazy.

oh not that someone HAS to die.. only if that were the situation then i guess the greatest or craziest thing to do would be as i said