i know a LOT of girls who did.

well maybe your right i met mine on holiday but it was a while b4 he sed he loves me
but i will b careful and i just wanna say thanks 4 the advice
take care
lol bye

I agree with u Kirsty...Girls must be careful coz culture differences will be seen after marriage and at this time u will understand real life. ppl can be hypocritical and unfeeling. Love hurts all the time

yes Janissary , but my reason for this thread was to warn a lot of the girls on here who are believing quickly the romantic words of the turkish man. When you and I both know there are a LOT of Turkish men who do this, with the plan of just making their life here. They are nice and lovely to the girls until they are married and have their visa. We even know a lot of them already have families back in Turkey they will send over after their visa is ok. I just think the girls should know there are a lot of guys who do that. :-S

In defence of the Turkish man- I would just say to all the young, vulnerable girls out there - It is not just Turkish men you have to be careful with, it applies to men from any race! When you are young(or old for that matter!) it is very easy to fall in love - because we all want to hear sweet words of undying love, it is natural. Take things slowly and don't always believe what you are told. It takes time to build a relationship. Dont be in a rush. That's not being too cynical, I hope? Just realistic!

I wouldn't say that it was just Turkish men in general, where ever you go there are creeps......especially those that play around on the internet! You have to be very careful of those

Love makes people blind all the time and we cant see some realities when love someone very much. if girls belive some romantic words and then get married quickly, isnt it their fault too?I dont think it s really difficult to understand someone 's personality. about Visa why do not they want to live in turkey or suggest their boyfriend to live here. do they know how difficult to live in a foreign country far from family and friend for all his life. even I lived in turkey, I miss my hometown... I dont believe if a man says "I want to live there, because I love you"...at first girls must find an answer why they want to come there...once and for all, I agree with some thoughts of Kirsty. you must be logical, life isnt a play

I think the saying that "Love makes blind" is an insult to the other side of love: Love makes you see beauties you wouldn't see without love!

And i also think, if you are BOTH aware of the culturedifferences, you can work them out

So indeed, be careful. But.. this is for every love isn't it? I think love is the one thing that brings living and killing so close. But fear and pain can make you able to do things you thought you never could.
Hesitate, and your doubts will grow, Take risks and your courage will grow..

To me, Türkiye ís the country of deep, undying, overruling, passionate love. A love that makes you wanna die if someone would be better for your girl or boy than you!

So even if your man is a 'wrong one'.. it will be an experience for all that will come.

i felt myself bad here......aslan....sophie....and everybody....someone must support me....are we men dragons????