I dont want to dampen your love life, but there are a lot of young girls who are wanting translations from their Turkish boyfriends. But their stories are the same, met on holiday he wants to be with you for ever after a short while. Even most of the messages they are all sending and getting translated on here are the same as the other guys. Girls, I'm not saying it's not love, I'm just saying be careful!!

i think she must had a bad experience but friend please dont give up so easily.....she must be now like a deer with great horns....
hey try to smile ....or join ceyda....she always makes us smile...ehuehuehu

now ceyda will check wad i wrote...but she will disappoint when she saw dis....ehuehuehu sorry ceyda....heheheh you dont need to check that all my entries...
im goin bye

no, i didnt have a bad situation out of it with a boyfriend

i know a LOT of girls who did.

well maybe your right i met mine on holiday but it was a while b4 he sed he loves me
but i will b careful and i just wanna say thanks 4 the advice
take care
lol bye

I agree with u Kirsty...Girls must be careful coz culture differences will be seen after marriage and at this time u will understand real life. ppl can be hypocritical and unfeeling. Love hurts all the time

yes Janissary , but my reason for this thread was to warn a lot of the girls on here who are believing quickly the romantic words of the turkish man. When you and I both know there are a LOT of Turkish men who do this, with the plan of just making their life here. They are nice and lovely to the girls until they are married and have their visa. We even know a lot of them already have families back in Turkey they will send over after their visa is ok. I just think the girls should know there are a lot of guys who do that. :-S

In defence of the Turkish man- I would just say to all the young, vulnerable girls out there - It is not just Turkish men you have to be careful with, it applies to men from any race! When you are young(or old for that matter!) it is very easy to fall in love - because we all want to hear sweet words of undying love, it is natural. Take things slowly and don't always believe what you are told. It takes time to build a relationship. Dont be in a rush. That's not being too cynical, I hope? Just realistic!

I wouldn't say that it was just Turkish men in general, where ever you go there are creeps......especially those that play around on the internet! You have to be very careful of those

Love makes people blind all the time and we cant see some realities when love someone very much. if girls belive some romantic words and then get married quickly, isnt it their fault too?I dont think it s really difficult to understand someone 's personality. about Visa why do not they want to live in turkey or suggest their boyfriend to live here. do they know how difficult to live in a foreign country far from family and friend for all his life. even I lived in turkey, I miss my hometown... I dont believe if a man says "I want to live there, because I love you"...at first girls must find an answer why they want to come there...once and for all, I agree with some thoughts of Kirsty. you must be logical, life isnt a play

I think the saying that "Love makes blind" is an insult to the other side of love: Love makes you see beauties you wouldn't see without love!

And i also think, if you are BOTH aware of the culturedifferences, you can work them out

So indeed, be careful. But.. this is for every love isn't it? I think love is the one thing that brings living and killing so close. But fear and pain can make you able to do things you thought you never could.
Hesitate, and your doubts will grow, Take risks and your courage will grow..

To me, Türkiye ís the country of deep, undying, overruling, passionate love. A love that makes you wanna die if someone would be better for your girl or boy than you!

So even if your man is a 'wrong one'.. it will be an experience for all that will come.

i felt myself bad here......aslan....sophie....and everybody....someone must support me....are we men dragons????

Hey ramayan - i'm sure you are not one of the nasty ones - and it is true some women are just as mean, in some cases more so, as some men - it is not confined to any particular sex or race.

The purpose of starting this thread was not to insult Turkish men, nor to put down love. I personally am married to a Turkish man and I love Turkey and I am a big believer of love. So this thread is not about culture differences, nor am I just saying it is just Turkish men who are giulty of this, but as this is the Turkish class full of girls being romances by Turkish men, i focus it to them. Nor am I saying , Rayaman,that all Turkish men are the same. But I am saying that there are an awful lot of Turkish men who are using girls to get a visa and to be careful.So you Rayaman do not need defending because I was not talking about you.

If in doubt, consult AlphaF LOVE TEST...

come on girls. when you want a message from your boyfriend translated, look at all the other girls messages that girls have had translated. see the similarity in the messages. Just want to keep this thread alive to keep you girls cautios you are welcome!!