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My family do not agree
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02 May 2007 Wed 08:43 am |
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Quoting Quasimodo: In my opinion marriage itself is a breach of human rights! You should be able to live with, without marrying, whom you want. It is up to the persons to make it succeed. Marriage is outdated.  |
 This is coming from the man who has proposed to nearly every woman on this site??? 
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02 May 2007 Wed 02:37 pm |
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Quoting girleegirl:
This is coming from the man who has proposed to nearly every woman on this site??? |
You know, warriors do have and in fact should have some strategies, and spiders, web; so that they could capture whomever they regard as a enemy or a bait.
panta rei
(Also known as:
cyrano
cyrano the Great
muskeeter the Great
romantic poet
AllTooHuman
The teacher of Alexander The Little
Quasimodo
The prince of Notre-Dome
The warrior the Great)
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02 May 2007 Wed 04:38 pm |
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When I just met my (ex)boyfriend we didn't even talk about moving there or anything. I was only concerned with going there on holiday again  . I think you shouldn't be talking about all that stuff yet when you only just met.. it just takes time with long distance relationships!
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02 May 2007 Wed 05:24 pm |
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But I don't see there's any reason in starting the relationship in the first place if it's not going to lead anywhere.
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02 May 2007 Wed 06:16 pm |
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That's true it does take time and hard work when it comes to long distance. I say that i like to hope that it leads into to a future because its hard. If not then i put it down to experience.
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12 Jul 2007 Thu 05:34 am |
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Quoting sweet.kane: My family do not like the idear of me going over to turkey for a Turkish guy. They seem to think it will never work it was a holiday romance and they say that he probably just wants money. This makes me pretty mad as i would like support on my choices. I have no one to talk to about this, is anyone on the same boat???
Sarah
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Hi, Sarah, My name is Kat, and I'm in a VERY similar situation as you. I met my boyfriend when I was overseas in Iraq, and he was there as a Turkish translator of a contracting company. We were together for the year that I was over there, and decided that we were going to be together.
I live in the US and he lives in Adana. When he went back home from Iraq, he had to join the Turkish military, that was last May. We've kept in touch the entire time, and he'll be finishing his 15 months in August. I have a 2-year old son, and don't have much money on my own, so when he gets out of the military, he's going back to Iraq to make enough money to fly us to Turkey, where we will be married.
My mother hates the idea of us being together. i can't even say his name, or "my boyfriend" to her. she feels that he just wants his green card, blah, blah, blah, i've heard it all. But the biggest problem is that he's Muslim, and as far as she knows all Muslims are "terrorists", which i think is one of the most ignorant misconcepts someone can have. But anyway, I love him, we will be married and have beautiful black and Turkish babies.
Follow your heart, girl. and if you need some strength, I have plenty to share! Send me a PM.
Kat
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15 Jul 2007 Sun 07:46 pm |
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Quoting sweet.kane: My family do not like the idear of me going over to turkey for a Turkish guy. They seem to think it will never work it was a holiday romance and they say that he probably just wants money. This makes me pretty mad as i would like support on my choices. I have no one to talk to about this, is anyone on the same boat???
Sarah
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if you marry him he'll get a greencard and thats what he wants probably
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15 Jul 2007 Sun 08:02 pm |
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Quoting lastfinalwords:
if you marry him he'll get a greencard and thats what he wants probably |
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15 Jul 2007 Sun 09:23 pm |
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Quoting sweet.kane: Am not so sure we should judge a book by the cover. I know some Turks want British women for money, but i also know British women go on holiday for sex.
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sweet=kane, did you miss the word "" some "" out from between the words Know and British????
I go on holiday to Turkey because of the beautiful country and it people.
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15 Jul 2007 Sun 09:31 pm |
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Quoting christine: Quoting sweet.kane: Am not so sure we should judge a book by the cover. I know some Turks want British women for money, but i also know British women go on holiday for sex.
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sweet=kane, did you not miss the word ""some"" out from between the some,British women????
I go on holiday to turkey because i love the country,people and its history. |
+1000000000
Also, the women who "go just for sex" will never be seen on this website because they literally go for sex I guess, and don't make the mistake of forming a relationship with these men, thus no translations or Turkish lessons required!
Besides...some "books" have been read by so many people before you...you already know what's in them without having to open it. I think we are qualified to judge these men by their "reviews"
(ouhhhh I made myself laugh )
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