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an ideal person to be in love with
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1.       angelina-Melek
105 posts
 20 Dec 2005 Tue 05:41 pm

All of us fall in love sooner or later... Could you try do describe a person who is worth loving (as you see it)?

2.       Chris123
156 posts
 20 Dec 2005 Tue 05:48 pm

A strange question . Really, we fall in love without choice (whether the person is worth falling in love with or not)
Maybe if you are lucky you will fall in love with someone who is worth your love

3.       angelina-Melek
105 posts
 20 Dec 2005 Tue 06:21 pm

I do agree that it's a strange question. But it happens so that people keep asking this question.
Sure we can't predict whom we'll love. But we can look for someone special to us. I mean someone wants to have a relationship with a person of the same age as he/she himself/herself is, or likes blondes, etc.
The questions is: what is your ideal?

4.       sophie
2712 posts
 20 Dec 2005 Tue 06:25 pm

let me try...

He would be loving me for what i am and not for what i could be. He would give me my own space and would never try to cage me or change me. He would be able to make me laugh and live life to the maximum with me. He would make me feel like a real, wanted woman and not like a housewife. And he would be able to wake up my passion, only with a simple touch.

financial situation, job, outlooks etc have never had any importance...

5.       angelina-Melek
105 posts
 20 Dec 2005 Tue 06:29 pm

Sounds great! Have you ever met such men?
Well, my ideal is much the same, but the thing is that I've never met a person who would not try to change me or take my space

6.       sophie
2712 posts
 20 Dec 2005 Tue 06:33 pm

Quoting angelina-Melek:

Sounds great! Have you ever met such men?
Well, my ideal is much the same, but the thing is that I've never met a person who would not try to change me or take my space



yes Angelina, i have. The only thing he was missing, was the guts to leave the secutiry of his routine and "live life to the maximum"...

7.       angelina-Melek
105 posts
 20 Dec 2005 Tue 06:37 pm

I wish both of us to meet "the one and only" who wood meet all the criteria! Or at least make us feel that he meets all the criteria

8.       sophie
2712 posts
 20 Dec 2005 Tue 06:40 pm

Quoting angelina-Melek:

I wish both of us to meet "the one and only" who wood meet all the criteria! Or at least make us feel that he meets all the criteria



inşallah! or...Amen

9.       lululy
0 posts
 20 Dec 2005 Tue 06:49 pm

he should be honest 2 me (lying to the others may be alright!!), tidy, humourous, intelligent(but not 2 clever!!), always thoughtful of me, ambitious, hard-working, and so on~
it's better that he loves me more than i do...
anyway, i love the way that he loves me...it's 2 abstract~
he should make me feel that i am complete to be with him!

10.       hande84
18 posts
 20 Dec 2005 Tue 07:10 pm

Love is a choice, so I will be careful who I give my heart to. First he has to be a strong Christian.He would be honest,dependable,trustworthy,have a sense of humor, gentle,kind and treat me with respect and tenderness. He would show the kind of love that is self-sacrificing..I would not have to worry about his sincerity or faithfulness.He would be my best friend,my protecter, my comforter, my lover, the only man I would ever give my everything to.

And I believe he is out there somewhere...

11.       bod
5999 posts
 20 Dec 2005 Tue 07:31 pm

Quoting angelina-Melek:

The questions is: what is your ideal?



By asking about ideals you are more asking about what we lust after, not with whom we fall in love! For me, freaky and bubbly are perhaps the first qualities that attract me but they need to be followed by true care, interest and depth of personality.

12.       mltm
3690 posts
 20 Dec 2005 Tue 08:46 pm

The question is nice, because you don't ask just about our ideal princes or princesses, you're asking about whom is worth to love.

If I'm in love, I want it to last forever, so my prince should have unchangeable character and feelings. He should be a balanced person. He should give his heart once to me and never take it back. He should put nothing more important than me. He should venture everything and stand every pain for me. So that I can give myself totally to him and have an eternal trust in him.

what a great dream...

13.       deli
5904 posts
 20 Dec 2005 Tue 09:35 pm

dream on girl

14.       ramayan
2633 posts
 20 Dec 2005 Tue 10:40 pm

we must love someone just bcos of love....
love for love......

i think so................

15.       iam4fun
137 posts
 20 Dec 2005 Tue 10:47 pm

i opened new post as an answer because it was a bit long

16.       christine
443 posts
 20 Dec 2005 Tue 11:55 pm

[me try...

He would be loving me for what i am and not for what i could be. He would give me my own space and would never try to cage me or change me. He would be able to make me laugh and live life to the maximum with me. He would make me feel like a real, wanted woman and not like a housewife. And he would be able to wake up my passion, only with a simple touch.

financial situation, job, outlooks etc have never had any importance

I found just the person. Then i woke up

17.       foxymel1uk
45 posts
 21 Dec 2005 Wed 12:26 am

18.       klorhex
8 posts
 21 Dec 2005 Wed 12:44 am

Quoting christine:

[me try...

He would be loving me for what i am and not for what i could be. He would give me my own space and would never try to cage me or change me. He would be able to make me laugh and live life to the maximum with me. He would make me feel like a real, wanted woman and not like a housewife. And he would be able to wake up my passion, only with a simple touch.

financial situation, job, outlooks etc have never had any importance

I found just the person. Then i woke up




i cant believe , i think this will never happen but you have the one you r so lucky actually its too far from me

19.       Boop
785 posts
 21 Dec 2005 Wed 01:35 am

It is better not to be too specific about the particular kind of person you want to fall in love with - you should remain open - love can take you by surprise - you can fall in love when you least expect it..... just live it! When you truly love you accept that other person even though they may not have all the qualities you thought you were looking for. You accept them for what they are and they accept you......and nothing else matters.

20.       Aslan
1070 posts
 21 Dec 2005 Wed 01:56 am

...the person I fall in love with must be intelligent and humouristic - and also create magic with me...the so called chemistry...anything else can differ from time to time...but these criterias must be there...if not..

I came to think of an old goodie by Melanie - I really loved Harold. Here are the lyrics:

They told me when I was little
I'd go to heaven, if I was good.
Now I'm a long way from little
'Cause I tried to find heaven, 'cause I thought that I could
I thought that I could.
And I thought I loved Harold and I really loved John,
I really loved Alphy and I almost loved Tom.
I loved them so easy and I loved them so free,
So I don't think that heaven will wanna love me.

Hallo, song of the willow,
The dreams under my pillow turned to tears that I cried.
Beauty and love are our riddle,
Never to answer but always to try,
And boy, did I try?
I tried with Harold and I tried with John,
I tried with Alphy and almost with Tom.
I left myself open for the whole world to see,
Now the world is the heaven that won't accept me.

I said goodbye to Harold and goodbye to John,
Goodbye to Alphy and goodbye to Tom
'Cause I loved them so easy and I loved them so free,
So I don't think that heaven will wanna love me.
Oh say, can you see, by the dawn's early light
No light will shine me?

21.       Leann
37 posts
 21 Dec 2005 Wed 06:13 am

For me..The ideal man who worth to love is he ready to sacrify for me,no matter what happend,even though the day is so hard to pass for both of us,he still try the best to pamper me just to see the smile on my face and make me happy.Not allow sad tears flow in my eyes coz he can carry all my sadness away.Be honest to me and tell me everything even though he know he did mistake.Be strong and make me relax by telling me dont worry for evrything coz he ll solve all the problem,what i need is just to be a happy wife/gf for him.

I am the 1st place in his heart,evrything he do is just think to give a good life for our future.

Ahamduillah,i found the man i want in my life and wish to have good life with him forever..Insallah

22.       jok
34 posts
 20 Jan 2006 Fri 05:17 pm

My perfect or ideal guy to fall in love with would have to be someone who adores and loves me so much. He has to be honest, faithful, sweet, down to earth and have confidence in himself. He has to have a good sense of humor and be able to laugh at life. He is someone that is ambitious and is not afraid to take risks. He is intelligent and puts me above his friends. He also has to be tall; I love tall men. Also, he has to be romantic and a gentleman.

23.       ramayan
2633 posts
 27 Jan 2006 Fri 03:55 am

frank,open minded,wise enough,good sense of humour....enough....

then be happiest one of world....

24.       miss_ceyda
2627 posts
 28 Jan 2006 Sat 01:40 pm

i believe that the idea person would differ for everyone..
for example.. some people may like their person to be rich whereas some would argue that money shouldnt be an issue..
some may say that their ideal person should be laid back and bubbly.. whereas others may say that its ideal for someone to be serious and not laugh at everything..

who is to say what the "ideal" partner really is in other words??

i believe that the person i have found is ideal for me...
although im sure that there are a lot of girls out there who would disagree... maybe they wouldnt like my bf's jealousy hehe.. but i like it.. well, to an extent..

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