how would u describe loneliness and happiness?
how could be alone and happy?

It is impossible!!!!

People who are lonely are completely alone. Sometimes even a crowd they feel they don't belong there- so they are lonely in their minds. But a person can be happy being alone, that is without a partner in man&woman relationship's meaning. However this kind of people have usually really good friends or some passions, like science, they are totaly devoted to. No one can be lonely forever, I think there always comes the moment a person becomes to feel lonely somehow...He or she starts to think then and realises that his/her live is not truly happy. Sometimes people realise that when they are old, sometimes earlier, but this is always a vary sad moment...

of course u can be alone and happy - being alone does not mean unhappiness. some pople choose living alone deliberately and enjoy it. there are different things u need at different stages of life - sometimes u need crowds around u and sometimes u need to shun from people. problem arises when u're alone but it's not what u want - then u're lonely and thus unhappy...

I was the Loneliest person on the world at the time when i was with my ex boyfriend .
So that means , you dont need to be alone, to feel lonely , u just need to be unhappy and that is it ...

If you are in love , happy , satisfied, if you have feeling that your life is good and if you have a reason to live , to make somebody happy , u can't feel alone...

But you can also be surrounded by people who love you, but if they don't understand you, or take you for granted, then you can also sometimes feel very alone, because no one understands your feelings.

... and then your life is very lonely and very tragic .

To be "alone" means you have no one at all, like being shipwrecked on a dsesert island, I would be very unhappy.

If you have people around you who love you and treasure your friendship, then you are not "alone".

If you mean !alone" as in no BF/GF, then you can still be very happy and have a fulfilling life.

No need to be unhappy.

liz
xxxx

Well,I am alone
I have none! :O
And I am the king of my own self!!!

Hello my turkish classy fellow members!

I want to thank all of you who really participate in making this web-site complete. I feel the Members' are most important in perfecting and enhancing the site with there input and true inspirations and in sites of there world and
There opinion or questions of other worlds which combined is a universe of one all humans from east to west west to east south to north, christians,jewish,islam,moslem,catholic,........white black yellow brown male or female gay or straight etc. you get the idea? Anyway when you get down to the heart of it we are all equal as humans with spirits of so many various. So we should all treat all in such that manner. These Holy war's and combat war's are not good and I pray we all live on this earth to see world peace! That is before we pass and our spirits are in the state of eternal life and love and PEACE!

I want to give a holler at Bliss! Hey girl kiss your puppy for me and to the king above me King Attila, you may be alone per say but you sound so complete as a person as you said "you are the king of your own self" some people do not get that far in there human life so I applaud you! I also want to say you are not alone as i am here for you OK and I am sure other's to. Stay positive and love yourself in order to really love other's!!
I also want to say a prayer for those who have not quite figured them selves out or other's and have to debate there religion as competition or a war per say. I got caught up in one last night here and it was the first time in that type of situation and it is crazy.........so exhausting and the judging was ridiculous. So to the people who had there religious boxing gloves on good luck take the energy to judge, push there beliefs to a negative level and do some soul searching within not through scriptures in a book/bible or ways you prove and commit to your religion! And please do not compare negative aspects of another persons belief. I am going to share a bit of that chat to give you an idea or maybe a wake up call as you can sit back and read the debate of wasted time in chat: remember do not judge!
Salgado (07:59): can faith save him? This was a comment towards phoenix an Islam or Moslem whatever a human being with such blinders on he was comparing his religion prior to this comment, he or she said such things of nonsense in my opinion. EXAMPLE: HIS RELIGION IS CLEANER???? So silly a religion of cleanliness levels? OK
NEXT EXAMPLE COMMENT MADE BY LIZ TOWARDS YOURS TRULY:
Liz (08:0: "cali u say: I believe in God but don't have to agree with his choices...that means you're just picking and choosing what you believe in. Which means you don't actually believe in God but yourself" AS I read it now I see it as a compliment. BECAUSE MY TRUE FEELINGS ARE YOU MUST BELIEVE IN YOURSELF WITHIN YOUR SOUL AND LOVE YOU TO GIVE THAT TRUE LOVE TO OTHERS OTHERWISE USELESS SO THANK YOU LIZ!! Liz (08:01): Yes, faith is the ONLY thing that saves..LIZ SAYS AND IT IS SO TRUE FAITH IS THE ONLY THING TO SAVE A SOUL FAITH WITHIN FAITH FOR YOU OWN SELF AND THEN THE FAITH WILL SPREAD TO BE A BEAUTIFUL EVOLVING AND HEALTHY AND POSITIVE MIRACLE.

SO BLESS YOU ALL AND KEEP ON SMILING! SOMETIMES A GOOD CRY IS CLEANSING AS WELL BE HAPPY WITHIN AND YOU WILL FIND AN EVERLASTING LOVE FOR LIFE ON EARTH BEFORE YOUR SPIRIT TRANSITIONS TO ETERNAL LIFE!
PEACE BABIES BE COOL
PRINCESS STACIA AKA /KELLEY/PARIS

Hello Kelley,
I really liked your post.Thank you.I love our turkish class too, really enjoy reading posts and learn from others experiences.You're all great.Even one small sentence here matters.It is good to share our ideas, our thoughts.But please, remeber to love each other and respect each others believes.I would give everything to change this world to make it better place to live.It is coming from my heart, these are not only words.Believe me.I have hard time to go to chat room because of few "kids".Let's think how we can change this.Ignorance doesn't help.That's not right, I think.I don't know, maybe these people also can read this post.I beg them to behave normal, humanly way in chat room.I saw little girl the other day in chat room.She was 15.She was surprized,when she learned my age.Called me "mad".After few minutes there were guys who behave awfully.Do this people think, why they communicate this way? I think this is "madness".
I am so sorry to take your time , but I was thinking about this for few days and wanted to share with you,guys.
I have few books.And I want to suggest to read.In my opinion they are good.Just try them.
"Steps to the Top" by Zig Ziglar.
"Infinite Life.Seven Virtues for Living Well" by Robert Thurman.
"The Power of Full Engagement" by Jim Loehr and Tony Schwartz.

I love you all.

HELLO BLISS

you I ADMIRE you are and wise beyond your years!

I HAVE NOT BUMPED INTO THE TEENS YOU MENTIONED BUT I WILL POST SOME LINKS FOR THEM BELOW, IT IS SAD THERE SO SMALL MINDED TO ACT IN SUCH A MANNER. THIS IS NOT A CHAT ROOM FOR PERSONALS ECT. I AM SO GLAD I FOUND THIS SITE!

I LOVE ALL OF OUR CLASSY MEMBERS TOO AND HOPE THAT THIS SITUATION DOES NOT HAPPEN AGAIN!

PEACE AND LOVE TO ALL
STACIA/KELLEY/PARIS

FOR ALL THE CHAT PEOPLE WHO ARE HERE FOR THE WRONG RESONS
HERE ARE SOME CHAT LINKS TO SUIT YOU EXPECTATIONS AND ALL UNDERAGED CHATTERS UNDER 18 BE CAREFULL AT ANY SITE YOU MAY RUN INTO TROUBLE AS THERE ARE CYBER PREDATORS IN SOME CHAT ROOMS


HI5 http://www.hi5.com/friend/displayChatRooms.do
true https://www.true.com/signup_v2r.htm
my space has games and chat combined
http://games.myspace.com/
msn groups a few links
http://groups.msn.com/kewlchatinternational
i have a chat group you can join for free but you must behave
http://groups.msn.com/KELLEYSCHILLENCHATROOM/_homepage.msnw?

yahoo games has chat games pool is fun
http://games.yahoo.com/
have fun

Hello Kelley,
Thank you for your promt respond.It worries me because I don't want our kids get in troublle and see all these crasy things on NET.I blame her mom who doesn't care where her daughter goes.I don't think this site is appropriate for her age.

Hey Kelley, I just noticed we put our posts in wrong place, but it is ok.I appologize for this , guys. Anyway this is about being alone.We prove we are not, if we care.

Hey Kelley...That was a nice speech !

HELLO CLASSY FRIENDS

THANKS FOR EVERYTHING AND BE HAPPY TAKE CARE!

PEACE AND LOVE
PRINCESS STACIA

ATTILA IS NOT ALONE!!!!!!

You can never be alone, you have friends on here and if you ever want to chat I will always chat to you.

Love and kisses.
Liz

p.s thanks to Bliss and kelley for their more than interesting posts.

chao.

Liz
xxxxx

OHHH!! you are too cutee !!!
THAANKS!!

Hello everyone,
I was thniking I am alone and lonely before coming to this lovely site.Thanks to all of you I changed my mind and attitude toward life.I can see how you care and help each other, even we are from different countries.It is encouraging.And now I know for sure I am not alone I have friends here 24 hours.I can count on them .
Thank you to all of you, guys.
Thank you Widdley.

The pleasure is all mine.

People who completely are alone, want to be that way, people here are all my friends and believe me I'm so glad I found this site.

Love and kisses
Liz

(and attila you will always be close to my heart)

Hello Miss Liz,

How are you? Good I hope! I am happy that you are posting messages and enjoying the forums. The Classy members are a big part of this website in making it unique and a lesson of life or should I say lives....what a combination of interrupting people and so much more as well as Turkish lessons.

I really am sorry about that debate chat war we were put in the middle of and am sure that my impression
(1st impression) of you was accurate you are a smart and open lady and look forward to chatting with you again...of course not a religion debate as I think throwing stones or comparing religions in a negative way is not enlightening and I am interested in educating myself of all religions and a fellow member or any person who would like to share their Faith/religion....here in forum would be welcomed by many and of course me.

Take Care everyone and it was a pleasure to meet you
Liz It was also nice to meet Widdley and I really enjoy the forum widdlry wrote too....the fact that we are from around the world and able to bond in such a unique way gives me that much more hope that someday the Beautiful people of the world can come together and share in a world of peace! I hope we are still in our human lives prior to our transition to spiritual beings living in eternity all of our lives,feelings,faith,cultures,nations.....are very precious and the more they interact and come together in a positive way WORLD PEACE IS A DREAM OF WHICH I THINK MAJORITY PEOPLE SHARE. BLESS YOU ALL!

Peace, LOVE and Happiness FROM THE USA TO ALL THE WORLD

Princess stacia

Privet Tsarevna

I AM A DINGING PRINCESS AT TIMES

THE POST BEFORE THIS ONE IN THE FIRST PARAGRAPH I WROTE INTERRUPTING (SPELL CHECKED TO QUICKLY) AND THAT WAS WAYYYYYYYYYYYY OFF I MEANT INTERESTING. SO SORRY....ALSO I MADE A MISTAKE IN SPELLING WIDDLEY SORRY



HOW EMBARASSING

Hey kelley

I will put something straight i think everyone is getting confused because i sign my posts "liz". there is a liz who goes in the chat room but her nick name is also liz.

so widdley is me, liz, and the Liz in the chatroom is another Liz.
xxxx

xxxx
love from Widdley(liz)

Zdravstvuy(hello) Tsarevna Anastasia!
How are you? I am glad you adopted this name.It means you like it.It is very classy,my dear.We live very close to each other but meet here.As you see this site unites us. It is pleasure to have friends here and exchange positive ideas.
Yes, you are right we can change many things, if we unite.
Regards, Bliss

HELLO LIZ WIDDLEY MY APOLOGIES AGAIN!

OK WHEN I SAID "I, AM, A LITTLE DINGY FROM TIME TO TIME" YES I WAS NOT BEING TOTALLY HONEST......

I REALLY SHOULD HAVE FIGURED THAT OUT....
SINCE THE LIZ IN CHAT NEVER HAD READ ANY FORUMS OR WRITTEN ANY FOR THAT MATTER. I WAS ENCOURAGING HER TO DO SO AS SHE WOULD/COULD GET a lot OUT OF IT.......MORE SO THAN THE CHAT/DEBATE SESSION THAT TOOK PLACE ABOUT A WEEK AGO SHE DIDN'T SEEM VERY INTERESTED, I WISH PEOPLE COULD OPEN THERE EYES,MINDS,HEARTS TO MORE THAN A CHAT ROOM......ESPECIALLY WHEN IT IS A CHAT GONE BAD IN WHATEVER WAY THAT MAY BE.
ANYWAY LIZ SAID SOMETHING THAT I FELT WAS INAPPROPRIATE AND I HAD TO BRING IT TO HER ATTENTION. SHE WAS NICE AND WANTED TO RESOLVE OR LET ME SPEAK MY CONCERNS TO HER IN A PRIVATE TURKISH CLASS CHAT......WHICH SHE INFORMED ME HOW TO DO THANKS LIZ #2.....DID EVERYONE KNOW YOU CAN SPEAK PRIVATE IN OUR CHAT ROOM? OH WELL IT IS A PLEASURE TO MEET YOU WIDDLEY AND THANKS FOR CLEARING THAT UP!

PEACE, LOVE, HAPPINESS, AND HUGS DOLL!

Privet Tsarevna

PRINCESS STACIA LYNN

I WANT TO SAY HI TO MY BUDDY AND A UNIQUE CLASS ACT WHAT'S UP BLISS HOPE YOUR GOOD! HAVE A GREAT DAY!

HELLO BLISS

THANK YOU FOR ENLIGHTENING ME IN SO MANY WAY'S AS YOU DO FOR MYSELF AND MORE, WHETHER IT BE WITH ONE WORD OR MORE YOU ARE SOMEONE THAT INSPIRES MYSELF AND MANY MORE. THANK YOU FOR TEACHING ME SOME HISTORY OF THE NAME,Privet Tsarevna I CHOSE TO ADOPT BUT YOU INITIATED.
I, AM, TO FOR A FEW REASONS THE MOST IMPORTANT IS YOU NICKNAMED ME IT AND I HIGHLY LOOK UP TO YOU AS A REAL PERSON AS WE ARE ALL REAL PEOPLE BUT THERE ARE THOSE TO WHICH ARE REAL TRUE AND TRUE, THROUGH AND THROUGH A UNIQUE PERSON AND I SEE THESE QUALITIES IN YOU SO THANKS FOR NEW THE NICK NAME I AM PROUD TO USE IT
MY FELLOW CALI GIRL. I HOPE TO MEET YOU SOMEDAY! BEFORE I RELOCATE TO TURKEY.

MUCH ADMIRATION,
Privet Tsarevna
PRINCESS STACIA

My dear tsarevna Anastasia,
You are more than welcome! I look forward to meet you too.
Thank you for all the warm words.I like that name very much and glad you use it.

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