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Does love forgive everything?
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29 Jun 2007 Fri 12:46 pm |
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I think people mistake NEED for LOVE. Their need to be "loved" and fear of being alone is so desperate that they forgive anything! They never stop to analyse if they actually LIKE that person any more .... 
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29 Jun 2007 Fri 01:47 pm |
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Yea i once had an experience, i forgave my love but did not mean we will be together again. I forgave him when he asked for it then we separated ways and have each own life to move forward to. I cant forget what he did if i continued and accepted him again in my life and the pain will never fade away from my heart moreso, we can never be the same again.
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29 Jun 2007 Fri 04:24 pm |
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You may want to try to forgive (for whatever reason: if you really love the person or if you are afraid of being alone, doesn't matter so much...). But if it can't be forgotten, there is always this fear it might come up to the surface again... if it really hurt you, your feelings or your conception of what is good or bad... no, I think you can't forgive that! It might go well some time, but it will always be there...
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29 Jun 2007 Fri 08:07 pm |
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Hi,
Yes I must agree that its easier to forgive than to forget. Good memory power is good, but when you want to try to erase some unhappy moments you wished you didnt have such good memory in the first place 
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29 Jun 2007 Fri 08:10 pm |
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Quoting freshman27: "does love forgive everything?" |
Your question is such a general one again, so I'll give a general answer as well: "no".
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29 Jun 2007 Fri 08:16 pm |
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I believe love should forgive everything. However, realistically our human minds aren't tuned for this.
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29 Jun 2007 Fri 08:37 pm |
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Quoting teaschip1: I believe love should forgive everything. |
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29 Jun 2007 Fri 08:48 pm |
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Quoting Ghost: What forgiving people you all are!  Reminds me of those wives and girlfriends of murderers, paedophiles and abusers....who "forgive" their men because "they love them"!!! Crazy world... |
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Quoting teaschip1: I believe love should forgive everything. However, realistically our human minds aren't tuned for this. |
This is the kind of BS that women believe and men abuse and laugh at. It really has nothing to do with love, but rather with martyrdom, masochism, dependence and lack of self esteem.
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30 Jun 2007 Sat 03:37 pm |
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I want to reply all posts.. This is a Turkish lyric.. Try to understand..
Aşk her şeyi affeder mi?
Dersin, zamanla geçer mi?
Güzel günlerin hatrına,
Aşk her şeyi affeder mi?
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30 Jun 2007 Sat 04:28 pm |
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Quoting aiça: You may want to try to forgive (for whatever reason: if you really love the person or if you are afraid of being alone, doesn't matter so much...). But if it can't be forgotten, there is always this fear it might come up to the surface again... if it really hurt you, your feelings or your conception of what is good or bad... no, I think you can't forgive that! It might go well some time, but it will always be there... |
yea that is why when i forgive, it is also the end of everything, no matter how i love that person, we have to go on each lives coz as u said, i have the fear that it might come up to the surface again and to continue being with him, the more i cant forget which on my part i feel i am the loser.
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04 Jul 2007 Wed 09:36 pm |
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kanadali
i see you are devoted to your, lets say, boyfriend, but is he devoted to you?
you are trying to keep him, but what is he doing?
its sad that you feel worse than turkish girls in turkey.
and your opinion doesnt sound western at all, your mentality doesnt sound either. you probably are stuck between west and east as many easterners in the west.
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