When I will find the real love I do not know but there is a question in my mind as a lyrics "does love forgive everything?"

No

I think we can forgive but can never forget.

Maybe yes...

Depends on what damage is done. If one can forgive, but never really forget, and the damage that is done goes deep, one maybe didn't forgive at all, but just 'prefers' to live in the illusion of forgiveness.

What forgiving people you all are! Reminds me of those wives and girlfriends of murderers, paedophiles and abusers....who "forgive" their men because "they love them"!!! Crazy world...

I dont think you can say one way or the other unless you have had an experience that tested you love for someone.

I think people mistake NEED for LOVE. Their need to be "loved" and fear of being alone is so desperate that they forgive anything! They never stop to analyse if they actually LIKE that person any more ....

Yea i once had an experience, i forgave my love but did not mean we will be together again. I forgave him when he asked for it then we separated ways and have each own life to move forward to. I cant forget what he did if i continued and accepted him again in my life and the pain will never fade away from my heart moreso, we can never be the same again.

You may want to try to forgive (for whatever reason: if you really love the person or if you are afraid of being alone, doesn't matter so much...). But if it can't be forgotten, there is always this fear it might come up to the surface again... if it really hurt you, your feelings or your conception of what is good or bad... no, I think you can't forgive that! It might go well some time, but it will always be there...

Hi,

Yes I must agree that its easier to forgive than to forget. Good memory power is good, but when you want to try to erase some unhappy moments you wished you didnt have such good memory in the first place

I believe love should forgive everything. However, realistically our human minds aren't tuned for this.

I want to reply all posts.. This is a Turkish lyric.. Try to understand..

Aşk her şeyi affeder mi?
Dersin, zamanla geçer mi?
Güzel günlerin hatrına,
Aşk her şeyi affeder mi?

kanadali
i see you are devoted to your, lets say, boyfriend, but is he devoted to you?
you are trying to keep him, but what is he doing?
its sad that you feel worse than turkish girls in turkey.
and your opinion doesnt sound western at all, your mentality doesnt sound either. you probably are stuck between west and east as many easterners in the west.

why should you change how you are to "fit in" with what you think a native (homegrown as you say) turkish man wants?

isn't how you are now, the person he fell in love with?

i'm sure if he wanted to be with a native turkish girl, he would be with one now, and not with you...do you not think so?

we can not forget love, we just ignored