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foreign women wake up!!!
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04 Oct 2007 Thu 08:31 pm |
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Quoting kafesteki kus:
Of course he loves her he says but it is not an obstacle for him to have virtual contacts with others telling them they are the most beautiful he has ever seen.He is not from holiday resort,in the eyes of society he is a decent family man!
so what is the matter???lack of self esteem in case of some men?low self esteem or just desire for some adventure?or perhaps Sultan's attitude?
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Now that is a question I would love to hear answered by a male!! Or for that matter anyone that understands it. I read that and thought .. hmmm .. what is it with men that they can do that yet contend they love their wives. doesn't make a lot of sense to me .. 
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04 Oct 2007 Thu 08:32 pm |
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Quoting femme_fatal: and i didnt know she was polish  |
Then you gotta be more perceptive fatal! 
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04 Oct 2007 Thu 08:33 pm |
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Quoting catwoman: Quoting Elisabeth: How can you go thru life and be so guarded? Of course there is always a chance of being hurt when you fall in love. But I would venture to say this happens everywhere under all kinds of different circumstances. |
Elizabeth, I think you are really a bit defensive here. Nobody is "so guarded" here by stating that many men cheat, this is simply the REALITY. Yes, ALL nationalities have men who cheat, but we are talking about Turkish men here that so many foreign women get cheated by, don't minimize that by saying that it's "normal". We all know that not everybody is a lier, but it's important to realize and clearly state that we have to be a bit cautious about the overly charming Turkish and non-Turkish men and we have to warn young women about it! |
Ok Catwoman, you seem determined to minimalize my feelings and opinions, I never said anything about it being normal to be cheated on. I am certainly not being defensive I am just stating my opinion since it is posted on a public forum. I am not saying anything so different from you and I was trying to point out that everyone must be cautious everywhere. I think because this is a turkish language website, we focus on Turkey of course, but I was trying to say this could happen anywhere.
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04 Oct 2007 Thu 08:34 pm |
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Quoting Leelu: Now that is a question I would love to hear answered by a male!! Or for that matter anyone that understands it. I read that and thought .. hmmm .. what is it with men that they can do that yet contend they love their wives. doesn't make a lot of sense to me .. |
Whatever the reason, this behavior is UNACCEPTABLE and shouldn't be ever tolerated. We may try to understand the "reasons" only in order to change this behavior.
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04 Oct 2007 Thu 08:34 pm |
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Quoting catwoman: Quoting femme_fatal: and i didnt know she was polish |
Then you gotta be more perceptive fatal! |
 more perceptive or more fatal?
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04 Oct 2007 Thu 08:39 pm |
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Quoting Elisabeth: Ok Catwoman, you seem determined to minimalize my feelings and opinions, I never said anything about it being normal to be cheated on. I am certainly not being defensive I am just stating my opinion since it is posted on a public forum. I am not saying anything so different from you and I was trying to point out that everyone must be cautious everywhere. I think because this is a turkish language website, we focus on Turkey of course, but I was trying to say this could happen anywhere. |
I see your point Elizabeth, but the way you say this, you sound like "it's not such a big deal because it happens everywhere". If you want to convey that this kind of stuff also happens in other places, I think you should at the same time emphasize that it really is a problem in Turkish culture and especially how it relates to female tourists who get cheated notoriously by Turks. I'm glad that you think we are really talking about the same thing, I just thought that the way you stated your opinions could be very easily seen as "justification" and "minimalization" of the problem.
And by the way, I do think that there ARE cultural differences regarding the EXTENT to which men cheat, it's not all the same.
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04 Oct 2007 Thu 08:43 pm |
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Quoting catwoman: Quoting Elisabeth: Ok Catwoman, you seem determined to minimalize my feelings and opinions, I never said anything about it being normal to be cheated on. I am certainly not being defensive I am just stating my opinion since it is posted on a public forum. I am not saying anything so different from you and I was trying to point out that everyone must be cautious everywhere. I think because this is a turkish language website, we focus on Turkey of course, but I was trying to say this could happen anywhere. |
I see your point Elizabeth, but the way you say this, you sound like "it's not such a big deal because it happens everywhere". If you want to convey that this kind of stuff also happens in other places, I think you should at the same time emphasize that it really is a problem in Turkish culture and especially how it relates to female tourists who get cheated notoriously by Turks. I'm glad that you think we are really talking about the same thing, I just thought that the way you stated your opinions could be very easily seen as "justification" and "minimalization" of the problem.
And by the way, I do think that there ARE cultural differences regarding the EXTENT to which men cheat, it's not all the same. |
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04 Oct 2007 Thu 08:49 pm |
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That damn dudu! Take him for everything! (Everything you bought him)
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04 Oct 2007 Thu 08:50 pm |
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Quoting femme_fatal: Quoting catwoman: Quoting Elisabeth: Ok Catwoman, you seem determined to minimalize my feelings and opinions, I never said anything about it being normal to be cheated on. I am certainly not being defensive I am just stating my opinion since it is posted on a public forum. I am not saying anything so different from you and I was trying to point out that everyone must be cautious everywhere. I think because this is a turkish language website, we focus on Turkey of course, but I was trying to say this could happen anywhere. |
I see your point Elizabeth, but the way you say this, you sound like "it's not such a big deal because it happens everywhere". If you want to convey that this kind of stuff also happens in other places, I think you should at the same time emphasize that it really is a problem in Turkish culture and especially how it relates to female tourists who get cheated notoriously by Turks. I'm glad that you think we are really talking about the same thing, I just thought that the way you stated your opinions could be very easily seen as "justification" and "minimalization" of the problem.
And by the way, I do think that there ARE cultural differences regarding the EXTENT to which men cheat, it's not all the same. |
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hahaha good subject to talk but I havent got enough time to discuss
I wanna write more when I get time
Don Juan
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04 Oct 2007 Thu 08:50 pm |
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Divorcing? Why? He's not that bad.....
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