Hamam da kadinlar gunu gibi

thanks handsom

i agree with you laura this was about you so why was a hairy chest bought in to the conversation at the end of the day you are really worried and thats all people want to do is have fun .when they all want help how will they feel when others change the subject i thought everyone stuck together at times like this but i guess they like to have a good laugh at other peoples expense

I hope to get in contact with him, I do not know why the topic turned to irony rather than help you ,i feel sorry for your suffering
Good luck

Sorry Laura if you wanted sympathy and support and felt you didn't get enough of it. Maybe the joking here is a polite way of changing the subject instead of shouting at you to "WAKE UP AND REALISE WHAT IS GOING ON!".

If this man loved you, NOTHING would have stopped him getting a message to you. He would have realised that you would be worried. Instead you get some remote message that he is "patching things up with his wife".

What more do you want us to say? If you share your personal problems (and, incidently, post your boyfriends phone number on an open forum) you have to accept that you wont like ALL of the comments

Sorry but i don't feel its appropriate to attack people on this thread for following the discussion in what ever natural course it took and if that was one of a light hearted nature then so be it.
If anyone actually cares to go back and read what was said. i think you will find that the thread turned a little more 'fun' including the subject of body hair because that was just the way it happened not because anyone was deliberately trying to make light of this topic of make fun of anyone or belittle the situation. I for one utterly refute that and find the accusation extremely distasteful and incredebly rude! Its time some people got over themselves and stopped being so unnecessarily self-rightious.

Just because I love someone means I have to wake up??? I dont think so. I genuinely worried about him as we have had a stable relationship for 10 years. Its his Ex wife not wife...and I do not believe this is true. I would also like to say that Im not talking about the body hair subject Im talking about when people start getting viscious and attacking others. People are so aggressive and nasty they seem to enjoy kicking others when they are down. Is there any need for it?? I was only asking for help because I am concerned. I know this man Im not asking on relationship advice..I was just asking for general help on contacting him. Im not some stupid lovesick teenager who has had a holiday romance. Im a woman a mother and fiance. Why is abuse being hurled just because Im in love with a Turk??? My father is Turkish so its not like the culture is unknown to me. Although my fathers not around now I still grew up within a english turkish style culture.