I don't support one using his/her friend. But one can ask for money if he/she needs, and the other one can ask another time.But only the person that is asked is able to understand the intention. If I feel that the person would help me in the same situation, I help. It's a matter of sincerity.

So mltm you can honestly say that if your boyfriend asked you for money, and you couldnt give it him and refused, and then if he responded with 'yazıklar olsun sana!' that you wouldnt find that slightly disrespectful? and you would be completely fine with the situation? I dont really think asking your girlfriend for money, then making her feel guilty because she doesnt give it you is a matter of 'sincerity'.

i appreciate all your responses, Ithink I am being treated like shit, I have done nothing wrong, why should I give him money, if he has debts, its not my problem, Ihave debts too, anyway have a good nite its my b'day

I think giving somebody money is a very delicate matter. If you feel like being used then of course it's better to forget him. If he really cared about you he wouldn't have sent such a text - especially on your birthday. The world is full of people who don't deserve our attention. You can be proud of yourself for not letting him abuse you. Take care and...HAPPY BIRTHDAY

Hi Daydreamer, and thanks for the message, apologies to all for my previous message. I'll still am feeling abit shocked by his text. All I did was say I am sorry but at the minute I can not give you money....all a bit confusing really

doing such things in ones birthday and as yabanci09 said... if you want ow.. why you want this with an sms.. this is really absurd...

whatever.. Happy Birthday to winter.. best wishes..