Yaziklar olsun sana bunu senden beklemezdim ben para manyagi degilim senden sadece borc istemistim istemez olaydim bu zor günümde bana böyle yaptin zannetmeki senin parana muhtacim BIZIM icin para değil insalik önemlidir böyle düsünüyorsan sana sonsuza kadar elveda.


I'm guessing it's probably not a very nice msg, he ask me for money and I said I couldn't give it to him

Many thanks

its sounds like he isnt happy with you and he didnt expect this from you and he is saying goodbye forever but someone will translate words for you but this is the impression i am getting, forget him girl sounds like he not worth the hassle good for you anyway to refuse sending any money so many girls get taken in by these men and unfortunatly it gives turkish guys a bad name but i can assure you there are many samimi turkish guys out there

Thanks for that, I actually live in Istanbul, he didn't even have the guts to ask for the money, he txted me...

I don't understand those actually. With my boyfriend, i alwyas have the feeling that the lást thing he wants, is asking money from me! I even feel like it's a bit of an insult if my money would take care of him! I can take care of him like a lady, but not for money. And tbh i thought this was something quite Turkish..being unwilling to accept money from your girl/woman.

He does say there's no 'my money' for him..bec everything is 'ours' so we should feel free to ask/offer, but it makes him feel uncomfortable if i'd pay for somethin. (which makes mé feel uncomfortable a bit )

Deli Kız,

its really nice to hear that you have SHARING company with your bf... well you know sick minds are everywhere and its really so bad to see that nearly ALL users of this site are facing with them... surprising isnt it?

thanks for the translation

Yeah, but most of those also come from tourist-areas. I'm sure there are good guys among them and im sure it can work out too. I guess many just get 'infected' tho they are good at heart.

Its beyond me how any man can have the audacity to ask for money in a text message! and then when you refuse to have the cheek to say 'yazıklar olsun sana/shame on you'! By making you feel like the guilty party, he is making you feel obliged to send money, and is basically saying if you dont send it he will leave you! What planet do these men come from? do they have no pride? no shame? If I were you I would seriously think about getting rid of him, he sounds like yet another cliche of a Turkish man who has mistaken a human being for a human ATM machine!

I don't support one using his/her friend. But one can ask for money if he/she needs, and the other one can ask another time.But only the person that is asked is able to understand the intention. If I feel that the person would help me in the same situation, I help. It's a matter of sincerity.

So mltm you can honestly say that if your boyfriend asked you for money, and you couldnt give it him and refused, and then if he responded with 'yazıklar olsun sana!' that you wouldnt find that slightly disrespectful? and you would be completely fine with the situation? I dont really think asking your girlfriend for money, then making her feel guilty because she doesnt give it you is a matter of 'sincerity'.

i appreciate all your responses, Ithink I am being treated like shit, I have done nothing wrong, why should I give him money, if he has debts, its not my problem, Ihave debts too, anyway have a good nite its my b'day

I think giving somebody money is a very delicate matter. If you feel like being used then of course it's better to forget him. If he really cared about you he wouldn't have sent such a text - especially on your birthday. The world is full of people who don't deserve our attention. You can be proud of yourself for not letting him abuse you. Take care and...HAPPY BIRTHDAY

Hi Daydreamer, and thanks for the message, apologies to all for my previous message. I'll still am feeling abit shocked by his text. All I did was say I am sorry but at the minute I can not give you money....all a bit confusing really

doing such things in ones birthday and as yabanci09 said... if you want ow.. why you want this with an sms.. this is really absurd...

whatever.. Happy Birthday to winter.. best wishes..