Quoting alameda:

She has not posted since last Friday. Is she alright? Does anyone know?

Anyway, even though I have disagreed with her, I hope she is well.

Quoting Elisabeth:

In any case, I think she is probably fine and I am sure her response to you would be something like...."I don't care what you think or if you miss me"

Quoting catwoman:

Quoting azade:

Quoting azade:

Ah she's not that soft. I'm sure she just got a taste of life offline

Quoting lady in red:

Femme disappears - Rain re-appears Discuss

Quoting lady in red:

Femme disappears - Rain re-appears Discuss

Quoting AEnigma III:

Quoting AEnigma III:

Hey it is great she is gone no? I see the "Dead Poet's Society" are already celebrating by returning after their prolonged absence

Quoting AEnigma III:

I agree Femme is so evil though - the most evil person on TC. Fighting for women's rights is so bad.

Quoting Daydreamer:

Now, we've had so many martyrs here - all of them misunderstood by the limited rest of us - we've had flashers arguing their way back, nationalists hating everybody daring to criticise "the most beautiful country in the world," and now a martyr of the war of genders. Yeah, right

Aenigma seems to worry that Femme's absence will trigger resurrection of 'The Dead Poet's Society.' I wouldn't worry about that - they were disgusted enough reading your deadly amusing and beyond belief informative posts that they still fight nausea.

Quoting AEnigma III:

Femme is not a martyr!!!! You have completely lost your humour lately I see

Would anyone else like to analyse my personality today? Comment on my "insulting posts" perhaps? Dearest Cat, you never complained about Femme "driving people away" before - you were her staunch defender. So why now?

Cat, I really don't know why you are so keen to drive ME away, and I really don't care, but you have taken any fun out of this site so enjoy your "Turkish Paradise"

Quoting AEnigma III:

The only nausiating posts here were your brigade!

Quoting AEnigma III:

Oh my poor dear - it seems everyone can not live up to your high standards.

Quote:

The only nausiating posts here were your brigade!

Quoting Daydreamer:

Quoting Elisabeth:

Quoting girleegirl:

Quoting libralady:

Maybe she is reforming

Quoting thehandsom:

I cant see Aenigma lately either!!
But dont you think the site is less colourful without them?
And what is going on exactly? Why did they leave?

Quoting thehandsom:

I cant see Aenigma lately either!!
But dont you think the site is less colourful without them?
And what is going on exactly? Why did they leave?

Quoting catwoman:

Quoting Daydreamer:

Ugh...what MY brigade? Please tell me who my brigade is . I hope Aenigma didn't get offended...I never meant to make feel uncomfortable here I was simply in a bity mood as I was quitting smoking!

Quoting thehandsom:

But dont you think the site is less colourful without them?

Quoting ciko:

less colourful? haha..this site is so f..king dull without them!!

Quoting libralady:

Quoting catwoman:

......Who knows really... :-S Daydreamer and her brigade might have been arguing too much with them and apparently they got offended... Sounds strange! But who knows what's really going on in their minds.

Quoting alameda:

Quoting alameda:

are you serious?

Quoting ciko:

Quoting catwoman:

Quoting ciko: Quoting libralady: Surely Ciko, you could make it more colourful if you wished i need some clever members for that

Quoting thehandsom:

I agree with Ciko.. I think we need them Cat.
We want them back!!!

Quoting catwoman:

Quoting ciko: Quoting libralady: Surely Ciko, you could make it more colourful if you wished i need some clever members for that

Quoting ciko:

you know what i mean cat. dont pretend to be happy without them. you have been very strange lately and i hope this is temporary.

Quoting ciko:

i have been arguing with them since i became a member of TC and i have always liked the way they speak up what they think.

Quoting xkirstyx:

Maybe, just maybe, she was asked to take a time out from who ever owns the site.

Quoting xkirstyx:

Good grief! Someone has a break from here and you all start crying about how boring it is now? Make it interesting yourself then! If you liked her because she challenged every relationship with a Turk, or pretty much everything about the Turkish culture, then do it yourself. If thats what you are here for, contribute yourselves! But don't say that to critisize everything on here was her being intelligent or making the site more fun...dear me! Maybe, just maybe, she was asked to take a time out from who ever owns the site. I don't know about any petition to get her banned, I highly doubt anyone felt that strongly. However, I do know that she upset a LOT of people on here. People probably didn't have a problem with her opinions of Turkey or the culture or religion. Everyone is entitled to their opinion. But it did bug a lot of people that if someone doesn't seem to like or have anything nice to say about Turkey, and was only ever posting negative or provoking posts, then why spend so much time here. There are lots of people on here with different stories, backgrounds, beliefs etc. Some feel passionatley about different things, but in all honesty, can anyone give any reason as to why she was here posting so much? This is a turkish class site, and all she did was critisize Turkey. Sure, it's good to have debates, its good to hear different sides to things. But there's a difference between that and just being here to provoke. I personally feel she was just doing it for attention. There were times when the site was a bit quiet so she would just randomly start questioning things and people I'm not saying I don't want her here. She contributes a lot to the site, her and her partner in crime AEnigma I'm just saying, don't complain because she hasn't posted in a week. It does my head in when people complain about being bored, make your own fun.

Quoting thehandsom:

WE WANT them back

Quoting thehandsom:

WE WANT them back

Quoting catwoman:

Quoting thehandsom:

I never considered myself weak(it is not my generic mood anyway)..
But we simply WANT THEM BACK!!

Quoting xkirstyx:

"If you truly love someone, set them free. If they come back to you, it was meant to be. Otherwise, you will find someone that will heal your heart from all the others that have toyed with it."

Quoting Cacık:

AND if they are still sitting on the sofa making a mess and hogging the remote control - you married them !!!!

Quoting lady in red:

Quoting xkirstyx:

Good grief! Someone has a break from here and you all start crying about how boring it is now? Make it interesting yourself then! If you liked her because she challenged every relationship with a Turk, or pretty much everything about the Turkish culture, then do it yourself. If thats what you are here for, contribute yourselves! But don't say that to critisize everything on here was her being intelligent or making the site more fun...dear me! Maybe, just maybe, she was asked to take a time out from who ever owns the site. I don't know about any petition to get her banned, I highly doubt anyone felt that strongly. However, I do know that she upset a LOT of people on here. People probably didn't have a problem with her opinions of Turkey or the culture or religion. Everyone is entitled to their opinion. But it did bug a lot of people that if someone doesn't seem to like or have anything nice to say about Turkey, and was only ever posting negative or provoking posts, then why spend so much time here. There are lots of people on here with different stories, backgrounds, beliefs etc. Some feel passionatley about different things, but in all honesty, can anyone give any reason as to why she was here posting so much? This is a turkish class site, and all she did was critisize Turkey. Sure, it's good to have debates, its good to hear different sides to things. But there's a difference between that and just being here to provoke. I personally feel she was just doing it for attention. There were times when the site was a bit quiet so she would just randomly start questioning things and people I'm not saying I don't want her here. She contributes a lot to the site, her and her partner in crime AEnigma I'm just saying, don't complain because she hasn't posted in a week. It does my head in when people complain about being bored, make your own fun.

Quoting ciko:

i have been arguing with them since i became a member of TC and i have always liked the way they speak up what they think. so i miss them!!! that is all. i dont know you (xxkirsty) and others..i have only known canli, elham, femme, aenigma, catwoman and handsom on this site. and now there are only handsom and catwoman left! so it feels like this site is imcomplete to me. is it clear enough?

Quoting thehandsom:

Well..
Whatever you say..We WANT THEM BACK...

Quoting libralady:

Quoting thehandsom:

Quoting libralady: Quoting thehandsom: Well.. Whatever you say..We WANT THEM BACK... What all two of you?

Quoting libralady:

Quoting thehandsom: Quoting libralady: Quoting thehandsom: Well.. Whatever you say..We WANT THEM BACK... What all two of you? I am sure more than two..

Quoting ciko:

Quoting Aslan:

...count me in on the admirers list!

Quoting catwoman:

Quoting Badiabdancer74:

She is very toxic and has killed/derailed many otherwise good conversations. I wouldn't mind if she never came back, but she probably will. If she cared what people thought of her, as someone had said, she would make some sort of effort not to be rude and at times abusive. I don't know why they haven't kicked her off the way she talks to some people. This is nothing new I haven't said to her directly.

Quoting libralady:

Quoting bydand:

Quoting lady in red:

Don't panic! I noticed they both signed in early this morning - maybe they are just biding their time!

Quoting lady in red:

Quoting catwoman: Quoting thehandsom: I never considered myself weak(it is not my generic mood anyway).. But we simply WANT THEM BACK!! They were never yours dear to ask for them back . But of course, it would be nice if they returned!

Quoting Badiabdancer74:

For all you that miss Femme, I will try to channel and recreate something she might have said to my post.

She is very toxic and has killed/derailed many otherwise good conversations.

Femme might say, " Boring Badia...you are boring me with your stupid comments."

I wouldn't mind if she never came back, but she probably will. If she cared what people thought of her, as someone had said, she would make some sort of effort not to be rude and at times abusive.

Femme might say," You and your Bazaar education don't know anything. Why don't you just say what you mean like I do. What do I care what you think you bed Amerikan. I would kill myself if you were my friend."

I don't know why they haven't kicked her off the way she talks to some people. This is nothing new I haven't said to her directly.

Femme might say, "Again you are boring... I only talk bed to bed people like you. You are nothing but a bellydancer who doesn't know anything."

Quoting Badiabdancer74:

She is very toxic and has killed/derailed many otherwise good conversations.

Quoting Badiabdancer74:

I wouldn't mind if she never came back, but she probably will. If she cared what people thought of her, as someone had said, she would make some sort of effort not to be rude and at times abusive.

Quoting Badiabdancer74:

I don't know why they haven't kicked her off the way she talks to some people. This is nothing new I haven't said to her directly.

Quoting catwoman:

my try....