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why do women fall in love with turkish guys?:)))
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27 Jan 2006 Fri 04:34 pm |
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2 years in relationship with my turk BF. I think he very charme, sweet, honest,understanding and also directly. I think all of this very important in relationship.
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27 Jan 2006 Fri 11:17 pm |
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Quoting mltm:
it's really hard to sit and discuss on a serious matter, to discuss a deep subject, to approach the psychological or philosophical sides of a subject. They usually have a superficial understanding of the world, their words of love are very stereotyped. Under their nice words, I wonder how much they are aware of the deepness of their love. They don't use a creative mind about anything. They usually don't do judgement, if something is like this, it's like this, and can't be changed. They don't use their logic much. |
Well, I am sure that you have a bigger sample for your 'statistic report' than me or any other non Turkish woman can have. But still, considering my limited knowledge of turkish society and mankind, I have to say that I disagree with you.
Maybe I was lucky enough to have known only nice Turks. I m not talking about boyfriends. I m talking about simple friends, males and females. But as this post has to do with falling in love, I ll add my experience of my relationship with a turk as well.
What i know for sure, is that those people had very high and strong principles. Believe me, I ve tested them. Their families were the centre of their universe. Even those who had troubles in their marriages, they were still honoring their wives and never insulted them in any way. I had very long and interesting conversations with them. About everything. Life, politics, education, life style and so much more. And I was impressed by their deep thinking and serious way to look life. I was comparing them with my friends here. Couldn't help myself, it was happening subconciously. No similarity. My turkish friends were better by far. And although in a different country, far away from here, they were the ones who stood by me and for me when i needed it most. (By 'they' I mean all of them. Both friends and lover. )
I think that most people, react to us in the same way we approach them. If we are friendly, they are friendly. If we are polite they can't be rude. If our bahaviour yells 'back off, i m better than you' then they just quit on us. And so on. 
I also disagree with u here:
Quoting mltm: Ok, for flirting, turkish men might be good, but the same men that you have fun with are definitly not good for looking forward to a steady relationship.
Because to have some fun or to spend some time and to flirt a bit are not the same things as to have a serious relationship. |
Ofcourse fooling around and having fun only, is not the same with creating a serious relationship. But who says that a serious relationship can't develop between two people who have fun and flirt eachother at first? How can somebody be a future perfect husband if he hasn't been ur best and funniest friend first and always?...
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31 Jan 2006 Tue 02:37 pm |
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Quoting sophie:
Ofcourse fooling around and having fun only, is not the same with creating a serious relationship. But who says that a serious relationship can't develop between two people who have fun and flirt eachother at first? How can somebody be a future perfect husband if he hasn't been ur best and funniest friend first and always?...
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And any relationship that loses its fun is pretty much doomed to failure.......even in a serious relationship the fun and flirting should continue - at least inside the relationship even if not outside of it.......
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31 Jan 2006 Tue 03:18 pm |
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Because they have no IDEA about how the turkish mans are....
(not all, of course)
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31 Jan 2006 Tue 03:23 pm |
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So some of you think that a mix (of nationality) is the perfect solution.
I am born English, but my grandmother was half Turkish so what does that make me?
I personally like dark men regardless of where they were born, Turkey, Italian, French, Spanish (all European)and they have to fit a certain mould.
I am married by the way but that does not stop me looking around at what is on offer just in case!!
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31 Jan 2006 Tue 05:05 pm |
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Quoting bod:
And any relationship that loses its fun is pretty much doomed to failure.......even in a serious relationship the fun and flirting should continue - at least inside the relationship even if not outside of it....... |
Thank God somebody here understands exactly what i mean!
I ll stick to the 'inside' though. I m traditional when it comes to relationships
I can look elsewhere only when i m not satisfied with what i ve got and if this is the case, then nothing can keep me there.
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01 Feb 2006 Wed 09:40 pm |
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Quoting libralady: So some of you think that a mix (of nationality) is the perfect solution.
I am married by the way but that does not stop me looking around at what is on offer just in case!! |
ouh my Allah
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| 27. |
01 Feb 2006 Wed 09:48 pm |
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Quoting sophie: Quoting bod:
And any relationship that loses its fun is pretty much doomed to failure.......even in a serious relationship the fun and flirting should continue - at least inside the relationship even if not outside of it....... |
Thank God somebody here understands exactly what i mean!
I ll stick to the 'inside' though. I m traditional when it comes to relationships
I can look elsewhere only when i m not satisfied with what i ve got and if this is the case, then nothing can keep me there. |
mmmmmmm bod dude hehehehheeh u also have one more same point with sophie
i think im a relationship or in a marriage if love ends the couples should seperate.....without love a relationship turns into partnership....
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02 Feb 2006 Thu 02:45 pm |
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Quoting ramayan: Quoting sophie: Quoting bod:
And any relationship that loses its fun is pretty much doomed to failure.......even in a serious relationship the fun and flirting should continue - at least inside the relationship even if not outside of it....... |
Thank God somebody here understands exactly what i mean!
I ll stick to the 'inside' though. I m traditional when it comes to relationships
I can look elsewhere only when i m not satisfied with what i ve got and if this is the case, then nothing can keep me there. |
mmmmmmm bod dude hehehehheeh u also have one more same point with sophie
i think im a relationship or in a marriage if love ends the couples should seperate.....without love a relationship turns into partnership.... |
Yep totally agreee with all of the above 
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| 29. |
02 Feb 2006 Thu 09:20 pm |
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i also agree with u
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