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why do women fall in love with turkish guys?:)))
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1.       duskahvesi
858 posts
 01 Jul 2005 Fri 08:57 pm

so girls..
tell me some reasons

2.       Daydreamer
3743 posts
 01 Jul 2005 Fri 09:28 pm

ne soru duskahvesi
maybe u should answer it as u are a turkish guy urself so u should know best . hadi...

3.       duskahvesi
858 posts
 01 Jul 2005 Fri 09:36 pm

daydreamer
yes i am a guy
not a gay)
so i cant give you any reason

4.       citrus
7 posts
 01 Jul 2005 Fri 10:49 pm

I LOVE TURK! very very..but i'm not from turkey..i live very far..in lithuania( what can i do?who can give me good advice?

5.       Seticio
550 posts
 02 Jul 2005 Sat 03:51 pm

I think it's because Turkish boys sre a little bit exotic for girls from other countries. I have friends from Italy, they visited me a few years ago and there were polish boys in most of pictures they were taking in Krakow. I asked why are they taking pictures of boys who, in my opinion, weren't handsome at all. But my italian friends' opinion was totally different! Why? Because Polish boys with blonde hair and bue eyes were exotic for them! Maybe that's the reason?

6.       Rachael
10 posts
 03 Jul 2005 Sun 02:58 am

I am English and i think the reason is that Turkish men are very polite and actually listen to women

7.       yermalita
5 posts
 03 Jul 2005 Sun 03:57 am

yes they listen a lot...not only that they are polite but also because of their half european, half estern education and because of the many ancient civilization roots they have makes them able to talk about anything...i mean as far as i know...

8.       ramayan
2633 posts
 27 Jan 2006 Fri 04:03 am

yes anybody interested to reply dis question?????ladies???*

bod u dont need to reply

9.       wallflower
30 posts
 27 Jan 2006 Fri 05:15 am

I know a Turkish woman whose husband is from China said, 'to marry a chinese man is the luckiest thing I've ever experienced and Turkish men are pretty manly and few of them take care of menage.

Is that so?


10.       bod
5999 posts
 27 Jan 2006 Fri 12:22 pm

Quoting ramayan:

bod u dont need to reply



That's never stopped me yet :-S

*GiGGLe*

11.       sophie
2712 posts
 27 Jan 2006 Fri 02:09 pm

Maybe because they treat a woman like something precious and fragile? Maybe because honor and principles mean so much to them? Or is it cause they show their affection and they are not afraid to use words of love?
Living in a European country, has made me suffer the consequences of feminism. Here in Greece, less than in other european countries ofcourse, women are considered equal to men. This has advantages and disadvantages. Ofcourse women have their own careers and are independant. And ofcourse men are helping them with householding, with raising up the kids etc. And this is great, till a point. There is always a thin line between normal and paradox. And I m afraid we have crossed this line. Here, the past few years at least, the woman has become the hunter and man the terrified prey.
I m a woman of 2000s, who loves her independance and who is living her own life, making her own decisions and hates being ruled by anybody. But when men are the subject, I think i become a bit traditional.
I want to be chased, I want to know that I have a man next to me and not a pussy cat. I want to be able to talk serious matters and take important decisions with him. I want to remember that i am a female for God's sake! Cause so far, I ve been the one wearing trousers in my relationships.
European men have become soft, fragile and impassible. So Turks look like Heaven compared to them. Ofcourse there are exceptions here, as in any other rule. But the majority is like this i m afraid....

12.       bod
5999 posts
 27 Jan 2006 Fri 02:16 pm

I have yet to work out exactly why anyone falls in love with anyone else :-S

So I reckon that I have little chance of understanding why women fall in love specifically with Turks.......

13.       miss_ceyda
2627 posts
 27 Jan 2006 Fri 02:20 pm

i will answer the initial question rather than commenting on your comments..

the reason:
because turkish guys are generally HOT and know how to talk

14.       ramayan
2633 posts
 27 Jan 2006 Fri 02:46 pm

Quoting sophie:

Maybe because they treat a woman like ...........QUOTE]

really impressed with dis reply......hehehhehe i even began to fall in love with turks


15.       ramayan
2633 posts
 27 Jan 2006 Fri 03:01 pm

Quoting miss_ceyda:

i will answer the initial question rather than commenting on your comments..

the reason:
because turkish guys are generally HOT and know how to talk



HOT???????????????????ouh my god....i think u r abaza...

hey u can express dis feeling in some kinder wordshehehheheyes we know how to talk......or trying to learn

16.       mltm
3690 posts
 27 Jan 2006 Fri 03:12 pm

Ok, turkish guys are hot, romantic, understanding, protecting, straight-forward etc.

But then, why do I still find it difficult to find one while I'm surrounded with turkish men?

Because to have some fun or to spend some time and to flirt a bit are not the same things as to have a serious relationship.

Ok, for flirting, turkish men might be good, but the same men that you have fun with are definitly not good for looking forward to a steady relationship.

For example, it's really hard to sit and discuss on a serious matter, to discuss a deep subject, to approach the psychological or philosophical sides of a subject. They usually have a superficial understanding of the world, their words of love are very stereotyped. Under their nice words, I wonder how much they are aware of the deepness of their love. They don't use a creative mind about anything. They usually don't do judgement, if something is like this, it's like this, and can't be changed. They don't use their logic much.

I don't say that all of them are like this, but I guess around %5. And when I look for other criteria, it becomes %1

I think the best would be a mix of the average european man and avarage turkish man.

17.       sophie
2712 posts
 27 Jan 2006 Fri 03:25 pm

Quoting mltm:


I think the best would be a mix of the average european man and avarage turkish man.



I vote for that!

18.       ramayan
2633 posts
 27 Jan 2006 Fri 03:50 pm

Quoting mltm:

Ok, turkish guys are hot, romantic, understanding, protecting, straight-forward etc. ........




respectful....maybe...or u should open ur eyes and look around........yes many man here especially young ones....walking around aylak aylak...and just smoking ,drinking and trying to hunt some girl...dis is their just aim....so if u have a criteria ..its hard to find some proper ones.....

19.       ramayan
2633 posts
 27 Jan 2006 Fri 03:59 pm

Quoting mltm:



I think the best would be a mix of the average european man and avarage turkish man.




it would be best about women too...mix...not typical turkısh and not real european....i prefer

20.       Moongirl
55 posts
 27 Jan 2006 Fri 04:34 pm

2 years in relationship with my turk BF. I think he very charme, sweet, honest,understanding and also directly. I think all of this very important in relationship.

21.       sophie
2712 posts
 27 Jan 2006 Fri 11:17 pm

Quoting mltm:


it's really hard to sit and discuss on a serious matter, to discuss a deep subject, to approach the psychological or philosophical sides of a subject. They usually have a superficial understanding of the world, their words of love are very stereotyped. Under their nice words, I wonder how much they are aware of the deepness of their love. They don't use a creative mind about anything. They usually don't do judgement, if something is like this, it's like this, and can't be changed. They don't use their logic much.



Well, I am sure that you have a bigger sample for your 'statistic report' than me or any other non Turkish woman can have. But still, considering my limited knowledge of turkish society and mankind, I have to say that I disagree with you.
Maybe I was lucky enough to have known only nice Turks. I m not talking about boyfriends. I m talking about simple friends, males and females. But as this post has to do with falling in love, I ll add my experience of my relationship with a turk as well.
What i know for sure, is that those people had very high and strong principles. Believe me, I ve tested them. Their families were the centre of their universe. Even those who had troubles in their marriages, they were still honoring their wives and never insulted them in any way. I had very long and interesting conversations with them. About everything. Life, politics, education, life style and so much more. And I was impressed by their deep thinking and serious way to look life. I was comparing them with my friends here. Couldn't help myself, it was happening subconciously. No similarity. My turkish friends were better by far. And although in a different country, far away from here, they were the ones who stood by me and for me when i needed it most. (By 'they' I mean all of them. Both friends and lover. )
I think that most people, react to us in the same way we approach them. If we are friendly, they are friendly. If we are polite they can't be rude. If our bahaviour yells 'back off, i m better than you' then they just quit on us. And so on.


I also disagree with u here:

Quoting mltm:

Ok, for flirting, turkish men might be good, but the same men that you have fun with are definitly not good for looking forward to a steady relationship.
Because to have some fun or to spend some time and to flirt a bit are not the same things as to have a serious relationship.



Ofcourse fooling around and having fun only, is not the same with creating a serious relationship. But who says that a serious relationship can't develop between two people who have fun and flirt eachother at first? How can somebody be a future perfect husband if he hasn't been ur best and funniest friend first and always?...

22.       bod
5999 posts
 31 Jan 2006 Tue 02:37 pm

Quoting sophie:


Ofcourse fooling around and having fun only, is not the same with creating a serious relationship. But who says that a serious relationship can't develop between two people who have fun and flirt eachother at first? How can somebody be a future perfect husband if he hasn't been ur best and funniest friend first and always?...



And any relationship that loses its fun is pretty much doomed to failure.......even in a serious relationship the fun and flirting should continue - at least inside the relationship even if not outside of it.......

23.       Hansom
6 posts
 31 Jan 2006 Tue 03:18 pm

Because they have no IDEA about how the turkish mans are....
(not all, of course)

24.       libralady
5152 posts
 31 Jan 2006 Tue 03:23 pm

So some of you think that a mix (of nationality) is the perfect solution.

I am born English, but my grandmother was half Turkish so what does that make me?

I personally like dark men regardless of where they were born, Turkey, Italian, French, Spanish (all European)and they have to fit a certain mould.

I am married by the way but that does not stop me looking around at what is on offer just in case!!

25.       sophie
2712 posts
 31 Jan 2006 Tue 05:05 pm

Quoting bod:


And any relationship that loses its fun is pretty much doomed to failure.......even in a serious relationship the fun and flirting should continue - at least inside the relationship even if not outside of it.......



Thank God somebody here understands exactly what i mean!
I ll stick to the 'inside' though. I m traditional when it comes to relationships
I can look elsewhere only when i m not satisfied with what i ve got and if this is the case, then nothing can keep me there.

26.       ramayan
2633 posts
 01 Feb 2006 Wed 09:40 pm

Quoting libralady:

So some of you think that a mix (of nationality) is the perfect solution.


I am married by the way but that does not stop me looking around at what is on offer just in case!!



ouh my Allah

27.       ramayan
2633 posts
 01 Feb 2006 Wed 09:48 pm

Quoting sophie:

Quoting bod:


And any relationship that loses its fun is pretty much doomed to failure.......even in a serious relationship the fun and flirting should continue - at least inside the relationship even if not outside of it.......



Thank God somebody here understands exactly what i mean!
I ll stick to the 'inside' though. I m traditional when it comes to relationships
I can look elsewhere only when i m not satisfied with what i ve got and if this is the case, then nothing can keep me there.



mmmmmmm bod dude hehehehheeh u also have one more same point with sophie
i think im a relationship or in a marriage if love ends the couples should seperate.....without love a relationship turns into partnership....

28.       Boop
785 posts
 02 Feb 2006 Thu 02:45 pm

Quoting ramayan:

Quoting sophie:

Quoting bod:


And any relationship that loses its fun is pretty much doomed to failure.......even in a serious relationship the fun and flirting should continue - at least inside the relationship even if not outside of it.......



Thank God somebody here understands exactly what i mean!
I ll stick to the 'inside' though. I m traditional when it comes to relationships
I can look elsewhere only when i m not satisfied with what i ve got and if this is the case, then nothing can keep me there.



mmmmmmm bod dude hehehehheeh u also have one more same point with sophie
i think im a relationship or in a marriage if love ends the couples should seperate.....without love a relationship turns into partnership....


Yep totally agreee with all of the above

29.       ramayan
2633 posts
 02 Feb 2006 Thu 09:20 pm

i also agree with u

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