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turkish guys!
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11 Jan 2008 Fri 08:02 am |
I'm just feeling there is something a teensy bit fishy about this thread.
Covert ops at work?
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11 Jan 2008 Fri 03:06 pm |
Quoting justinetime: Quoting Badiabdancer74: A "dudu" is just the Turkish version of what an American would call a 'Player'. Basically a man who is full of 'sh..' and trying to get sex only. My Turkish man said he loved me within the first week, but he isn't a dudu...so you can't always tell by that alone. There are usually several factors. |
true, i agree with this. just because he said he loved you within the first week, doesn't mean he is an instant dudu. i mean i can remember what thehandsom said in some other thread. something like,(not exact words) he saw someone and knew that she loved her and followed her around, etc. (not sure if he was joking though )
my case is almost the same with Badiabdancer74. there are other factors to consider before you can call him a dudu. i think the first indication would be that he will start asking you for money. maybe credit for his phone, then after more, and more...  |
Other things to look out for: (1) Men are visual animals. Do you look old enough to be his mother? If he is young, is fully sighted, has all his limbs and is falling madly in love with someone who is phyically not compatible then he is looking for a fairy-godmother to look after him from afar (money, telephone credits, electrical goods). (2) Communication. If you are barely able to communicate in a non-physical way and he makes no effort to learn your language, then forget it. (3) Family/friends. How long before he introduces you to them in person or by phone? (4) Excuses. How many does he make? He has no credits on his phone, he's working too hard, he's been too busy to call, he's depressed through lack of money/job. My list can go on forever.
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11 Jan 2008 Fri 03:12 pm |
Quoting shama-uk: Other things to look out for: (1) Men are visual animals. Do you look old enough to be his mother? If he is young, is fully sighted, has all his limbs and is falling madly in love with someone who is phyically not compatible then he is looking for a fairy-godmother to look after him from afar (money, telephone credits, electrical goods). (2) Communication. If you are barely able to communicate in a non-physical way and he makes no effort to learn your language, then forget it. (3) Family/friends. How long before he introduces you to them in person or by phone? (4) Excuses. How many does he make? He has no credits on his phone, he's working too hard, he's been too busy to call, he's depressed through lack of money/job. My list can go on forever.
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VOW..
Experience is talking?
However, I will go with girlygirl. I trust her .
Something is not right with this thread..
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11 Jan 2008 Fri 03:16 pm |
Quoting shama-uk: Other things to look out for: (1) Men are visual animals. |
This is utter crap canim!
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11 Jan 2008 Fri 03:27 pm |
Quoting thehandsom: Quoting shama-uk: Other things to look out for: (1) Men are visual animals. Do you look old enough to be his mother? If he is young, is fully sighted, has all his limbs and is falling madly in love with someone who is phyically not compatible then he is looking for a fairy-godmother to look after him from afar (money, telephone credits, electrical goods). (2) Communication. If you are barely able to communicate in a non-physical way and he makes no effort to learn your language, then forget it. (3) Family/friends. How long before he introduces you to them in person or by phone? (4) Excuses. How many does he make? He has no credits on his phone, he's working too hard, he's been too busy to call, he's depressed through lack of money/job. My list can go on forever.
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VOW..
Experience is talking?
However, I will go with girlygirl. I trust her .
Something is not right with this thread.. |
Nah... I was lucky mate. Even though i am older than hubby, there is no way anyone could tell Ok, so he's 6.4 tall and atheltic while I am 5.4 and roundish - but still I can wear 4 inch heels and lose a stone or two so that problem solved too. He speaks both French and English - so no communication probs there. We are both the same religion, have similar cultural background AND he always found the money to call me, has always worked, and was never too busy for me. And its the same after 3 years married life... OK so it could all turn sour tomorrow but for now...I have good experience of spotting non-dudus..
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11 Jan 2008 Fri 03:45 pm |
You look like you're in a terrible mood. You're laughing at everything!
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11 Jan 2008 Fri 03:47 pm |
Quoting catwoman:
You look like you're in a terrible mood. |
That is what I said..You copycat
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11 Jan 2008 Fri 03:55 pm |
Quoting catwoman: Quoting shama-uk: Other things to look out for: (1) Men are visual animals. |
This is utter crap canim! |
Do you really think so?! Its what all the books say....
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11 Jan 2008 Fri 03:57 pm |
Quoting shama-uk: Quoting catwoman: Quoting shama-uk: Other things to look out for: (1) Men are visual animals. |
This is utter crap canim! |
Do you really think so?! Its what all the books say.... |
Which books canim? Dr Phil or Oprah?
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