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turkish guys!
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10 Jan 2008 Thu 12:58 am |
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ok---i'm half american and half turkish. i go to marmaris, turkey every summer. i have a really big crush on this guy there-- help?!
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10 Jan 2008 Thu 12:59 am |
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lol!!!
you are cureless unfortunately!!
lol that was really good!!!
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10 Jan 2008 Thu 01:00 am |
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what's that supposed to mean?! lol?
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10 Jan 2008 Thu 01:03 am |
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i am with you 100% Catherine  turkish guys are the best! i met my askim on holiday and hope to live there in the near future, and i luv every thing about turkey and hope to get to know it better very soon 
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10 Jan 2008 Thu 01:05 am |
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i know! i seriously have never felt this way about a guy before!!! i just totally do not understand what SuiGeneris means....??!!!
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10 Jan 2008 Thu 01:13 am |
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You know you wrote exactly what I feel.
It is like heaven when I am with him.
Quoting catheine!!!!!!!: i know! i seriously have never felt this way about a guy before!!! i just totally do not understand what SuiGeneris means....??!!! |
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10 Jan 2008 Thu 01:13 am |
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Quoting catheine!!!!!!!: i know! i seriously have never felt this way about a guy before!!! i just totally do not understand what SuiGeneris means....??!!! |
you will understand it along the way..we will keep you girls posted 
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10 Jan 2008 Thu 01:16 am |
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Welcome to TC by the way
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10 Jan 2008 Thu 01:17 am |
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does anyone have any tips or anything though? i feel so clueless about this guy? is there something about turkish guys thats different than others?
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10 Jan 2008 Thu 01:17 am |
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thanks!
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10 Jan 2008 Thu 01:18 am |
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Quoting catheine!!!!!!!: does anyone have any tips or anything though? i feel so clueless about this guy? is there something about turkish guys thats different than others?[/QUOTE
they are the best lovers!! )))))) |
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10 Jan 2008 Thu 01:18 am |
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What guy?
Are you talking about your boyfriend?
Quoting catheine!!!!!!!: does anyone have any tips or anything though? i feel so clueless about this guy? is there something about turkish guys thats different than others? |
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10 Jan 2008 Thu 01:19 am |
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Sorry I am confused
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10 Jan 2008 Thu 01:20 am |
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lmao me too.
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10 Jan 2008 Thu 01:21 am |
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no i am talking about a guy that i really really like a lot and i only see him in the summer though, in marmaris !!!
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10 Jan 2008 Thu 01:26 am |
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Catheine
What was wrong with this guy?
Is he your boyfriend?
I am confused over your question, sorry.
Are you generally asking about turkish men?
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10 Jan 2008 Thu 01:28 am |
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yes in general turkish guys. but umm currently we're just friends but i would like to go beyond that, if you understand what i mean
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10 Jan 2008 Thu 01:30 am |
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my question is do all turkish guys fall in love so quickly? mine is saying he wants to marry me and we only met for 2 weeks in summer and talk on msn since. Is this normal or is this guy moving things a bit too quickly? :S
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10 Jan 2008 Thu 01:30 am |
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Welcome lagushka and catherine!!! We need some new members - we have recently lost a couple of our regulars!! 
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10 Jan 2008 Thu 01:32 am |
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thanks lady in red! ok girl- CRAP! you only knew/saw each other for 2 weeks? he is moving wwaaay toooooo fast!!!!!! goodness. (that was to lagushka) sorry but wow!
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10 Jan 2008 Thu 01:33 am |
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Quoting lady in red: Welcome lagushka and catherine!!! We need some new members - we have recently lost a couple of our regulars!! |
+1 
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10 Jan 2008 Thu 01:34 am |
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Quoting catheine!!!!!!!: thanks lady in red! ok girl- CRAP! you only knew/saw each other for 2 weeks? he is moving wwaaay toooooo fast!!!!!! goodness. (that was to lagushka) sorry but wow! |
Yeh i no it sounds bad but we really really do luv eachother and it happened so quick. of course I wont rush into marriage but I really believe it is true luv.
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10 Jan 2008 Thu 01:35 am |
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I wonder where is Auntie AEnigma when needed the most? 
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10 Jan 2008 Thu 01:36 am |
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sorry geniuda I didnt get your meaning :S
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10 Jan 2008 Thu 01:39 am |
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Quoting *babydoll*: my question is do all turkish guys fall in love so quickly? mine is saying he wants to marry me and we only met for 2 weeks in summer and talk on msn since. Is this normal or is this guy moving things a bit too quickly? :S |
this is waaay to quick. he could be a rat in the making...please be careful and keep your wits about you.
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10 Jan 2008 Thu 01:39 am |
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well you should see him some more! i want to see my guy soooo bad. he just has no clue that i like him. he's so cute and acts so weird (in a hilarious way) that i've just never felt like this around a guy. i wanna let him know that i like him i'm just scared he will reject me or something. i can't stop thinking about him either?!!!
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10 Jan 2008 Thu 01:41 am |
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Quoting gezbelle: Quoting *babydoll*: my question is do all turkish guys fall in love so quickly? mine is saying he wants to marry me and we only met for 2 weeks in summer and talk on msn since. Is this normal or is this guy moving things a bit too quickly? :S |
this is waaay to quick. he could be a rat in the making...please be careful and keep your wits about you. |
Yeh thanks gezbelle. i dont think he is a rat but dont worry i am not gonna do any thing stupid
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10 Jan 2008 Thu 01:44 am |
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Sorry! posted twice by mistake!
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10 Jan 2008 Thu 01:47 am |
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welcome from me too
I have been here for a few weeks trying to learn turkish, but never posted until today. its a great site
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10 Jan 2008 Thu 01:52 am |
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Quoting catheine!!!!!!!: ok---i'm half american and half turkish. i go to marmaris, turkey every summer. i have a really big crush on this guy there-- help?! |
Well if you are half Turkish, you must have some Turkish family there, ask them for help. They probably know the culture better and can offer better advice, don't you think?
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10 Jan 2008 Thu 02:30 am |
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Quoting geniuda: Quoting catheine!!!!!!!: i know! i seriously have never felt this way about a guy before!!! i just totally do not understand what SuiGeneris means....??!!! |
you will understand it along the way..we will keep you girls posted |
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10 Jan 2008 Thu 02:37 am |
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Quoting catheine!!!!!!!: no i am talking about a guy that i really really like a lot and i only see him in the summer though, in marmaris !!! |
DuDu run run run
DuDu run run 
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10 Jan 2008 Thu 02:45 am |
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Quoting Leelu: Quoting catheine!!!!!!!: no i am talking about a guy that i really really like a lot and i only see him in the summer though, in marmaris !!! |
DuDu run run run
DuDu run run |
another dudu case? 
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10 Jan 2008 Thu 03:28 am |
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Quoting geniuda: Quoting lady in red: Welcome lagushka and catherine!!! We need some new members - we have recently lost a couple of our regulars!! |
+1 |
Hmm.... lagushka and catherine will perfectly fill in for... Gabby? 
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10 Jan 2008 Thu 03:51 am |
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Quoting catwoman: Quoting geniuda: Quoting lady in red: Welcome lagushka and catherine!!! We need some new members - we have recently lost a couple of our regulars!! |
+1 |
Hmm.... lagushka and catherine will perfectly fill in for... Gabby? |
Sorry..but I dont think so
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10 Jan 2008 Thu 04:04 am |
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Quoting thehandsom: Sorry..but I dont think so |
Why don't you think so????  You know I'm right!
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10 Jan 2008 Thu 04:18 am |
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Quoting geniuda: Quoting Leelu: Quoting catheine!!!!!!!: no i am talking about a guy that i really really like a lot and i only see him in the summer though, in marmaris !!! |
DuDu run run run
DuDu run run |
another dudu case? |
what do you know about dudu's????
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10 Jan 2008 Thu 04:28 am |
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Quoting KeithL: what do you know about dudu's???? |
I agree with Keith Our new members can't get a status of full membership of CGG until they learn everything about dudus - how to recognize them, how to avoid them, even how to make them regret their that they were born!
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10 Jan 2008 Thu 04:46 am |
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Quoting KeithL: Quoting geniuda: Quoting Leelu: Quoting catheine!!!!!!!: no i am talking about a guy that i really really like a lot and i only see him in the summer though, in marmaris !!! |
DuDu run run run
DuDu run run |
another dudu case? |
what do you know about dudu's???? |
oh oh..dont worry hun..you already know what I have learnt about dudus,and how to avoid them .. haven't I told you this bfore? 
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10 Jan 2008 Thu 04:54 am |
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Quoting KeithL: Quoting geniuda: Quoting Leelu: Quoting catheine!!!!!!!: no i am talking about a guy that i really really like a lot and i only see him in the summer though, in marmaris !!! |
DuDu run run run
DuDu run run |
another dudu case? |
what do you know about dudu's???? |
dear...'another dudu case' was a question not a statement? I was just wondering if any of these cases would fall under the dudu's category..btw what is a dudu? 
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10 Jan 2008 Thu 05:26 am |
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Quoting catwoman: Quoting KeithL: what do you know about dudu's???? |
I agree with Keith Our new members can't get a status of full membership of CGG until they learn everything about dudus - how to recognize them, how to avoid them, even how to make them regret their that they were born! |
I am glad that I am NOT a new member and I have learnt about how to recognize them and how to avoid them
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10 Jan 2008 Thu 08:11 am |
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Quoting geniuda: Quoting KeithL: Quoting geniuda: Quoting Leelu: Quoting catheine!!!!!!!: no i am talking about a guy that i really really like a lot and i only see him in the summer though, in marmaris !!! |
DuDu run run run
DuDu run run |
another dudu case? |
what do you know about dudu's???? |
dear...'another dudu case' was a question not a statement? I was just wondering if any of these cases would fall under the dudu's category..btw what is a dudu? |
wonderful post. History likes repeating itself)))And who says"we don't need no education???"except Pink floyd????
It even did not make my day but the whole month)))If I feel blue I will just recall new members...hehe
run dudu,run,run...
sorry but can't stop laughing.....
btw...welcome...
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10 Jan 2008 Thu 08:22 am |
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Quoting catwoman:
I agree with Keith Our new members can't get a status of full membership of CGG until they learn everything about dudus - how to recognize them, how to avoid them, even how to make them regret their that they were born! |
CGG is missing three of it's founding members...how can new members be initiated without them?
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10 Jan 2008 Thu 08:28 am |
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by proxy?
a mutiny?
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10 Jan 2008 Thu 08:32 am |
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Quoting gezbelle: by proxy?
a mutiny?
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10 Jan 2008 Thu 08:45 am |
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Quoting gezbelle: by proxy?
a mutiny?
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10 Jan 2008 Thu 09:17 am |
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Quoting gezbelle: by proxy?
a mutiny?
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+1
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10 Jan 2008 Thu 09:18 am |
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Quoting girleegirl: CGG is missing three of it's founding members...how can new members be initiated without them? |
Who is the 3rd one? Vineyards?
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10 Jan 2008 Thu 09:29 am |
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Quoting catwoman: Quoting girleegirl: CGG is missing three of it's founding members...how can new members be initiated without them? |
Who is the 3rd one? Vineyards? |
No! Haven't you noticed our resident crack reporter, Elisabeth, has gone missing also?
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10 Jan 2008 Thu 09:41 am |
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Quoting girleegirl: No! Haven't you noticed our resident crack reporter, Elisabeth, has gone missing also? |
Damn, that's true.... maybe there's some sort of epidemic out there?  Girleegirl, stay strong! Call me if you feel like you're getting weak, ok? 
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10 Jan 2008 Thu 09:56 am |
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Quoting catwoman: Quoting girleegirl: No! Haven't you noticed our resident crack reporter, Elisabeth, has gone missing also? |
Damn, that's true.... maybe there's some sort of epidemic out there? Girleegirl, stay strong! Call me if you feel like you're getting weak, ok? |
Well, since the CGG numbers are dwindlng, I think we need to carry on strong until they return!
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10 Jan 2008 Thu 09:58 am |
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Oh...but did you say an epidemic? That only seems to be striking CGG???
Hmmm...uhh..errmmmm......I....I...I forgot...I have something urgent to take care of right now. Gotta run!
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10 Jan 2008 Thu 10:09 am |
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Quoting girleegirl: Oh...but did you say an epidemic? That only seems to be striking CGG???
Hmmm...uhh..errmmmm......I....I...I forgot...I have something urgent to take care of right now. Gotta run!
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I hope you are NOT saying that you didn't get the vaccine yet.... 
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10 Jan 2008 Thu 03:25 pm |
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Quoting girleegirl: Quoting catwoman:
I agree with Keith Our new members can't get a status of full membership of CGG until they learn everything about dudus - how to recognize them, how to avoid them, even how to make them regret their that they were born! |
CGG is missing three of it's founding members...how can new members be initiated without them? |
Seeing as your founders don't feel like joining in and posting at the moment, you could hold the fort for them and initiate in the new girls asking about Turkish guys to your 'dudu' awareness club
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10 Jan 2008 Thu 03:33 pm |
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Quoting catheine!!!!!!!: i know! i seriously have never felt this way about a guy before!!! i just totally do not understand what SuiGeneris means....??!!! |
Sorry for confusing you... but we have seen lots of same stories here... so it is easy to guess what you are going through... dont offend please...
just wish you luck...
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10 Jan 2008 Thu 07:54 pm |
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Quoting geniuda: Quoting KeithL: Quoting geniuda: Quoting Leelu: Quoting catheine!!!!!!!: no i am talking about a guy that i really really like a lot and i only see him in the summer though, in marmaris !!! |
DuDu run run run
DuDu run run |
another dudu case? |
what do you know about dudu's???? |
dear...'another dudu case' was a question not a statement? I was just wondering if any of these cases would fall under the dudu's category..btw what is a dudu? |
How do you know what a dudu is in one breath .. and forget in the other? either you know what to look for .. or you don't there really is no in between
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10 Jan 2008 Thu 07:59 pm |
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come on girls....
#1, if he tells you he loves you in the first week,
HE IS A DUDU!!!
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10 Jan 2008 Thu 08:25 pm |
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Quoting KeithL: come on girls....
#1, if he tells you he loves you in the first week,
HE IS A DUDU!!! |
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10 Jan 2008 Thu 08:31 pm |
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Quoting KeithL: come on girls....
#1, if he tells you he loves you in the first week,
HE IS A DUDU!!! |
EXACTLY!! How in the world can this happen???? even worst when they tell you they want to marry you two weeks after
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10 Jan 2008 Thu 08:47 pm |
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A "dudu" is just the Turkish version of what an American would call a 'Player'. Basically a man who is full of 'sh..' and trying to get sex only. My Turkish man said he loved me within the first week, but he isn't a dudu...so you can't always tell by that alone. There are usually several factors.
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10 Jan 2008 Thu 08:57 pm |
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Thank you
Is 'dudu' a widely used term? If I use it in Turkey or some where else will it be OK? I mean I never heard of such word before.
Why did other members use this word in this forum? Is there a suggestion that someone is dudu?
Actually I want to laugh when I pronounce this word It sounds funny
Quoting Badiabdancer74: A 'dudu' is just the Turkish version of what an American would call a 'Player'. Basically a man who is full of 'sh..' and trying to get sex only. My Turkish man said he loved me within the first week, but he isn't a dudu...so you can't always tell by that alone. There are usually several factors. |
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10 Jan 2008 Thu 09:25 pm |
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Thank you )))
Nice to meet you, Kafeesteki kus (oh, you have a difficult nickname)
BTW, I'm trying to figure out the smilies you use. How do you use them? Do you write them?
Quoting kafesteki kus: Quoting lagushka: Thank you
Is 'dudu' a widely used term? If I use it in Turkey or some where else will it be OK? I mean I never heard of such word before.
Why did other members use this word in this forum? Is there a suggestion that someone is dudu?
Actually I want to laugh when I pronounce this word It sounds funny
Quoting Badiabdancer74: A 'dudu' is just the Turkish version of what an American would call a 'Player'. Basically a man who is full of 'sh..' and trying to get sex only. My Turkish man said he loved me within the first week, but he isn't a dudu...so you can't always tell by that alone. There are usually several factors. |
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 I think I like this girl |
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11 Jan 2008 Fri 01:14 am |
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Quoting lagushka: Is 'dudu' a widely used term? If I use it in Turkey or some where else will it be OK? I mean I never heard of such word before.
Why did other members use this word in this forum? Is there a suggestion that someone is dudu?
Actually I want to laugh when I pronounce this word It sounds funny
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nope, it is a secrect word...sssshhhh...
a dudu is a guy that says he loves you after only a day/a week of meeting you, asks for money, a visa, and has several other girlfriends, etc.
you may need to search the old threads, to see some examples of dudus...
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11 Jan 2008 Fri 01:30 am |
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Quoting lagushka: Hello everyone.
I felt I was lost or confused after reading all the comments in this forum. I do not understand the slangs. I must be not modern enough.
Thank you for welcoming.
I have a little question. Are you all turkish?
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Actually it's a slang term coined right here on TLC.
In proper Turkish it means parrot. In Ottoman Turkish it was a word for woman. The popular Turkish singer, Tarkan has a album by the name Dudu. In it he means woman.
Did you know you can click on any word here and it will take you to a Turkish/English dictionary? Try it here: dudu
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11 Jan 2008 Fri 06:23 am |
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Quoting Badiabdancer74: A "dudu" is just the Turkish version of what an American would call a 'Player'. Basically a man who is full of 'sh..' and trying to get sex only. My Turkish man said he loved me within the first week, but he isn't a dudu...so you can't always tell by that alone. There are usually several factors. |
true, i agree with this. just because he said he loved you within the first week, doesn't mean he is an instant dudu. i mean i can remember what thehandsom said in some other thread. something like,(not exact words) he saw someone and knew that she loved her and followed her around, etc. (not sure if he was joking though  )
my case is almost the same with Badiabdancer74. there are other factors to consider before you can call him a dudu. i think the first indication would be that he will start asking you for money. maybe credit for his phone, then after more, and more...
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11 Jan 2008 Fri 07:58 am |
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I think it's pretty safe to say that not one woman who has fallen for a dudu thought he was a dudu until the blow was struck.
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11 Jan 2008 Fri 08:02 am |
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I'm just feeling there is something a teensy bit fishy about this thread.
Covert ops at work?
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11 Jan 2008 Fri 03:06 pm |
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Quoting justinetime: Quoting Badiabdancer74: A "dudu" is just the Turkish version of what an American would call a 'Player'. Basically a man who is full of 'sh..' and trying to get sex only. My Turkish man said he loved me within the first week, but he isn't a dudu...so you can't always tell by that alone. There are usually several factors. |
true, i agree with this. just because he said he loved you within the first week, doesn't mean he is an instant dudu. i mean i can remember what thehandsom said in some other thread. something like,(not exact words) he saw someone and knew that she loved her and followed her around, etc. (not sure if he was joking though )
my case is almost the same with Badiabdancer74. there are other factors to consider before you can call him a dudu. i think the first indication would be that he will start asking you for money. maybe credit for his phone, then after more, and more... |
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11 Jan 2008 Fri 03:12 pm |
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Quoting shama-uk: Other things to look out for: (1) Men are visual animals. Do you look old enough to be his mother? If he is young, is fully sighted, has all his limbs and is falling madly in love with someone who is phyically not compatible then he is looking for a fairy-godmother to look after him from afar (money, telephone credits, electrical goods). (2) Communication. If you are barely able to communicate in a non-physical way and he makes no effort to learn your language, then forget it. (3) Family/friends. How long before he introduces you to them in person or by phone? (4) Excuses. How many does he make? He has no credits on his phone, he's working too hard, he's been too busy to call, he's depressed through lack of money/job. My list can go on forever.
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VOW..
Experience is talking?
However, I will go with girlygirl. I trust her.
Something is not right with this thread..
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11 Jan 2008 Fri 03:16 pm |
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Quoting shama-uk: Other things to look out for: (1) Men are visual animals. |
This is utter crap canim!
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11 Jan 2008 Fri 03:27 pm |
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Quoting thehandsom: Quoting shama-uk: Other things to look out for: (1) Men are visual animals. Do you look old enough to be his mother? If he is young, is fully sighted, has all his limbs and is falling madly in love with someone who is phyically not compatible then he is looking for a fairy-godmother to look after him from afar (money, telephone credits, electrical goods). (2) Communication. If you are barely able to communicate in a non-physical way and he makes no effort to learn your language, then forget it. (3) Family/friends. How long before he introduces you to them in person or by phone? (4) Excuses. How many does he make? He has no credits on his phone, he's working too hard, he's been too busy to call, he's depressed through lack of money/job. My list can go on forever.
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Experience is talking?
However, I will go with girlygirl. I trust her.
Something is not right with this thread.. |
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11 Jan 2008 Fri 03:45 pm |
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You look like you're in a terrible mood. You're laughing at everything!
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11 Jan 2008 Fri 03:47 pm |
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Quoting catwoman:
You look like you're in a terrible mood. |
That is what I said..You copycat
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11 Jan 2008 Fri 03:55 pm |
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Quoting catwoman: Quoting shama-uk: Other things to look out for: (1) Men are visual animals. |
This is utter crap canim! |
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11 Jan 2008 Fri 03:57 pm |
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Quoting shama-uk: Quoting catwoman: Quoting shama-uk: Other things to look out for: (1) Men are visual animals. |
This is utter crap canim! |
Do you really think so?! Its what all the books say.... |
Which books canim? Dr Phil or Oprah?
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11 Jan 2008 Fri 04:00 pm |
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Well from this description, I am hardly to get hit on...Go and take a walk and come back when you are feeling more like your usual self...
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11 Jan 2008 Fri 04:25 pm |
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Quoting catwoman: Quoting shama-uk: Quoting catwoman: Quoting shama-uk: Other things to look out for: (1) Men are visual animals. |
This is utter crap canim! |
Do you really think so?! Its what all the books say.... |
Which books canim? Dr Phil or Oprah? |
http://www.seductionlabs.org/2007/07/24/why-men-are-more-visual/
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11 Jan 2008 Fri 04:50 pm |
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Quoting shama-uk: Oh I am absolutely in love with Dr Phil... and he aint that good-looing. Take a look at http://www.nature.com/neuro/journal/v7/n4/abs/nn1208.html
http://www.seductionlabs.org/2007/07/24/why-men-are-more-visual/ |
Canim... all these evolutionary theories are pure speculations and more often than not, they are disproved with time. There is no way to prove that evolution definitely was directed by only certain factors because we don't know exactly what factors were important. There are many problems with that article you quoted from "seduction labs".
1. If reproductivness/strength/power is to be assessed by visual characteristics, then females should also assess males based on their appearance and they would want to choose the strongest male. So being "visual" is a human quality, not a male quality.
2. If we are talking about humans, males don't want to have children with all females they find attractive. When they do want to have children, they also have a parenting "gene" and unlike some other animals, they take care of their children. So they don't want to "procreate in an unlimited way just to have as many kids as possible".
3. If we are talking about monkeys, females are NOT faithful to only one male. They mate with many males every day. They are NOT looking for one male that would take care of the offspring.
4. there are many other problems that I don't have time to talk about...
The second article fro neuroscience: what they did there was they measured level of brain activity when a person was performing a specific task (in this case, looking) and they found a higher activity than in females. Baby humans are born with a very undeveloped brain, highly unmyelinated. 90% of the connections between axons form after birth and are highly influenced by environment. If you look at male sexual education - it is by watching porn, a behavior completely based on visual stimulation, so there - that's how they become "more visual".
Why haven't females done the same thing? Because they were/are economically dependent on other people, esp on a prospective husband, so they can't afford to care about looks. Women who are independent, do care about looks.
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11 Jan 2008 Fri 04:59 pm |
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Quoting catwoman: Quoting shama-uk: Oh I am absolutely in love with Dr Phil... and he aint that good-looing. Take a look at http://www.nature.com/neuro/journal/v7/n4/abs/nn1208.html
http://www.seductionlabs.org/2007/07/24/why-men-are-more-visual/ |
Canim... all these evolutionary theories are pure speculations and more often than not, they are disproved with time. There is no way to prove that evolution definitely was directed by only certain factors because we don't know exactly what factors were important. There are many problems with that article you quoted from "seduction labs".
1. If reproductivness/strength/power is to be assessed by visual characteristics, then females should also assess males based on their appearance and they would want to choose the strongest male. So being "visual" is a human quality, not a male quality.
2. If we are talking about humans, males don't want to have children with all females they find attractive. When they do want to have children, they also have a parenting "gene" and unlike some other animals, they take care of their children. So they don't want to "procreate in an unlimited way just to have as many kids as possible".
3. If we are talking about monkeys, females are NOT faithful to only one male. They mate with many males every day. They are NOT looking for one male that would take care of the offspring.
4. there are many other problems that I don't have time to talk about...
The second article fro neuroscience: what they did there was they measured level of brain activity when a person was performing a specific task (in this case, looking) and they found a higher activity than in females. Baby humans are born with a very undeveloped brain, highly unmyelinated. 90% of the connections between axons form after birth and are highly influenced by environment. If you look at male sexual education - it is by watching porn, a behavior completely based on visual stimulation, so there - that's how they become "more visual".
Why haven't females done the same thing? Because they were/are economically dependent on other people, esp on a prospective husband, so they can't afford to care about looks. Women who are independent, do care about looks. |
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11 Jan 2008 Fri 05:55 pm |
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Quoting catwoman:
You look like you're in a terrible mood. You're laughing at everything! |
Looks like he is enjoying life again.
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11 Jan 2008 Fri 06:46 pm |
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Nothing makes sense to me.
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11 Jan 2008 Fri 06:47 pm |
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Quoting shama-uk: Well from this description, I am hardly to get hit on...Go and take a walk and come back when you are feeling more like your usual self... |
You think that you know all about men..do you?
It is a huge myth that we all like skinny, long legged women!!
Some of us prefers different..
ps..I had a walk..and I am still the same. It is not working..
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11 Jan 2008 Fri 08:55 pm |
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can anyone tell me if turkish guys will marry non-muslims? For example if i want to marry my bf should I become a muslim and how do i do this? :-S
(sorry if it seems a dumb question but i have no idea lol)
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11 Jan 2008 Fri 11:44 pm |
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Quoting thehandsom:
VOW..
Experience is talking?
However, I will go with girlygirl. I trust her.
Something is not right with this thread.. |
Thanks dear but you know better than to trust me! I'm a card carrying member of the CGG!!!
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12 Jan 2008 Sat 01:51 am |
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Quoting thehandsom: Quoting shama-uk: Well from this description, I am hardly to get hit on...Go and take a walk and come back when you are feeling more like your usual self... |
You think that you know all about men..do you? Who? Me??!
It is a huge myth that we all like skinny, long legged women!! Most like and want but can't get..
Some of us prefers different.. Well thank God for that
ps..I had a walk..and I am still the same. It is not working.. |
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12 Jan 2008 Sat 02:56 am |
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Quoting shama-uk: Try again honey, its pissing down with rain over here. With any luck there will be some lightening -- at which point run as fast as you can for cover under the nearest tree. |
Well, I really did some jogging tonight..and yes..it was raining here too..(what a coincident )
And It did not help I am afraid!!
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12 Jan 2008 Sat 09:56 pm |
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Murphy's Love Laws...for those infatuated in Turkish boys
1. All the good ones are taken.
2. If the person isn't taken, there's a reason. (corr. to 1)
3. The nicer someone is, the farther away (s)he is from you.
4. Brains x Beauty x Availability = Constant.
5. The amount of love someone feels for you is inversely proportional to how much you love them.
6. Money can't buy love, but it sure gets you a great bargaining position.
7. The best things in the world are free --- and worth every penny of it.
8. Every kind action has a not-so-kind reaction.
9. Nice guys(girls) finish last.
10. If it seems too good to be true, it probably is.
11. Availability is a function of time. The minute you get interested is the minute they find someone else.
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