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10.       sophie
2712 posts
 23 Feb 2006 Thu 03:04 pm

Quoting Boop:

Quoting Lindaxxx:

Love is an excuse to get hurt......now where have I seen that before.....lol lol




hmmmm - I wonder.....same place as me I expect



no no it wasn't there!
it was lyrics from this song 'Lover I Don't Have To Love' BRIGHT EYES


11.       Boop
785 posts
 23 Feb 2006 Thu 03:07 pm

Exactly Sophie - you are absolutely right

12.       Aenigma
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 23 Feb 2006 Thu 04:07 pm

13.       Aenigma
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 23 Feb 2006 Thu 08:47 pm

Quoting goner:

of course love is mutual feeling but i also believe that one part loves more than the other.it is true



Sadly what you say is true. In my experience, when I have been in-love, it has been mutual but one of us has felt more than the other. I have decided it is better to be the one who is loved more, than to feel too much love. If you are the one who is loved more, there is no jealousy, no enless trying to please, you are accepted and loved for who you are

14.       Boop
785 posts
 23 Feb 2006 Thu 11:03 pm

Yes that seems to be how it goes - still human nature being what it is - we are always optimistic at the start of a new relationship - sometimes it works and sometimes it doesn't - that is life....

15.       Aslan
1070 posts
 24 Feb 2006 Fri 12:09 am

I don´t think of it as a natural law - that one loves more than the other. But I know that it is common...like a balance-thing that comes and goes... I think that it might be about power and control - more than about real love...

...if your partner is losing interest...be cooler than your partner...and he/she will see you with new eyes... Stupid, but true, I think...but not really about love, huh?

My best advice to the ones suffering from being the ones who love more: Play according to player!

By the way...an italian sociologist Alberoni has written a wonderful book on love and it is free to download as a pdf at his homepage!
I strongly recommend it! Alberoni has some interesting ideas about why we fall in love...and what love is!

16.       Aenigma
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 24 Feb 2006 Fri 07:20 pm

Quoting Boop:

Yes that seems to be how it goes - still human nature being what it is - we are always optimistic at the start of a new relationship - sometimes it works and sometimes it doesn't - that is life....



Well it is easy - play it cool and you are always the one who is loved more - heaven

17.       sophie
2712 posts
 25 Feb 2006 Sat 01:17 am

Quoting Aenigma:


Well it is easy - play it cool and you are always the one who is loved more - heaven



Is love a race? Or a competition? What's important? Who loves or is being loved more? I don't think that you care about these when you are really in love. You just can't help falling more and giving more.
We usually start counting the losses after the love grows old or fades away. And only then we advice ourselves that we should be more careful next time. But so what? I, to speak for my part, tend to forget all the promises i made to myself and jump in the chaos again, as soon as love knocks the door again

18.       Aenigma
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 25 Feb 2006 Sat 02:34 am

Hey I'm with you Sophie!! I was following Aslan's advice there - kind of a joke To be honest, I don't think you should analyse love - it should remain mysterious and magical!

19.       Boop
785 posts
 25 Feb 2006 Sat 12:58 pm

When you hold yourself back from loving - you lock the door to your heart - someone comes along and tries to break down that door - you open it a tiny bit - allow that person near - and just when you start to allow yourself to love again - the other one slams the door on your heart - and so shatters your heart and your illusions once again...
so you pick up the pieces - hold yourself back from loving...lock the door....(etc.)
The circle of living.. :-S

20.       freshman
704 posts
 25 Feb 2006 Sat 02:27 pm

Love is chasing generally..1 person tries to run away and 1 person tries to catch him/her...Love is becoming panic attack sometimes..but love is not giving up until die...

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