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How does a Turk dump a girl?
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23 Jul 2008 Wed 05:41 pm |
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Quoting latinkedi: Quoting pansi: if they want break up they just ignore |
I agree... maybe they do that because after all they promise it´s just so stupid to say: hey, you know what.. I was wrong and I won´t love you forever neither I need you like the air or die if you´re not with me.. oops.. my bad!  now get lost! 
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yeah  for men it is harder to admit that they can be wrong and for proud man especially 
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23 Jul 2008 Wed 06:34 pm |
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People meet, people love, people change their minds (even after lots of promises).
Is it a crime?
Deal with it
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23 Jul 2008 Wed 06:41 pm |
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Quoting AEnigmamagnadea: People meet, people love, people change their minds (even after lots of promises).
Is it a crime?
Deal with it
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nope  İt is not a crime.Everyone have the right to change mind.Question was about how they are doing it, that´s all, just about why it is hard to say it directly.Everyone deserve to hear the truth, no matter how this truth can be.
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23 Jul 2008 Wed 06:43 pm |
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Quoting AEnigmamagnadea: People meet, people love, people change their minds (even after lots of promises).
Is it a crime?
Deal with it
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it´s not a crime.. but we´re talking about how they deal with it..
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23 Jul 2008 Wed 06:50 pm |
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Quoting AEnigmamagnadea: Hehehe how many times have YOU told the truth in this situation?
Do you say "Sorry but your feet smell and I find you really ugly now"????
NOPE
You say something like "I really really like you but I don´t want a serious relationship right now" or "I just feel we are drifting apart" 
It makes no difference how you break up. The post important thing is to LET IT GO and never try to keep someone by using emotional blackmail - Yuck!
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Aenigmathingy - you forgot the classic: ´It´s not YOU that´s the problem, it´s ME´!
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23 Jul 2008 Wed 06:50 pm |
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Quoting AEnigmamagnadea: People meet, people love, people change their minds (even after lots of promises).
Is it a crime?
Deal with it
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 ever thought of taking up councelling
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23 Jul 2008 Wed 06:51 pm |
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Quoting AEnigmamagnadea: Hehehe how many times have YOU told the truth in this situation?
Do you say "Sorry but your feet smell and I find you really ugly now"????
NOPE
You say something like "I really really like you but I don´t want a serious relationship right now" or "I just feel we are drifting apart"
It makes no difference how you break up. The post important thing is to LET IT GO and never try to keep someone by using emotional blackmail - Yuck!
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exactly.. we speak about it, maybe we say it in a polite way but we say it.. coz it´s the less thing a person deserves, don´t get me wrong I´ve had other breakups before, but I don´t go around like nothing happened and ignoring people..
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23 Jul 2008 Wed 06:52 pm |
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Quoting latinkedi: exactly.. we speak about it, maybe we say it in a polite way but we say it.. coz it´s the less thing a person deserves, don´t get me wrong I´ve had other breakups before, but I don´t go around like nothing happened and ignoring people.. |
Well sorry, but if a man suddenly ignores me I would dump him anyway
Job done
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23 Jul 2008 Wed 06:53 pm |
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Quoting AEnigmamagnadea: Hehehe how many times have YOU told the truth in this situation?
Do you say "Sorry but your feet smell and I find you really ugly now"????
NOPE
You say something like "I really really like you but I don´t want a serious relationship right now" or "I just feel we are drifting apart"
It makes no difference how you break up. The post important thing is to LET IT GO and never try to keep someone by using emotional blackmail - Yuck!
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well then i am wierd because i did said the truth.Of course not that he is smelling but that everything is over for ... those reasons.relations is always complicated if there is lies.İ had said - sorry but i dont love you anymore and it wasn´t love what i felt to you.and if persons repsect theirselves they will accept also decisons.but with ignoring or not saying anything you (generally) are giving still some hope
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23 Jul 2008 Wed 06:58 pm |
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Well sorry, but if a man suddenly ignores me I would dump him anyway
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yea yeah.. u can speak now, while it´s not happening to u.. i hope it lasts
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