I don´t know-maybe send it and hope he understands. I was hoping someone would help but none of the people I would normally ask are signed in.

araları kötü olmak : to be on bad terms

http://www.mydictionary.net/turkish-english/kotu.html

with an example :

´Bir televizyon dergisine röportaj veren 32 yaşındaki Jolie, Brad Pitt’le aralarının kötü olduğu haberini yalanladı ve “Ailemiz büyüyor ve işimiz´

http://www.angelinajolie.gen.tr/index.php?s=%C3%A7ocuklar%C4%B1m

ok thanks, i´ll give it a try, turkish to english is much easier

thanks eniser and everybody else for your help

would it be easier if i said:-

can we speak before i go home? i don´t want to leave with bad feeling between us

 what about saying ´I want us to part as friends?´  maybe that would be simpler to translate?

sorry i couldn´t reply until now i have had problems with this stupid computer  thanks everyone for your help it´s too late to send the message now as i am back in england  but thanks to all those who tried to help