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Kuzenin senin askerlikten sonra evleneceðini söylediyor. Doðru mu? Side´ye yolculum iptak etmek için bana söyle.

Wait for corrections, just a learner.

Dilliduduk, as always I appreciate any corrections.

However, have a questions about something here, that no matter how I do it I get it corrected. So I´m really confused.

I have a question about the "edebilmem için bana söyle" that was corrected from "etmek için" (I´m not questioning the vocabulary, I get that I might use the wrong word, I´m questioning the grammatical structure). Not too long ago I made a post where I used the -mem için and that was corrected (by you as well) to -mek için. Here´s a copy of that post (from

http://www.turkishclass.com/forumTitle_38888): 

"After discussing with harpoon, we decided on "kalbim aðýrlaþtý"

Kalbim aðýrlaþtýðý için sana bu mesajý gönderiyorum, yoluma devam etmek için sana duygularýmý anlatmam gerekiyor. Seninle artýk temasta bulunmayacaðým, bu sana baðlý, nerede olduðumu biliyorsun."

So, based on that correction of yours I used -mek için in the current post and it was corrected back to -mem için!!!

So no matter what I do, I can´t win.

Question is, if you try to say "so, that ...." and use "için" do you use the verb preceeding it in the -mek or me+possessive ending form? It´s seems no matter what form I use it´s wrong, so I would really appreciate some clarification on that.

 I would have translated as :

 Bana söyle de Side´ye olan yolculuðumu iptal edeyim.

The thing you are asking Melek, is the difference between in order to and so that...

in order to see it right - doðru görmek için

so that i can see it right - doðru görebilmem için

Is that all there´s to it? Thanks Merih.

is it ok now?

I think so, thank you, it seems that they are both correct just slightly different meaning. I think I´m going to pick up a habit involving Russian vodka if I continue learning this language.

Is it ok to say: "görebilmek için" though?

it depends on about which sentence you are talking

I came to see you - seni görmek için geldim/ seni görmeye geldim but never "seni görmem için geldim"

I need glasses to see you - seni görmem/görmek için gözlüðe ihtiyacým var. both correct