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There are dating sites where you can meet turkish men, but here we cannot help you find one. What we can do is to help you to learn the language, and the culture. Besides there are discussions on any subject including relationships and turkish men/women. Though, again, this is not a meeting site..

We´ve been here before.  This thread ran to 48 pages on the subject (though I´m sure a lot of posts were off-topic as usual!)

Pls submit your references from some of the Arab men you are so tired of. Someone here may be discretely interested.

men in every where are like each others and also women.but the issue here don´t try to search for man because it´s the fate which makes you lonely sometimes and sometimes not

Hi! I am Muzaffer from Istanbul Turkey!  I am interested in chatting with you! Maybe we learn about each other!

If you say "I´m desperate" out loud when you arive at any airport in Turkey, you´ll have a husband in 5 minutes.

 Im desperate to find a turkish husband ( Istanbul - European part ) to get citizanship only (no other obligations) 

  This made me laugh

Who would have known it could be so easy for her,

Ahhhh! Those "5 minutes" doesnt work via internet! Stupid me ! 

Dear Reema!I dont think you can choose your husband only about he is turkish or arabic.We are all from same God!U cant compair any men abuot country becouse of some of them not good.there is nice one in each country im sure.and i dont think u want him to love u about that u r arabic aswell.i agree that itc cool u like turkey and turk stuff as me too..but find the men of your life like give a chance to every one wich gentle and faitfull.Hope you find him soon.And dont worry about living in turkey.Just make sure the place and work before you go.Its not harder there than everywhere else.I cant help more as i dont know whats ur education like.

Good luck in life a lot:K

In my experience it doesnt even take 5 mins, I was outside the airport trying to find my transfer but my phone didnt have any reception, a guy kindly lent me his phone and in 3 mins I had a dinner date and a day out!!! however, I already have a boyfriend

Well there is a difference in finding a husband and finding a date.... In Turkey the first one is difficult the last one is the most easy in Turkey! I agree with Maureen, if you travel alone as woman in Turkey you get non stop attention.

This has been very amusing

... But really this young woman just wants to settle down with a nice, hardworking man...Let´s pray the Lord sends someone worthy of her in her path soon....

I wish you luck on it sis!

me too, for a workplace better, lol....give me 5 ReyhanL

that is like the movie `declaratie de dragoste`

or maybe ..better `buletin de bucuresti`- if I can translate `passport for Bucharest`, lol

 No, its like in Bucharest ID card ( Buletin de Bucuresti ) 

I heard its working

anytime,.......in every community...............

sad, but..........real, life is life

i wonder .how could a man marry a woman from the first sight .i think this marriage will not see the light.

 In some cultures the man and woman do not meet until the wedding day, but some do work.

 Or marrying by proxy...... :S

My friend didnt meet his wife until 2 weeks before their wedding and they are happily married with a baby boy, I think there is hope for every situation in life. And sometimes 2 people helping each other out is not always a bad thing....

The only thing I can come up with is "to each it´s own"....

Send your resume, and references......it may work for you too..

Oh çok teþekkürler 

Arab girl? What kind of Arab? As I understand, there is a great deal of diversity in the Arab world.  For instance are you from Saudi, Yemen, Palestine, Oman, Dubai, Lebanon.....or....Tunisia.......or?  Turkey also has a great deal of diversity.

  Most men do not find desperation appealing.  In fact most people run away from anyone who displays desperation.

Come on everyone. This girl has obviously had a bad experience. An experience so traumatic that she deemed it necessary to post her desperate plea before TURKISHCLASS. This woman has been raised in such a way that she feels that if she does not get a husband soon her life will be meaningless. I will not impose my worldview on another human being who has been raised in such a way that compels her to make this plea. 

Yes the part about yelling "I am desperate"  as she gets off the plane was very funny, but all jokes aside this woman is going through heartwrenching pain....                                                

I have a Turkish Husband that you can HAVE!!! Only problem is that he is in America - but I´m willing to ship him back.

Haha, habibti, I´ve also had some difficulties with Arab men. (Palestinians are the worst   But to tell you the truth - dating both Arab and Turkissh men, there is not that much of a difference. Sure Arab men are controlling, they like to yell at you and call all types of bad names, and flirt with every girl in sight but just because the man is turkish, it doesn´t mean he won´t do the same. Because they do the same. Even American men do it. No matter what nationality, Men = men. And in the end - they almost always break your heart. Unfortunately.

It is fine to disagree with me or even ridicule my sentiments however it is Universal Law not to impose cultural/societal norms observed by one onto another. I too find the whole thing very strange but the fact remains that this woman was raised and indoctrinated into a culture that presumably emphasizes the importance of marriage  and (implicitly) devalues women who are without a husband. Her education was not flawed ;no more flawed than any other institution around this world that subconsciously imposes propanganist ideology that would serve the mission of each given institution.( e.g. southern schools in the US  that  taught young pupils that slavery was not a sin and African slaves were meant to be in bondage for the betterment of their white superiors)  Of course her education will be in step with the values of her countrymen. Everyone has their chance/opportunity for a mental breakdown, a-ha moment, or personal epiphany however in this case the venue for the young lady´s was Turkishclasss.

"Bad experiences" happen because girls rarely prepare their own "user´s manuals" and get them printed along with their resumes and references. Why blame men, in their total naive ignorance?

Come on girls ! Get organized !

Forward his Owner´s Manual to ReyhanL. She only wants a Turkish passport and nothing else; even your husband can qualify for this, no?

 5 minutes is a long time.i think 2 minutes enough for it.

 Merhaba

i understand you but i think it is diffcult to find it on the internet so ididnt know how you can find him

 and ididnt belive all arab men is bad sure any where you can  find the good and the bad

Alpha,

Yes he is a Turkish citizen!!!! I will forward everything!!!

Plus he owns companies there - perfect a job and a husband....Just take him away...

hello reema...i;m afraid that Turkish series  is the reason  behind your choice!

we should blame syrians who make the doublage of Turkish series 

I´m just kidding you know this situation is also happening  in Japan where people watch korean Series and Japanese girls consider Korean men as more kind because of their TV series

but

I want to tell you the same thing i told Fatima about:

not all arab countries are oppressive i´m living in syria it´s located south Turkey ...I drive a car, travel. work, walk in the street with modern fashion without hijab and nobody considers me as bad girl or irritates me..there are good guys in lebabnon who speaks your language and are open minded .
... most of syrian families has Turksih relatives especially from south Turkey as they speak arabic too ..we share with them the same kind of food we also drink turkish coffee and follow the same steps in marriage.i discovered this fact from my turkish relatives
i also  traveled a lot to Turkey to many cities and i found that open minded men are the same as open minded arab guys,but surely different from saudi arabia
i got one marriage proposal from a Turkish guy, but there isn´t any "nasip´..(:
now syrians are allowed to cross turkish boarders without visa ..it´s true they are kind but don´t mold yourself into one nationality..what about men from albania or bosna?they are muslims too (:

hi! i´m an italian girl...i´m as old as you and i´m so sorry for you, i can understand why you can´t stand arab guys...and u are graduated so u are able to get a job and to look after yourself, by your own

i mean, yes, go to turkey, look for a job, set up your own life, rent a house...but please...don´t tell here that u are desperate and u are looking for an husband...

when and if it´s destiny, you will find your "the one" but u can´t just take the first guy who propose you a marriage...what life can u expect from a "deal" and not a love wedding?

in italy we have an idiom, a proverb... we use to say:" better alone than a bad mate"

so..good luck, and look for your happiness

 i hope you are kidding...how could it be?

turkish can´t have more than a wife, luckily!!! and anyway i can´understand why a person in love shoud want to share his/her partner!!!!

-.-

 ..hmm..."in love" finished ?

 arabians make other people not like them that is bec they said like thisyou are an arab girl and said that why?

not all arabians people are bad and if you are see that please talk about your country only

you can find good people in your country and and you can find the bad too

that is in any where but not all people are good if they doesnt arabian

in an examble iam Egyptian and iam so glade bec iam egyptian and i didnt prefer or like any peoples than the egyptians in addation of that egyptians people are very good and friendly and open minds and many other good things in them so not all arabians are bad

so iam sure you can find an good man in your country soon inşaallaha

and remmber (all the) this word doesnt have ameaning you should said alittle

so i wish to you find what you need soon inşaallaha

Thanks

ı want to meet with you.

 I think you are only going to meet with deletion!  This is not a dating site!  Get a job at a resort like all the other hard working visa seekers!

  - looks like he might be heading that way!!!

Deniz, you are on the wrong site for meeting women. All the others who try this get deleted.  Do what every other human has to do -  meet in person and get to know them! 

what is sedition here if some two would meet here?

two individuals would meet by talking to each other, by knowing inner world of each other?

it is not a goal of this site, but is it smth bad?

systems have some by-products. this one is good one.

Sounds like you are willing to jump from the frying pan into the fire!  

 Turkish men are not any better or any worse than any other men in the world.  But to suggest you want a husband for visa purposes is both naive and dangerous. No decent man will marry you for that reason.  Once you are in turkey who will help you if your  ´husband´ chooses to abuse you?  Did university not teach you to be sensible?

Enter the visa lottery for the US.  Train to be a plumber and apply for a job in Australia. Apply for graduate school somewhere. But for heaven´s sake, only marry a man who loves you.  

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i am  an african lady from Nigeria but married with german

i have to let you know one things in my country are both christain and muslim and natural believers all the same ratio

but my point is no man is better than the other there are bad men every where befor i meet my husband i have different dates there is one who was ready to marry me but i cant live with him his attitude is on call for meaning he is an animal so you can imagin this was a british guy with load of money to give me any life i want but i was working and earning my own money dow so at a point in time i finish all my relationship that i want to face my work to get more promotion in my work place and that is when my real love find me just over a business dinner i meet the love of my life who worship me like an idol

so my dear dont look for husband when you get desperate about you will fall for the wrong person my advice is look for job in turkey befor you come to turkey because is hard to get job here in turkey even the citizens are not finding it easy so secure a job come to turkey

settle down on your own and enjoy your time as a single lady go out to places like beach dancing clubs caffe hang out with friends exercise your free spirit and the right man will come you will not believe how it happen becuase you will have time to choose who love you and you him too

that is my advice goodluck

in any way i think its difficult to find an husband on internet

not more difficult than in real life

you just do not know enough examples

Wow, adults are funny!! Why do you want or need a husband anyway? I don´t get it. 

Life is funny. Only death is not! Marry me?

I will put Pagliaccio up for the new Turkish Class "marry me " auction

ok folks lets get the bid going.....

He starts with the letter P  right after O ... oh my god I gotta P.......

do I hear any bids ok .......

lets start this with come on girls empty you out your purses and bid with it

do i hear 2 sticks of gum and a used eyebrow pencil......

So THAT is why he needed the only positive testimonials, no matter if they were true or not... To raise the price in the bidding!

yup  think about it : he  can write and read so he may take instructions well who knows if not just auction him off again....

is good deal maybe you can work him like a slave than sell him for a new nail polish or something...

any offers going once going twice  you can dress him up .....

spritzer!... I want to be sold to you!...

ohhhh sorry I am auctioneer meaning I can not bid on items I put up for auction but tell you what I will throw in a new leash and collar for you 

I found a stale pink peppermint candy and a pen in the bottom of my purse!

I am sure barba will offer you  a good price. She can perfecktly sell me to you - who cares if you are an auctioneer or not. I do want to be sold to you!....

good opening do I hear any other offers .....

going once............

himm I am getting hungry and that peppermint might just do the trick

going twice...........

we might have a new home for P soon enough

I wonder..why almost all women are looking after a husband..I think 2 peoples can be happier with or without that certificate (in my country is a pink one....crude reality..)

Most women I know are not looking for a husband, but they are either in a commited long term relationship (most of them without being married). Some are single but not looking for anything in particular, but would be happy to have a nice man come along their way.

The married people that I do know are either old-school, or got married because it would be easier with official things (since they had kids, or a foreign partner and needed to arrange visa stuff).

By the way, what will people offer me to find a good "solution" for our irritating-boy-problem?

 I know!! They´re looking especially for a TURKISH HUSBAND! But I can´t blame them, turkish men are hot.  Agreed?

Pagliaccio-You are bidding yourself on a ´Looking for Turkish Husband´ thread. HAHAHA!

Well since I´m nice I´ll place my bid at $1,000 for you to be my pool boy. And cook. ;p

(And that´s how you do it ladies)

Experience?

gee amber you bid too high i was about to let him go for old peppermint and a pen

do you want him in costume or just want a towel boy

Before you buy anything not worth bidding,don´t you think you should make yourselves familiar with the book,girls?

Guys! Silence!!... I just returned home, am tired and have still a lot to do. But nobody shall doubt that everyone involved in this thread will, maybe tomorrow, receive what they deserve. For the time being, feel free to continue to enjoy your time here!

Have fun, guys!

you right..if I will compare turkish men to men from my country..indeed..turkish one are better..more romantic, sweet...but...men are men....in all cultures...looking after women..like animals

HOT! My ovaries (yumurtalık) are going wild!

 Good God!?! Over a coupon???

Not over the coupon, but of the extra hot Turkish guy I´ve posted a pic off...we all can see that indeed, ALL Turkish men are hot.

Pagliaccio is a turkish man

He is therefore hot.

So, marry him?

I can fix this

fix what? washing-maschine? computer? my problems? and show us your tools to fix whatever you imply!

Oh baby you just burn everything up with your hotness, my screen was on fire.  I figured I needed to cool you off a little so that we may watch your hotness....... Just remember the other Turks on here don´t hold a candle to your hotness

I think we need to start the bidding again on you and now that I see your true self I am willinbg to throw your way one commodore computer ( doesn´t work but it still hums a little ) a pair of Nike running shoes ( one size 40 the other 44 ) 2 pieces of gum ( I found them in last years spring jacket along with one not used just wrinkled kleenex) Front wheel of moped ( don´t know where the rest of it is ) and jeez all these girls that send send cell phones baby I am going to send you one that you can never lose and all the other people will see it too to know you have one. You can carry it like a boombox on your shoulder   so cool eh baby.... and anytime I call you  I will know you can´t say you could not find your phone

I see that I somehow manage to keep you busy for about 10 ten minutes just to receive a reply to my post, not to mention how long you were busy with me inside yourself. Not too bad for a beginning. Now it is time to confess to yourself, -forget about us-, that I started to distort your balance.

Welcome to pagliaccio´s world, spritzer! Please get comfortable!... There is a lot to discover and experience there.

 But honestly, you can´t judge a Turkish man by his cover.  So I would personally, if I wanted a Turkish Husband, would first:

#1.) Live together first. You will really get to know each other more ;p

#2.) Have sex before marriage. If he´s not good or turns out to be a girl, can´t say I didn´t warn you. (My dad actually told me this)

#3.) DONT HAVE KIDS.

So when, and yes someday I will look for a Turkish man, these are my rules.

+10 anyone?

Lots of guys (not only Turkish!) won´t have any problem with your rule #2, rule #1 will be a little more complicated as family might frown upon it and rule #3 makes it almost impossible to have a Turkish bf. 

I think Amber and Pagliaccio are just made for each other  .  Amber is in Turkey now so I´m sure they can meet up and sail happily away into the sunset together and leave the rest of us in peace.

(but she moves around a bit - so he´ll have to make his move quickly - probably before her next post)

Do I hear wedding bells? Oh no, Amber doesn´t want to marry. Is there a variant for living together?

I am sure pesce pagliaccio is very sure of his powers of persuasion!

 Why do you say this?

I just feel you have something in common...don´t ask what

 umm errrrr that´s a bit direct isn´it . Not sure we all need this info

 umm errrrr that´s a bit direct isn´it . Not sure we all need this info

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! "Not to bad for a beginning." Thats the FIRST way to ruin a relationship!

I don´t think any bad was meant by this 

but if you have a dirty mind wear it

Just a tiny correction, my lady-in-red: I think you meant ptaszek and pagliaccio, no?

 + 1000(I wanted to offer u a glass of tea but there are not this emoticon here..so...is a cup of tea...)...

 the best thing before marriage is to live together for 1 year at least (and have sex of course)..and dont have kids in the first 10 years after marriage..if you can survive....you will live happily ever after.....

If i will marry at 40..shall i wait 10 years till i will be 50 to make a baby ?

I dont think it could be possible

What happenned?? I had my head in my purse looking for other things to bid with and I see 1000?  My first date was not that expensive!  Well that will teach me to get distracted with hunting through my purse :S

Straight to the point: marry me? - with or without purse!

sheesh if I would have known the proposals would fly this fast I would have posted here a long time ago!

you will only find a desperate man this way, and all the modern world is full of rotten people - be careful

 uhum...

*rolls eyes and points at pagliaccio*

My my my, we have some people that have a gloomy view of the world!  Why look at it with "the world is full of rotten people"  What about the good people that are forgotten because we only see the rotten?  I would rather think there are good people out there than think of the rotten ones.

I am flattered by pag´s proposal, unlike some men who are with a woman for 20 years or more and never propose to them.

Seems like the art of flirting has been forgotten somewhere along the way,  I have received proposals just for being able to speak English or being able to make the perfect Martini or cook the perfect meal and this in front of my boyfriend, every time I smiled and kissed the gentleman on the cheek and said thank you.

So pag, I smile at you, kiss your cheek and flutter my blue eyes at you and say thank you!

Don´t mention it, stumpy! Anyone in my shoes would do the same! Something like a duty of citizenship!